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Is a gigantic penis really better? Malik's big 4-5 scares ladies away

By Karabo Disetlhe-Mtshayelo | 2016-11-30 12:09:57.0 | COMMENTS [ 96 ]

For as long as we can remember, size has always been a hot topic in the bedroom, and the general consensus has always been "the bigger, the better".

But, when most of us hear the story of a Nigerian woman who filed for divorce after only one week of marriage because her husband was "too big", it made us sit back and introspect.

Is a gigantic penis really better?

While most people have often thought that men who are well-endowed have a big ego, some men who are too well-endowed can scare potential partners away the minute they drop their pants, and that can take a knock to their self-esteem, making the concept of being the big Kahuna not so appealing anymore.

What is an 'average' size for a penis?

One such person who can relate is 26-year-old musician Romeo Malik, a Congo native who stays in Johannesburg. Malik says being big is not a blessing as some people think. Coincidentally, Congo, where Malik is from, has come up in many statistics as being the country with the most well-endowed men in the world.

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"From a young age, I have always been teased about it, even by relatives.

"They often would say that I'm a man stuck in a child's body, and that my wife would one day be tortured.

"That made me very self-conscious about it. So I grew up knowing that I was not of the average size as my peers."

When Malik reached puberty, his manhood had reached a substantial 10 inches in length, and when he started being sexually active, it became a problem.

"Women would scream murder when we made love, and that would basically be the last time I saw them.

"I have not had a serious relationship to this day, because the minute they discover what I have to offer in bed, they run a mile. It is really disheartening."

Despite this, Malik says he has no hopes of reducing his manhood, as he believes God gave it to him for a reason, and he still hopes that he will one day settle down with a woman who will love him for who he is, and start a family.

Sex therapist Godivah says most people have the mentality that having a larger-than-life penis is ideal, but it's not often the case.

"Men of every nationality all over the world who have giant penises are sought after by women, as well as the porn industry, to such a degree that the media would have us believe that they are the ideal size."

Godivah says that women can have sex with men with extremely large penises, but it is all a matter of learning how to.

"My advice to women who encounter a man with a larger-than-normal size would be to stock up on lubrication.

"My recommendation would be a water-based lube such as KY Jelly for condom users, and cold-pressed oils such as coconut or olive oil for committed and tested monogamous couples," she said.

"Nerves also tend to play a role so you need to calm down because the more you tense up, the more tense and painful things will be. Some women also think that being drunk will help them get through it, which is not the case.

"Actually, being drunk has the opposite effect in that you will not realise when things are getting unbearable, and you could really hurt yourself in the process.

"Go slow, take your time and you will find that over time, your elastic vagina adapts to the size of your man, big or small."

Godivah offers advice about what positions are ideal for couples with this unique problem in the bedroom.

"The best position is the missionary position, as well as him lying on his side."

As for the men with a giant penises, Godivah says that her best advice would be to respect their partner and not rush the sex but rather ease into things until their partner's body has adjusted accordingly.

 

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Tehadra

I'll open up this discussion for the ladies:
Knock yourself Ladies!!

2016-11-30 12:16:41.0 | 3 replies
2016-11-30 12:19:25.0 | 0 replies
2016-11-30 12:37:34.0 | 1 replies

Tehadra

Naturally!!

2016-11-30 13:05:20.0 | 0 replies

Grid_lock

you forgot to mention Sir ZRobinx, he likes from behind as well

2016-11-30 13:07:33.0 | 1 replies
2016-11-30 14:58:30.0 | 0 replies

Tehadra

Pic2: That "Door" looks like it leads to Hell
Most shacks have better doors than that contraption

2016-11-30 12:27:02.0 | 2 replies

Gaza-Nkulu

@Tehadra, don't you wanna taste the size of this guy?

2016-11-30 12:37:24.0 | 1 replies

Tehadra

Eh boi, you need to stop smoking Nyaope on month end!!!
What do i want with another man's cock when I have my own?

2016-11-30 13:06:32.0 | 1 replies

Gaza-Nkulu

Are you bisexual? your PP refrext a lady...

2016-11-30 13:37:25.0 | 0 replies
2016-11-30 12:43:39.0 | 0 replies

Geza_Ngobisi_Sula_Ngoshizi

Yoh yoh yoh, phela that thing qualifies for it's own identification document.

2016-11-30 12:27:16.0 | 0 replies

DIKOLOTO

What is this now. Eish rona bo d@rk!e. Some people are not showers but growers.

2016-11-30 12:39:08.0 | 0 replies

DeCock111

I doubt my self loving SWTNLive women would sleep with this man...he looks scary AF

2016-11-30 12:45:46.0 | 1 replies

s.cold

HE IS ADVERTISING HIMSELF,,I WANT THAT GUY TO SUE HIM FOR ADVERTISING AMANGA,,FCK BIG D!CK THESE LADIES WILL LEAVE YOU FOR KHULUBUSE AKA SMALL D!CK,,YOU BETTER HAVE MONEY,,BIG D!CK IS A BONUS,,,,COZ EVEN IF YOU DONT HAVE A D!CK BUT UNEMALI YOU WILL HAVE ANY BIACH YOU WANT

2016-11-30 12:59:54.0 | 1 replies

Hutton

UYIHLABE ESIKHONKOSINI. MINA I LOST A WOMAN TO A WEALTHY GUY....

2016-11-30 13:25:39.0 | 0 replies

DeCock111

He looks like a Zulu taxi rank marshal...

2016-11-30 12:46:51.0 | 2 replies

skwamasamabele1

Eishhh, wavele wakhonkotha ekuseni kangaka.

2016-11-30 12:49:26.0 | 1 replies

peter001

He looks like a Zulu taxi rank marshal... Skw or Cold

2016-11-30 12:52:04.0 | 2 replies

s.cold

YOU DONT KNOW MENE!!!I DONT DO STUPID CUTS AND IM NOT SKINNY,I DONT HAVE INDLU ENGCOLE SO,,,SO TAKE IT BACK BEFERE NGIKUDONSE NGALELIPITSHANA LAKHO LABANTWANA

2016-11-30 13:01:36.0 | 2 replies

Mshovekahle

INDLU ENGCOLILE LOL NGATHI LE NSIZWA IHLALA EHOSTEL NJE

2016-11-30 13:19:24.0 | 1 replies

skwamasamabele1

Hahahahaha!! Like scold and Popeye.

2016-11-30 13:21:20.0 | 1 replies

s.cold

AKUNAMA HOSTELA E PRETORIA EAST WENA ,,KUNE PLASTIC VIEW KUPHELA

2016-11-30 13:26:58.0 | 0 replies

peter001

s.cold S= FOR SMALL Cold for lack of firing power

2016-11-30 13:26:50.0 | 1 replies

s.cold

SMALL OR BIG FCK THAT,,I NEED MONEY SIR

2016-11-30 13:29:26.0 | 0 replies

skwamasamabele1

Peter- Are you sober today??? Your constant state of inebriation is a concern.

2016-11-30 13:14:48.0 | 1 replies

peter001

De Kock's statement detox me

2016-11-30 13:22:30.0 | 0 replies

Tehadra

Mina I thought it was you Mfo
Angithi you always go on and on about Decock

2016-11-30 13:14:35.0 | 0 replies

skwamasamabele1

(Is a gigantic penis really better?)

My late brother had IMPOLOMPOLO (that's what he called it), and he had 5 girlfriends at any one time. They all big smiles on their faces after sampling it.

Hope that answers the question.

2016-11-30 12:53:19.0 | 2 replies

Hutton

SL women bloggers are fake.. they cant share their experience.

2016-11-30 13:02:52.0 | 1 replies

ChunkuBabyOil

@Hutton you are fake not us

2016-11-30 14:53:02.0 | 0 replies

s.cold

I GUESS THAT IS WHY ESEFILE,,I LESSON IS UNGAPHAPHI NGOBA UNEPIP! ELIKHULU/IMPOLOMPOLO

2016-11-30 13:06:49.0 | 1 replies
2016-11-30 13:09:32.0 | 0 replies

Kupe

I'm off to Congo.

2016-11-30 12:54:53.0 | 3 replies

oldlady12

Kupe, I've booked my ticket already.

2016-11-30 12:58:14.0 | 3 replies

peter001

my real name is Kabila Shot left no need to fly

2016-11-30 13:00:10.0 | 0 replies

s.cold

ARENT YOU OLD FOR THAT,,JUST SIT DOWN AND ENJOY YOUR TEA @KU,PE FOTSEK GO DONT COME BACK CRYING USUNENGQUZA ENEZIMPETHU

2016-11-30 13:05:30.0 | 1 replies

oldlady12

s.cold, is JZ too old for that?

2016-11-30 13:54:40.0 | 1 replies

s.cold

HE IS MARRIED AND HE ALWAYS FCK HIS WIVES ,,THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT,,WHERE IS YOUR HUSBAND?

2016-11-30 14:12:02.0 | 1 replies

oldlady12

s.cold, so Khwesi was his wife?

2016-11-30 14:21:16.0 | 1 replies

s.cold

KE NYATSI,,,DO YOU KNOW THAT

2016-11-30 14:51:53.0 | 1 replies

oldlady12

s.cold, so what is your problem then calling me too old?

2016-11-30 14:53:55.0 | 1 replies

s.cold

BUT YOU ALWAYS SAY,YOU ARE OLD,,FCK OLD GO TO CONGO AND GET FCKED AND DIE THERE

2016-11-30 15:34:40.0 | 1 replies

oldlady12

s.cold, I was just going to see for myself, that's all. You have a dirty mind.

2016-11-30 15:38:03.0 | 2 replies

Brigen

LOL...OL, you cant blame the guy his still young and kinkiness is the way of life...LOL @ you have a dirty mind

2016-12-01 10:10:54.0 | 0 replies

s.cold

YES I DO,,IN FACT I, DIRTY

2016-12-01 10:18:05.0 | 0 replies

Popeye

ouma...the big size does not matter. A man with a small 4_5 can use his special skills or type of experience to make you happy...

2016-11-30 13:14:09.0 | 3 replies

skwamasamabele1

Hamba uye kwaMhlab-uyalingana, ukhulise lep!p! yakho ibe ngumthondosheshayo, LOL.

2016-11-30 13:17:22.0 | 1 replies

Popeye

...lol, usuyanya wena skwama manje...uwena onetotolozi...

2016-11-30 13:56:31.0 | 1 replies

skwamasamabele1

LOL, hayi, wena uyalisaba iqiniso.

2016-11-30 14:19:35.0 | 0 replies

oldlady12

Popeye, is that what your girlfriends always tell you?

2016-11-30 13:30:25.0 | 1 replies

Popeye

ouma, no. I'm not referring to myself...try me on 25 December for your Christmas gift...

2016-11-30 13:58:38.0 | 0 replies

Kupe

Only small men say that, Popeye.

2016-11-30 14:01:44.0 | 1 replies

Popeye

...hai Kupe, some men have big 4_5 but can't use it properly...WHY?

2016-11-30 14:21:18.0 | 3 replies

oldlady12

Popeye, now I get it. It's through your sexual experiences with men that you know this all.

2016-11-30 14:23:02.0 | 0 replies

skwamasamabele1

They drink too much.

2016-11-30 14:23:34.0 | 0 replies

Kupe

If they can’t use a big member, I am willing to help and guide – the problem is fixable. If it too small, there’s nothing a woman can do.

2016-11-30 14:39:25.0 | 1 replies

skwamasamabele1

Sies, Kupe, I always thought you were a 'lady', not a jezebel.

2016-11-30 14:51:59.0 | 1 replies

Kupe

Being a lady won’t doesn’t make one happy.

2016-11-30 15:27:10.0 | 1 replies

skwamasamabele1

Hahahahahaha! *clapping once*, I won't let my wife this this response, she might get silly ideas, lol.

2016-11-30 16:15:18.0 | 0 replies

Tehadra

Why go so far if you can come rest here with me, Dear?

2016-11-30 13:07:28.0 | 0 replies

skwamasamabele1

Kupe & OL- LOVL!!!

2016-11-30 13:13:16.0 | 0 replies

s.cold

SHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SON BAQOBE,,IM NOT THAT HAPPY NGOBA USUKA LE E-CONGO UZOBHEBHA IZINGANE ZETHU LA,,I WAS GONNA BE 100%HAPPY IF IT WAS A SOUTH AFRICAN,,,,FCK THEM ANYWAY,,IM LITTLE BIT DISSAPPOINTED,,GO BACK TO CONGO UYOBABULALA KHONA

2016-11-30 12:55:43.0 | 0 replies

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2016-11-30 12:57:00.0 | 0 replies
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