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I later found out that he was cheating on me. He moved in with another woman, but apparently this didn't work out because he came back to me and asked for another chance.

He promised he would never do it again.

I then started receiving phone calls from a woman telling me to tell my husband to leave her alone. I told him I wanted a divorce and he refused. He said he would never move out of our home again and would never leave me.

I have had enough of his lies and cheating. I am also worried about my children because he is confusing them.I don't love him anymore because he has hurt me so much.

Unless we get a divorce I feel I cannot go on with my life and I am so very unhappy.

I really don't want him in my life anymore and I just want to get a divorce.

What should I do? DO, Germiston

Dudu says:

I am sorry that you find yourself in such a difficult and painful situation.

Your husband has proved to be a liar and a cheat. If he were seriously sorry about cheating on you you would not still be receiving phone calls from another woman.

If you are sure you do not want to be in this marriage you will have to seek legal advice from an attorney.

It is possible to get a court order to remove him from the house and even if he does not want a divorce it is possible for you to go ahead.

Your most important consideration is your children.

It is really important that they don't suffer in the process.

Try and ensure that they maintain a relationship with their father. This is a difficult process and will need courage and determination.

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Wed May 22 20:29:50 SAST 2013 ::

Oct 1, 2010

tpaz

i dont love him anymore...wara wara.......so what do you want go get a divorce and stop whining.
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Oct 1, 2010

MsT

Call your lawyer girl. Couldn't you figure that out for yourself? Mxm.....
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Oct 1, 2010

RAMBO

THIS LADY ALREADY KNWS WHAT SHE WANTS,,,,
NO MATTER WAT WE SAY OR WAT THE ADVICE WE WILL GIVE
IT WONT MATTER COZ ALREADY SHE HAS MADE HER MIND...

AND SHE CANT BE WRONG WITH THAT COZ LIKE THEY SAY-"IT
BEGINS WITH YOU"
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Oct 1, 2010

Poonchy

Divorce the guy and move on with your life and your kids, you dont deserve him at all, the worse part unabantwana abadala he is a dog.
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Oct 1, 2010

mamoruti

@Rambo true that she knows ecxatly what to do, if he is not willing to move she must move out and start over somewhere peacefully
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Oct 1, 2010

hunnybunny

DO GERMISTON, file for divorce when the papers are served on your no good hubby, he will have no choice but to sign them. Alternatively he will have to go to Court and explain himself. this is a clear case of a marriage that has "broken down irretrievably" i feel for you, but don't rely on his word, he's clearly a liar and an obvious cheat. if you stay he will do it again and again. for your own sake as well as your children's sake...leave and close that chapter of your life. Good Luck.
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Oct 1, 2010

ShukskaShudu

Iyo! this man is such a wimp, can you imagine? sister stop the I dont love him anymore "yada - yada) and divorce the hell outta him!
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Oct 1, 2010

NTANDA

Be careful girl @ that stage of the marriage man can do anything even killing you and your kids.
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Oct 1, 2010

Maleri

He is a liar that is all I can say and he will not change anytime soon. O DULA GODIMA KELELLO so forget Ausi before o kula or just go and test if you are positive stay strong if negetive stay negetive WISH U ALL THE BEST.
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Oct 1, 2010

Makhosini

Let him go sister.
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