Unfaithful boyfriend is driving me to suicide
I AM 22 years old and I am in love with a 29-year-old man. We have been together for three years and we plan to get married soon.
My problem is that I don't trust him because he is a womaniser.
I knew about his reputation when I met him, but I thought he would be different with me.
Every time I catch him out he promises he will stop the affair. Then he meets another women and it starts all over again.
The last time this happened I told him to go to hell, but he came back and begged me to give him another chance.
I forgave him and I though everything was going well between us.
The last straw was when one of his girlfriends came to his house while I was there. I was so angry I could have killed them both.
I cried and asked him what I had done to deserve to be treated in this way?
I think it would be better for me to leave my family and go far away or even commit suicide. I cannot go on like this any longer. I have suffered enough.
Please help me Dudu. Beside myself, Florida
Suicide is definitely not the answer and neither is leaving your family.
Consider how terribly you would hurt your family your family if you were to kill yourself.
You are a young woman with your whole life ahead of you. This man is certainly not worth the anguish he is causing you. I cannot tell you what to do, but I urge you to think very carefully about what you want from life.
This man is a serial cheat and has shown you that he has no intention of changing his ways.
Do you want to marry a man who shows you no respect, who cheats and lies to you? This is not a sound basis on which to start a marriage.
Are you not worth more than what he is offering you? You deserve far better treatment, so give yourself a chance.