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Bleeding after illegal abortion

By Dear Dudu | Apr 01, 2011 | COMMENTS [ 76 ]

I AM 19 years old and in matric. Last year, I had an illegal abortion and I do not think it was done correctly.

I went to the hospital and to a private doctor, but was too scared and ashamed to tell them what I did.

I told them that I was having problems with my periods.

I did not receive any help.

I have not had sex since the abortion and I am not using contraceptives.

I am so scared because I bleed continuously.

Please tell me what to do. Too scared, Rosettenville

Dudu responds,

It is understandable that you are scared to tell the doctor that you had an abortion.

However, you will not receive the correct help unless you are honest.

Tell the doctor the truth and remember that everything you say to the doctor is held in the strictest confidence.

The doctor will have to give you an internal examination, which might be uncomfortable, but is totally necessary to be able to heal you.

Things are not going to get better on their own, so the sooner you see a doctor and receive treatment, the sooner you will be able to lead a healthy life.


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eish you are saying it ilegal arbortion and you went for it pls kgaogana le dear Dudu.Go to backroom clinic where you did this abortion and tell them to finish what they started.And for future sake there are many young people your age facing serious problems and wena o tla ka bo jaagse mo.nxx
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Mojwetse Ntate, tell her a ye Ko backroom clinic how do u perform such illegal acts When abortion is free and legal in S.A

Aug 01, 2011 3:27 | 0 replies


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Apr 01, 2011 1:13 | 0 replies

Men, please bafethu, let’s stop using power and money to destroy society. It’s our responsibility to initiate condom use because we carry the sperm bafethu. Let’s stop blaming women and show them that we are responsible enough to make the right decisions. This will go a long way

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Apr 01, 2011 12:53 | 0 replies

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Apr 01, 2011 12:51 | 0 replies

Im sure she did it at "Dr Banda" or "Dr Joseph".

my surname is Banda & i find that comment very offensive,you dont have to use people's surnames in this case ,if you cant write fair comments then dont comment @ all

Apr 01, 2011 12:50 | 0 replies

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Apr 01, 2011 12:39 | 0 replies

shame on you for killing an innocent child, at 19 yrs you should be focusing on your studies.
better if u have died in that arbortion room...nxa sies!

Apr 01, 2011 12:1 | 0 replies

There is nothing that p@sses me off more that someone who rejects his baby, especially a grown man!
BIG UPS @Bumboklaat - maybe u shud tell someone by the surname Mothupi out there who also rejected his child, sies at his age.

Apr 01, 2011 11:47 | 0 replies

thats sisterwood.
it is amazing how all the murderes are worried to the anexperienced murderer
now she mast clean herself ahm!

sex is reserved when u are married, marra girls, like to disrespect the holly law

Apr 01, 2011 11:42 | 0 replies

You are bleeding continuously from last year? haibo!!! Go to a gynecologist, so that you can be cleaned properly, otherwise you wont be able to have kids in future - you are not scared of aids, but you are scared of telling the doctors and nurses about the illegal abortion

Apr 01, 2011 11:24 | 0 replies

poetic justice, you killed a life.....bleeding will kill you slowly.

you like fcking, killing , now you complain
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Apr 01, 2011 11:17 | 0 replies