I AM 18 years old and have just written my matric. I am in love with a 22-year-old man.
When we had sex I was not on the pill and he did not use a condom.
18yrs and o busy o nyobana le motho wa 22 yrs. O kare o ka ba pregnant and deliver the baby while on the other hand your so called boyfriend leaves you for another stupid victim like you.
Nxa - la tena maan, The media, schools, community centres preach about safe sex everyday mara le busy le dira bana...sies. Report Abuse
Dec 24, 2010
Bossk
Jeez Kuku, ease up on the temper. Remember she is still young and threfore prone to make mistakes. Go to a proper medical facility to terminate the pregnancy cause it seems you are not ready for motherhood. Let it serve as a lesson that having sex without a condom can have serious repercussions. Report Abuse
Dec 24, 2010
D--VO
Yes Kuku ..abantwana bayathanda ukulalwa ...they dnt think .
Grl it is yo future we talking abt ...do wat is best for u.Grlz must start 2 use glz condoms qha !!! Report Abuse
Dec 24, 2010
Jethro
@Kuku. you know these things happen. The last thing that she needs is for grown ups like you to lambast and curse her. Yes, they always preach safe or no sex on the media but the reality is that these kids still have sex. she will learn from her mistakes. KUKU(Biscuit) you should have more understanding because you are also woman..........ao!! Report Abuse
Dec 24, 2010
wakb
oh shem bandla,
do not terminate that baby. rather give birth to it and you can start again, it may be hard but dont you abort that lil one. u will have regrets for the rest of your life.
you parents will be angry but they will grow to love your baby. Report Abuse
Dec 28, 2010
sqhobosho
dont cry cause uzenzile, HIV, AIDS, PREGNANCY is coming to you for your carelessness Report Abuse
Dec 28, 2010
Loveylee
What is wrong with gal? doesn't she know that you can do 10 abortions but not abort HIV is she for real??? Report Abuse
Dec 28, 2010
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mudle kudla kwakhe .......18 years usuyalala without protection wawucabanga ukuthi kuzoba amaswidi well go get tested and see the result ....uze uyikhiphe leyongane ........ but on a serious note lezingane ziyahlupha jong........ manje whose fault is it??? like really now kids please grow abafana bama test and go so indaba izosala nani.......protects yourselves nizoba ryt !!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Dec 29, 2010
NIKITAH
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa KUKU wena habawunyobi dont be jelouse . Report Abuse
Dec 29, 2010
MrsRight
If we can all just get off our high horses. How many times have you been told not to do something but end up doing it? How many of us our mother had when they were 18? Would you rather she was judged? Atleast she is brave enough to ask for advice. Okay, the damage has been done little girl what now? What's the worst thing that could happen if you have the baby, your parents will scream, ill treat you but they will not kill you. It may not have been planned but it is still a blessing. If you terminate you can get away with it or you can die. Make your decision and learn from this. Weigh your options and speak to someone, it may not be as bad as it seem now... there! Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2011
MmaMorutiChris
BossK, Would you actually advice someone to abort a child. CLEARLY theres sometrhing wrong with you. Report Abuse
Jan 18, 2011
Oakgona
My dear you should not be much worried about the pregnancy because you can apologize to your parents and they will forgive you and you will give birth, ractify your mistake by continuing with your studies and finally take care of your child.
But if you are HIV positive there is nothing you can do my sister and you are still young.
Please focus on your studies and forget about sex and if you can't please get ladies condoms and preserve your life. Report Abuse
Jan 26, 2011
phantsa
@KUKU THIS THINGS HAPPEN, OSA IKETSA BETTER ONE DAY IT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU. Report Abuse
You dont have to bare all that on your own. tell your parents, they cant hate you - you are their child.
careful from whom you take advise, your friend ended up in hospital, you might end up dead. a child as you are, you have to make huge life changing decisions. Report Abuse
Le rata go nyobiwa le sa le bana too much bjale o nagana gore nama ka nama e save, ba tla go nyoba ba go imisa, ba go tsentsha AIDS wa swba Report Abuse
Mar 15, 2011
tasty
Eish some pple talk as if they were virgins until 25 years kanti they also started early, some of them did not even reach 21 years, they were lucky cause they didnt fall pregnant now they think they are better and can judge other people. Give the girl a break. We all make mistakes in life and we learn by them. And she has written her matric. 18 and 22 is not bad. What about 21 and 50. Report Abuse
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KUKU
18yrs and o busy o nyobana le motho wa 22 yrs. O kare o ka ba pregnant and deliver the baby while on the other hand your so called boyfriend leaves you for another stupid victim like you.Nxa - la tena maan, The media, schools, community centres preach about safe sex everyday mara le busy le dira bana...sies.
Report Abuse
Bossk
Jeez Kuku, ease up on the temper. Remember she is still young and threfore prone to make mistakes. Go to a proper medical facility to terminate the pregnancy cause it seems you are not ready for motherhood. Let it serve as a lesson that having sex without a condom can have serious repercussions.Report Abuse
D--VO
Yes Kuku ..abantwana bayathanda ukulalwa ...they dnt think .Grl it is yo future we talking abt ...do wat is best for u.Grlz must start 2 use glz condoms qha !!!
Report Abuse
Jethro
@Kuku. you know these things happen. The last thing that she needs is for grown ups like you to lambast and curse her. Yes, they always preach safe or no sex on the media but the reality is that these kids still have sex. she will learn from her mistakes. KUKU(Biscuit) you should have more understanding because you are also woman..........ao!!Report Abuse
wakb
oh shem bandla,do not terminate that baby. rather give birth to it and you can start again, it may be hard but dont you abort that lil one. u will have regrets for the rest of your life.
you parents will be angry but they will grow to love your baby.
Report Abuse
sqhobosho
dont cry cause uzenzile, HIV, AIDS, PREGNANCY is coming to you for your carelessnessReport Abuse
Loveylee
What is wrong with gal? doesn't she know that you can do 10 abortions but not abort HIV is she for real???Report Abuse
shooyy
Wonderful.Click on my website shopping！！!
(=======http://www.findsoso.com =======
(====http://www.findsdoso.com=== )
Believe you will love it.
free transport. We accept any form of payment
Report Abuse
TEE_TEE
mudle kudla kwakhe .......18 years usuyalala without protection wawucabanga ukuthi kuzoba amaswidi well go get tested and see the result ....uze uyikhiphe leyongane ........ but on a serious note lezingane ziyahlupha jong........ manje whose fault is it??? like really now kids please grow abafana bama test and go so indaba izosala nani.......protects yourselves nizoba ryt !!!!!!!!Report Abuse
NIKITAH
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa KUKU wena habawunyobi dont be jelouse .Report Abuse
MrsRight
If we can all just get off our high horses. How many times have you been told not to do something but end up doing it? How many of us our mother had when they were 18? Would you rather she was judged? Atleast she is brave enough to ask for advice. Okay, the damage has been done little girl what now? What's the worst thing that could happen if you have the baby, your parents will scream, ill treat you but they will not kill you. It may not have been planned but it is still a blessing. If you terminate you can get away with it or you can die. Make your decision and learn from this. Weigh your options and speak to someone, it may not be as bad as it seem now... there!Report Abuse
MmaMorutiChris
BossK, Would you actually advice someone to abort a child. CLEARLY theres sometrhing wrong with you.Report Abuse
Oakgona
My dear you should not be much worried about the pregnancy because you can apologize to your parents and they will forgive you and you will give birth, ractify your mistake by continuing with your studies and finally take care of your child.But if you are HIV positive there is nothing you can do my sister and you are still young.
Please focus on your studies and forget about sex and if you can't please get ladies condoms and preserve your life.
Report Abuse
phantsa
@KUKU THIS THINGS HAPPEN, OSA IKETSA BETTER ONE DAY IT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.Report Abuse
Setlhoba
ke di-tlamorago tsa bofebeReport Abuse
know-it-all
You dont have to bare all that on your own. tell your parents, they cant hate you - you are their child.careful from whom you take advise, your friend ended up in hospital, you might end up dead. a child as you are, you have to make huge life changing decisions.
Report Abuse
buda08
KUKU dnt u get some???Report Abuse
KAMZAAA
Le rata go nyobiwa le sa le bana too much bjale o nagana gore nama ka nama e save, ba tla go nyoba ba go imisa, ba go tsentsha AIDS wa swbaReport Abuse
tasty
Eish some pple talk as if they were virgins until 25 years kanti they also started early, some of them did not even reach 21 years, they were lucky cause they didnt fall pregnant now they think they are better and can judge other people. Give the girl a break. We all make mistakes in life and we learn by them. And she has written her matric. 18 and 22 is not bad. What about 21 and 50.Report Abuse
phaladism1987
lol lol lol .............Report Abuse
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