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By AFP Relax News | Aug 19, 2014 | COMMENTS [ 143 ]

Researchers from the Kinsey Institute conducted a study in the interest of understanding orgasm variation as it relates to sexual orientation and concluded that heterosexual women are the least likely to experience orgasms.

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mgijimi

This is the article that will have most comments at the end of the day but it was only introduced at almost midday, watch the space. Sowetan's bloggers' favourite topic SEX

Aug 19, 2014 11:13 | 2 replies
Aug 19, 2014 11:30 | 0 replies

sikamuntu

GOOD ADVICE: do something for yourself, for your family. Don't waste your time talking politics while others are enjoying their lives with money without minding politics. See how this South African woman became very wealthy just by buying and selling old and broken houses in any town or city. Very interesting. Go to HOUSESBYCITY.COM to see the companies she was using to do this. HOUSESBYCITY.COM , Wake up African people

Aug 19, 2014 2:54 | 0 replies
Aug 19, 2014 11:14 | 1 replies

sikamuntu

GOOD ADVICE: do something for yourself, for your family. Don't waste your time talking politics while others are enjoying their lives with money without minding politics. See how this South African woman became very wealthy just by buying and selling old and broken houses in any town or city. Very interesting. Go to HOUSESBYCITY.COM to see the companies she was using to do this. HOUSESBYCITY.COM , Wake up African people

Aug 19, 2014 2:54 | 0 replies

Budha

That's a kak story.

Aug 19, 2014 11:15 | 1 replies

TjoVtjo

Padre, is that you?

Aug 20, 2014 6:2 | 0 replies

SilentPartna

What I have noticed is that women experience orgasm when they are the once running the show, as in when they are the ones riding or doing most moves. When a man is in in control they rarely experience it because half the time we don't hit the right areas... so when they are in control they know how to direct the man's man to hit the right spot. I hope im right..

Aug 19, 2014 11:22 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 2:27 | 1 replies

sikamuntu

GOOD ADVICE: do something for yourself, for your family. Don't waste your time talking politics while others are enjoying their lives with money without minding politics. See how this South African woman became very wealthy just by buying and selling old and broken houses in any town or city. Very interesting. Go to HOUSESBYCITY.COM to see the companies she was using to do this. HOUSESBYCITY.COM , Wake up African people

Aug 19, 2014 2:54 | 0 replies

oldlady12

I think most women know that males can't really get us there, that's why we learn to help ourselves. This survey did not ask the right questions.

Aug 19, 2014 11:23 | 0 replies

Baboro

Are we promoting homosexuality here Sowetan or what? besides where's this Kinsey Institute? America? China? Lesotho?..

Aug 19, 2014 11:26 | 1 replies

MommaC

No, they are reporting statistics. Apparently, women are better lovers than men are. Kinsey was a pioneer in sexual study. Maybe if you boytjies knew more about his work, you would be as good at getting the job done as us women are :)

Aug 19, 2014 11:58 | 1 replies

Baboro

I'm not a boytjie when coming to that department Momma...

Aug 19, 2014 4:20 | 1 replies

MommaC

LOL - keep telling yourself that :)

Aug 19, 2014 4:30 | 0 replies

KingMay

Yes they are promoting homosexuality and it's very sad.

Aug 19, 2014 11:31 | 1 replies

RobinX

OH BULL, man, Grow a brain.

Aug 19, 2014 12:43 | 1 replies

mgijimi

Am getting tired of your bully attitude wena mdala, I will organise people to take you to an old age home

Aug 19, 2014 2:15 | 1 replies

RobinX

You're welcome to try. HA HA HA HA.

Aug 19, 2014 3:5 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 3:19 | 0 replies

kakadenamanje

Nonsense, I tell you!!!

Aug 19, 2014 11:33 | 0 replies

Pitso.MCCMA.SAFA

In a true love, it doesn’t matter who comes first and who is on top, the life goes on. This thing of studying orgasms is aiming at promoting adultery and infidelity. Rather than focusing on your partner and life plans, people would be hell-bent trying to find out who is pumping better and make a lot of noise on the bed, which is a conduit to scatter sexually transmitted diseases.

Aug 19, 2014 11:34 | 1 replies

Shredder

I agree with you here Pitso. Do you still want bloggers to show you and Dzel some gratitude for the contribution that you are making? LOL

Aug 19, 2014 12:5 | 1 replies

mgijimi

Lol there you go again, as bloggers we reward Pitso and Dzel, they are now our horonary doctors. I hope that makes them happy

Aug 19, 2014 2:18 | 0 replies

Shredder

That photo!!

Aug 19, 2014 11:35 | 2 replies

s.cold

I LIKE I LIKE V,,,,,,,,,SEXYYY ONE

Aug 19, 2014 11:52 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 11:56 | 0 replies

MommaC

It is the promo photo from 50 Shades of Gray.

Aug 19, 2014 11:58 | 1 replies

Shredder

Yeah! Sowetan always uses it when they talk about orgasm or should I say organism like someone said? LOVL

Aug 19, 2014 12:3 | 0 replies

Dkok

men dont like beeing told, women r scared to guide men, wht is good for women is mostly not the prefared way for men. whereas two women will know which areas matters most and will do just those. I agree with the studdy 100%

Aug 19, 2014 11:39 | 0 replies

Tabeya

I agree 100% @SilentParna = tru that we know what works for us and as long as some moegoes don't listen as we make requests shame we will stay dry as if nothing happened while the moegoe is celebrating AND THAT IS SO NOT FAIR

Aug 19, 2014 11:40 | 1 replies

SilentPartna

@Tabeya, Im glad im on the spot, no pun intended...

Aug 19, 2014 11:56 | 0 replies

FakiVoroso

They collected data from a total of 6,151 single men and women. Obviously these people are white hence Kinsey Institute. come conduct that survey in RSA

Aug 19, 2014 11:44 | 2 replies

RobinX

Um, I suppose you do know that there are black people in America, don't you. Before your pathetic racist blinkers get too much in the way.

Aug 19, 2014 12:45 | 0 replies

MommaC

Did you get tired of reading before it got down to the parameters of the study?

Aug 19, 2014 12:51 | 0 replies

Mhimhi

I agree with this article, I know from experience.

Aug 19, 2014 11:47 | 0 replies

Home_wrecker

I experience mine daily, even with self -help. No problem.

Aug 19, 2014 11:48 | 2 replies

SilentPartna

@Home, I hear you guys enjoy the self help more than the real thing, how true is this?

Aug 19, 2014 11:58 | 1 replies

Home_wrecker

Because i know which places need more stimulation.

Aug 19, 2014 12:9 | 1 replies

Hosh6

Which places are those?

Aug 19, 2014 12:22 | 1 replies

Hutton

@hosh6 get out of my sight. Babe, stop talking to this pervert

Aug 19, 2014 2:30 | 0 replies

mgijimi

Home wrecker wa skomora gante?

Aug 19, 2014 2:20 | 0 replies

lule

how do you react to orgasm!!!!

Aug 19, 2014 12:5 | 1 replies

s.cold

SOME CRY SOME LAUGH AND SOME JUST FART LOLO!!!!!!!

Aug 19, 2014 12:9 | 0 replies

s.cold

THE STUDY IS CORRECT,,,THINA SISHAYA I 1 ROUND EKHATHELE BESE SIYALALA,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,BUT THANKS TO PRODUCTS LIKE VIAGRA,CIALIS,MAXIMOR,SPANISH GUM,MPESU,TIYE LASE MORIYA ETC

Aug 19, 2014 12:6 | 2 replies

Hosh6

Ey mageza this saturday I was with my ex and she slept at my place. I consumed heineken excessively the whole f ucking day and I only f ucked her one round less than 10 min and afterwards I immediately slept.#smh

Aug 19, 2014 12:21 | 1 replies

s.cold

HA HA HA HA HA DONT WORRY IM IMMUNE TO THAT,,,,,,,LESSON KUKU FIRST THEN BEER,,,KUKU WHILE DRINKING,,,THEN KUKU BEFORE YOU SLEEP NE!!

Aug 19, 2014 12:39 | 1 replies

Hosh6

The thing is I was f ucken drunk and sex was the last thing on my mind, even when we woke up I did nothing as I was still tired.

Aug 19, 2014 12:58 | 1 replies

mgijimi

Gay tendency, caring less about kuku

Aug 19, 2014 2:22 | 1 replies

Hosh6

I dare you to drink beer from 11.00am until 22.00pm and try to have sex afterwards.

Aug 19, 2014 2:27 | 1 replies

mgijimi

where was your ex while drinking beer?

Aug 19, 2014 3:6 | 1 replies

Hosh6

She came around past 8 in the evening, we watched chiefs' game at this club and after we went to sleep.

Aug 19, 2014 3:15 | 1 replies

mgijimi

As long as you f**k her one round all night, she will never regret leaving you. you must limit on beer and go more on kuku baba

Aug 19, 2014 3:23 | 0 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:56 | 0 replies

Shredder

The lady on the photo looks like Ruralgirl

Aug 19, 2014 12:6 | 0 replies

RobinX

WHAT BULL! Some straight men have done their homework and know what tongues etc. are for, and don't just charge the hole for a wham-bam-thankyou-Ma'am.

Aug 19, 2014 12:7 | 2 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:9 | 0 replies

s.cold

I LIKE I LIKE SON,,,,THIS IS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT,,,,,WELL DONE @SIR RONINX

Aug 19, 2014 12:9 | 1 replies

Shredder

LOL. RobinX will give some tips

Aug 19, 2014 12:28 | 0 replies

RobinX

What COMPLETE BULL! Some straight men have done their homework and know what tongues, lips, etc. can do, and don't just charge the hole like a bull at a gate.

Aug 19, 2014 12:10 | 0 replies

Home_wrecker

Men are clueless when it comes to satisfying a woman. Hence, most women don't experience orgasm during sex.

Aug 19, 2014 12:10 | 2 replies

Tabeya

Spot on sisi and I hear them defending themselves. Worse those who goes straight to the game with no warming up exercises, I mean c'mon guys. I dated a guy years back and he luvd being sucked... I did once or twice then I said NO reason being that he enjoyed being given head but yena he wouldn't. He was so embarrassed when I told him I'm aware of his game nxa b@stard!

Aug 19, 2014 12:21 | 0 replies

Hutton

try me love, i don't dring, a don't smoke.. ngiyachatha kuphela!!

Aug 19, 2014 2:32 | 0 replies

RobinX

What COMPL ETE BU LL! Some strai ght men have done their homewo rk and know what tong ues, lips, etc. can do, and don't just cha rge the ho le like a bu ll at a gate.

Aug 19, 2014 12:11 | 0 replies

RobinX

What COMPLETE BULL!

Aug 19, 2014 12:11 | 0 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:11 | 0 replies

RobinX

Sorry about the repeats, people. SOWETAN responses slow again.

Aug 19, 2014 12:13 | 3 replies

Home_wrecker

I thought you were busy helping yourself there, to prove your point.

Aug 19, 2014 12:21 | 1 replies

Jengele

LOL and LOLO!

Aug 19, 2014 1:5 | 0 replies

Jengele

I see the network problems are all over CT today.

Aug 19, 2014 1:4 | 0 replies

mgijimi

apology accepted we know after lunch you lose focus a bit next time do not miss your medication time.

Aug 19, 2014 2:26 | 0 replies

Hosh6

Geez dude did you have to repeat that bull so many times? What the f uck is wrong with you today Robin?

Aug 19, 2014 12:18 | 1 replies

RobinX

Can you read my apology moron!

Aug 19, 2014 12:21 | 0 replies

kakadenamanje

If the study is correct, then I must say men are failing dismally at making sure that women reach the destination as well. However, I totally disagree. Its a give and take situation, i.e if the guy is good, they will be no holding back. Straight women do enjoy orgasm and even multiple ones for that matter.

Aug 19, 2014 12:20 | 0 replies

kakadenamanje

@Home_wrecker, keeping on looking. If not you need to start teaching your man how to go about it.

Aug 19, 2014 12:21 | 0 replies

lule

LOL S.Cold are you telling me you already enhancing your game with those products....thought you need no Viagra.....Farting hahahahaha if its doggy ya

Aug 19, 2014 12:22 | 1 replies

s.cold

THATS MY SECRETE,,,,THAT IS WHY IM ALWAYS LAUGHING WHEN OTHER PEOPLE'S GF COMPLEMENT ME AND BE MAD AT PEOPLE LIKE YOU,,,MINA I DO NOT LESS THAN HOT 45MIN UP TO 3 HOURS,,,NGESIVININI COS NGIYA BOOSTER,,,,,,,,,,KADE NGANGIWELWA IPIPI OR NGISHAYE U 3 SEC NGIHLEKWE IBABY MANJE IM WISER LOL!!!

Aug 19, 2014 12:52 | 0 replies

Home_wrecker

As a guy you should know these things

Aug 19, 2014 12:23 | 0 replies

Maduvula

try to turn her around and in all directions, put your head between her legs and eat that thing, I tell you she'll follow you to the bar.

Aug 19, 2014 12:24 | 1 replies

Jengele

LOL! We are listening Mr President.

Aug 19, 2014 1:8 | 0 replies

lule

every man on this blog is a sex hero....i give up....but only if our partners could be reached for comments,then we can know who real man are.

Aug 19, 2014 12:32 | 1 replies

Maduvula

yah neh. or the sisters in law.....!

Aug 19, 2014 12:41 | 1 replies

s.cold

HA HA HA HA HA SISTER IN LAW,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,THAT IS WHY I ALWAYS SUPER CHARGE,,,VIAGRA IS THE BEST

Aug 19, 2014 12:49 | 1 replies

Maduvula

heard from my sister in law how her baby sister is having a good time.....! her younger sister told her....

Aug 19, 2014 1:1 | 0 replies

Ruralgirl

sex...sex...sex...we really are just sexual beings! I wonder whether some people will continue to live if SEX was to be srcapped off our experiences in this lifetime!

Aug 19, 2014 12:36 | 1 replies

s.cold

MINA NGINGABA I STREET KID ONCE,,,I KNOW UKUTHI IM WHERE IM AT RITE NOW JUST BECAUSE OF IK.UKU,,,,UMA NGISE VARSITY,,,I USED TO FANTASIZE DRIVING MY M3 CHANGING DIFFERENT KU.KU'S BUT LITTLE NGESONTO AND FAMILY MATTERS,,,MEANING S3X IS A MOTIVATION,,,S3X IS MONEY,,,S3X IS LIFE,,,S3X IMNANDI,,,,

Aug 19, 2014 12:45 | 0 replies

Ruralgirl

sex......sex...sex.....and sex again! Dont we all just love it!

Aug 19, 2014 12:37 | 0 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:38 | 1 replies

Shredder

I blame RobinX

Aug 19, 2014 12:40 | 1 replies

RobinX

lol. AT least, unlike Hoshie I don't see a few slaps as fore-play.

Aug 19, 2014 12:42 | 2 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:43 | 0 replies

Hosh6

@Robin I say to hell with fore-play, first round is for me if she wants to play we can do that on the next rounds. I only demand blow job after I had my first round and I will never put my tongue into her p ussy unless she takes a bath while I'm watching her before I do so.

Aug 19, 2014 1:4 | 1 replies

RobinX

As I said, that sort of selfish sexism is not for me. I believe in actually trying to satisfy my partner, and try to consider her needs. But hey, you clealry don't care about anyone other than yourself, so help yourself, Boet. Let's see how loudly your women sing your praises.

Aug 19, 2014 1:12 | 1 replies

Hosh6

You must leave young women and stop worrying about satisfying them. Go after your peers Robin and stop acting like a child.

Aug 19, 2014 1:35 | 1 replies

RobinX

I'm doing just fine, laaitie. And with respect, my lady is quite happy. I'm not the one with njuvenile attitudes towars s e x, my Skapie. That would be you. Now off you go and ask mummy for your bottie.

Aug 19, 2014 1:40 | 1 replies

Hosh6

How old is your cherrie Robin?

Aug 19, 2014 1:42 | 2 replies

RobinX

None of your business moron. I prwefer to refer to her as a lady anyway. I am able to show respect.

Aug 19, 2014 2:27 | 1 replies

Hosh6

Is your your cherrie above 35 dude?

Aug 19, 2014 3:2 | 1 replies

RobinX

My lady friend is indeed above 35. Are you older than 10?

Aug 19, 2014 3:7 | 1 replies

Hosh6

Your lady friend? #Jaw dropping

Aug 19, 2014 3:17 | 1 replies

RobinX

Don't lose that dropped jaw, pikkie.

Aug 20, 2014 7:47 | 0 replies

Hutton

@Hosh6, yah, wena sula mgwaja, wazini wena!

Aug 19, 2014 2:53 | 0 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:45 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 12:47 | 0 replies

njayelife

No news here. Go to Venda and get mpesu then all this becomes nonsense.What sort of women were part of the survey?

Aug 19, 2014 12:57 | 0 replies

lule

its too early for me S.Cold to use viagra,maybe when the spark is gone i will turn to it,as for now i prefer no sex enhancement pill.

Aug 19, 2014 12:59 | 1 replies

Dkok

never considered it

Aug 19, 2014 1:12 | 0 replies

Dkok

@lule about everyman being a hero here: Knowledge is key, but knowledge is not action, its just a know how. so dont player hate on the brothers for knowing

Aug 19, 2014 1:0 | 0 replies

lule

not player hating Dkok,just enjoying the me hero thing....like they say talking is cheap but action.........we know all the sex info but can we do it...that's my worry.

Aug 19, 2014 1:5 | 0 replies

Dkok

mina ngithi get her there atleast twice during warm up, so that when the main game begins u r no longer under pressure.

Aug 19, 2014 1:10 | 1 replies

mgijimi

Good boy, I finger do her until she comes before I ride, simple as that

Aug 19, 2014 2:34 | 1 replies

Dkok

Holla Mkhovu, stajane brawami

Aug 19, 2014 2:59 | 0 replies

Jengele

"Sowetan sex Hercules"--- Kinky would have said.

Aug 19, 2014 1:12 | 0 replies

mis_education

our brothers should learn to go down on their women...its makes a huge difference in the bedroom

Aug 19, 2014 1:12 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 2:7 | 0 replies

StopLootingMySA

There's no way a woman if you have given yourself enough to explore her body. and after exploring you can it you can rest your mouth in her p*ssy for a good 15 minutes with two fingers in there as well , it won't be long before she comes and when you start the actually love making starts she will be in her own little world of ecstasy.

Aug 19, 2014 1:47 | 2 replies

Shredder

In simple English what does all these mean?

Aug 19, 2014 2:10 | 0 replies

Tabeya

That's what they claim to do but hey they don't some even have no clue of what to do to warm-up a lady.

Aug 19, 2014 2:11 | 0 replies
Aug 19, 2014 2:18 | 2 replies
Aug 19, 2014 2:39 | 0 replies
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Femi

A skilled partner who knows how to physically stimulate a woman knows that it is not only about that but a romantic atmosphere, a pleasant and comfortable surroundings as well as giving a woman that feeling of being wanted and appreciated. In that way there will be a good flow of natural lubricants, so that the delicate parts don't get sore. The rest will be something for a woman to write home about.

Aug 19, 2014 2:43 | 2 replies

Shredder

It sounds like a lot of work to do. Now if you want to satisfy her all the time you will have to create romantic atmosphere, a pleasant and comfortable surroundings all the time?

Aug 19, 2014 2:48 | 2 replies

Femi

Not at all Charlie! Of course there will be naughty quickies to spice things up and time might not be on your side however it is all in the mind and if the mind is at ease, everything flows.

Aug 19, 2014 2:58 | 0 replies

s.cold

FORGET @SHREDDER YOU WONT SATISFY THEM

Aug 19, 2014 3:43 | 0 replies

Dkok

before Shredder ask for simple terms, Get her mind set right. The best way is never letting her anticipate whats coming unless she is already in the right mind set. thats why stolen is always the best, it has unpredicability in it and the mind is quick to go with the body flow.

Aug 19, 2014 2:58 | 2 replies

Femi

Should have saved myself some typing cause you just hit it.

Aug 19, 2014 3:0 | 0 replies

Femi

That is why in my life I will never get to understand guys who rape.

Aug 19, 2014 3:6 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 3:10 | 0 replies

sikamuntu

GOOD ADVICE: do something for yourself, for your family. Don't waste your time talking politics while others are enjoying their lives with money without minding politics. See how this South African woman became very wealthy just by buying and selling old and broken houses in any town or city. Very interesting. Go to HOUSESBYCITY.COM to see the companies she was using to do this. HOUSESBYCITY.COM , Wake up African people

Aug 19, 2014 2:54 | 1 replies

RobinX

P I S S OFF!

Aug 20, 2014 7:47 | 0 replies

Babigall

My man knows what he is doing, I get eleven orgasms every night. Eishhhh let me call him and we rush home now lol

Aug 19, 2014 3:4 | 0 replies

skopomashwabana

shout out to all the men that have never seen a woman get an organism. sisonke

Aug 19, 2014 3:14 | 0 replies

aroused

so true shame my husband of 10 years does not do it for me anymore more shame. so ke thotse mageza omfa monate i get home all happy and satisfied.

Aug 19, 2014 3:43 | 1 replies
Aug 19, 2014 3:45 | 0 replies

Hutton

thanks skopo

Aug 19, 2014 4:10 | 0 replies

Selko

Of course they have trouble getting an orgasm, men have no clue what women want, how they feel and where to touch. I will choose a lady to satisfy me sexually any day. #justme

Aug 20, 2014 7:32 | 0 replies

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Sep 26, 2014 11:5 | 0 replies