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Course on how to land a sugar daddy, free tuition!

By Sowetan LIVE | Jun 30, 2014 | COMMENTS [ 75 ]

Professional sugar baby Carla Abonia and sugar daddy mentor Alan Schneider have set up a university for women looking for a rich older man for financial support.

Ms Abonia has clear goals for her teaching: ‘I’m going to be teaching how to view the relationship so it can be prosperous and beneficial for both sides.’

Abonia, 37, has been flown across the world and had wildly lavish gifts bought for her by rich men who can't resist her company.

The pair teach five key elements of being a successful sugar daddy or sugar baby through the curriculum - Sexuality, Understanding, Generosity, Attraction and Reciprocity.

Carla turned to the sugar baby lifestyle after getting fed up with cheap blokes - one in particular would bring a KFC bucket to her house for dinner and leave her the leftovers.

She said: "He'd want to give me a kiss and would leave crumbs all over my mouth. As soon as I got rid of him I went straight on the internet and started researching.

School headmaster Alan, who created the dating site SugarDaddyForMe.com, added the university is there for people to get a better grasp of the 'often misunderstood' lifestyle.

He said: "A lot of women don't know how to approach men - they think they're aggressive and predatory. We have to enhance and educate both sides so each respect each other.

Like a latter-day Hugh Hefner or Alfred Kinsey, Schneider sees himself as a revolutionary trying to break down barriers to pleasure. In his case, the pleasure involves sex and money.

Tuition to this university is free, because this lesson is just so important.

“It is a whole lifestyle that is taught and refined,” says Schneider, who founded the lofty (or base, depending on your perspective) institution this year.

 

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SOURCES: www.metro.co.ukwww.mirror.co.uk, www.nydailynews.com, www.youtube.com

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SeshegoGuY

South Africa has got "experienced professionals" in that field. Re tshwere dikakapa ka hierso, they just have not opened such a school or write a book about it. They must come here for some valuable tips and lessons.... O kae Serobapupu??

Jun 30, 2014 12:27 | 1 replies

Vhamsanda

it will be NQF 10.

Jul 01, 2014 7:53 | 0 replies

MommaC

In my day, this was called 'Prostiitution'

Jun 30, 2014 12:29 | 2 replies

R18SN

LOL that must have been a long time ago Momma c

Jun 30, 2014 12:31 | 1 replies

MommaC

It was a simpler time, R18. We weren't as 'politically correct' back then. A spade was a spade and not a 'hand held digging implement'

Jun 30, 2014 12:56 | 0 replies

RobinX

Agreed. Look, marriage will always have a business aspect to it, but one likes to believe there is more there. Probably naive, but there we go.

Jul 07, 2014 1:34 | 0 replies

Papage

And in South Africa, young Black women go for old white men, it is a trend and is ganning momentum. Good luck

Jun 30, 2014 12:30 | 0 replies

MissBhakajuju-1

@ Papage...lol, true hey...and the white old men, go crazy when they see us black gals...so some gals take advantage of that..lol kunzima

Jun 30, 2014 12:34 | 1 replies

Aussie_cfnm_guy

Miss Bhakajuju-1 is correct. Speaking for myself (an older white man), yes I do go 'crazy' when I see beautiful black women (and I like your photo Miss Bhakajuju). But I do not really think that the black girls are taking advantage of us. It is also what we want. I like pampering and spoiling women. I enjoy taking them shopping, buying nice gifts, taking them to nice restaurants. Showing them the world. The black girls are not taking advantage of us if we want to give it. I like seeing the smile on a girls face when I give her a gift. So I think it is mutual. The black girl is happy, I am happy. Its good for everyone.

Mar 21, 2016 8:36 | 0 replies

BaasThabo2

Tuition to this university is free________________ I guess it is free until they catch the big fish.The fish will be paying for everything as usual .

Jun 30, 2014 12:54 | 1 replies

s.cold

I DONT BLAME THEM AT ALL,,,WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO WITH A BROKE AS$ NIGG3R,,,,,B0NK YOU BESE EKUPHATHISA INDLALA NEE,,,BETTER TO CRY KWI-BMW RATHER THAN ON THE BICYCLE,,,NE!!!!!!!!,IF BENGINGU CH3RRY NGABE NGI RICH MANJE,,,,,,,,,,I WOULD BE FUKCED BY RICH NIGG3RS ONLY,,,,SORRRY TO BROKE GUYS,,,,,,,,KUZOLUNGA

Jun 30, 2014 1:13 | 0 replies

goslow

yoh sinyile ke thina amadoda anemali

Jun 30, 2014 1:3 | 0 replies

s.cold

i regard myself as a sugar daddy since my girlfriend is 15yrs,ive decided to smack under the belt ngoba my age group basile futhi they are so demanding,,,,,i wont date somebody above 20yrs till i die,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,ladies matures very quick as compared to us,,,,,,,,if you date your age group azi ukuthi ull be ruled until you die

Jun 30, 2014 1:7 | 1 replies

TheRealMsKinks

mgani, is it not because udinga iviagra all the time, so you can't keep up nontanga bakho

Jun 30, 2014 1:27 | 1 replies

s.cold

INFACT MY AGE GROUP ARE NOT STRONGER THAN THE YOUNG ONES,,,,,PHELA BONA THEY ARE ENERGETIC FUTHI THEY ARE NEW TO THE FIELD KANTI ONTANGA THEY JUST SLEEP UP OPEN THEIR LEGS,,THATS IT KANTI AMASARAFINA AYAYITJUKUTJA THE WHOLE NIGHT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,MY AGE GROUP UMA NGITHATHE I VIAGRA BAYA COMPLAINER BATHI HHAY SEBEKHATHELE KANTI AMA BORN FREES AWANENDABA KUBA I CHIEFS NE PIRATES ONGAPHANSI NONGAPHEZULU

Jun 30, 2014 1:53 | 1 replies

TheRealMsKinks

Hai, strue uyi professor yesbumbu

Jun 30, 2014 2:10 | 1 replies

s.cold

SESINGIKHIPHE INKANI SENGIKHATHELE SENGIFUNA UKUNIKA ABANYE ITHUBA IYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO KUNINI IPIPI LAMI LINGENA LIPHUMA YAZ NGIZE NGITHUKE NAMI,,,IN A WEEK UTHOLE UKUTHI NGILALE NAMANTOMBAZANE A MORE THAN 8,,,,,,,,,SBUMBU UMDALA

Jun 30, 2014 2:18 | 1 replies

TheRealMsKinks

I hope usebenziza ijasi lekamkhwenyana

Jun 30, 2014 2:31 | 1 replies

s.cold

EISH I TRY KULABA ENGINGABATHEMBI

Jun 30, 2014 2:44 | 1 replies

TheRealMsKinks

Don't try....... USE IT ALL THE TIME

Jun 30, 2014 2:47 | 1 replies

s.cold

IM PLANNING TO STOP COMPLETELY CHA HHAYI NGIZWILE,,AND IMALI IHAMBA FAST UMA UPHILA LEMPILO ENGIYIPHILAYO,,,SENGIFUNA UKUSHINTSHA ABANGANI,NGIPHUZE KANCANE,NGIYE ESONTWENI BESE NGI CONCENTRATE KUMA BUSSINESS,,SENGIMOSHE KWANELA,,,IMALI,ISIKHATHI KANYE NOKUBEKA IMPILO ENGCUPHENI,,,,,,,,,NGISIZE PHELA SISI WAMI UKUTHI NGIYEKE

Jun 30, 2014 2:50 | 1 replies

ChunkuBabyOil

Ncoooo...s.cold I hope uqinisile mngani yazi ngalento oyishoyo.

Jun 30, 2014 2:53 | 1 replies

TheRealMsKinks

Chunkus, I also hope so too........ I think we need to pray in tongues for yena

Jun 30, 2014 3:1 | 1 replies

s.cold

PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND NINGI JOINE NGAMA WEEKENDS FOR BREAKFAST AND SUPER BOTH OF YOU

Jun 30, 2014 3:7 | 1 replies

ChunkuBabyOil

Ok s.cold starting from today no phathaphatha for you neh.

Jun 30, 2014 3:21 | 1 replies

s.cold

NOTED,,ILL HAVE TO DUMP BONKE LABANTU KUQALA

Jun 30, 2014 3:47 | 0 replies

Guptanistan1

the USA will stop at notnhing at turning the world into a mini ghomorrha, mcwim and then watch SAn airheads following this immoral trend set for them by the USA.

Jun 30, 2014 1:8 | 0 replies

kakadenamanje

s.cold if you sleep with a 15 years old who by the way is a minor its considered as an offense and its statutory rape.

Jun 30, 2014 1:22 | 1 replies

s.cold

I KNOW BUT EISH I CANT RESIST THAT FRESH YELLOW BONE,,,SHE WONT OPEN A CASE COS UYANGITHANDA FUTHI NAMI NGIYAMUTHANDA UYABO!!!!!!

Jun 30, 2014 1:55 | 0 replies

TheRealMsKinks

#thinking out loud# should this come to Mzansi a lot of women will start "attending school"

Jun 30, 2014 1:24 | 2 replies

MommaC

I'm a thinking that Khanyi Mbau would become the resident professor. This lot are just armatures.

Jun 30, 2014 1:30 | 3 replies

TheRealMsKinks

Or more like the faculty dean

Jun 30, 2014 1:47 | 0 replies

s.cold

SHE IS TIRED NOW UZE NGOKUPHAPHA,,,SHE IS MORE LIKE GOGO UMBAU,,,KUNABOKHANYI ABAFRESH MANJE,,,WHO ARE MUCH YOUNGER,GORGEOUS AND OUT GOING MORE THAN HER,,,,,,,,AMADODA A CRU3L AFTER B0NKING YOU THEY JUMP TO THE NEWLY HOT FRESH PIE

Jun 30, 2014 2:2 | 0 replies

RobinX

"armatures" .... He he he. I love the wit.

Jul 07, 2014 1:35 | 0 replies

Guptanistan1

that is a consequence of underdeveloped economy, the women in most underdeveloped countries look for rich sugar daddies,its the new age slavery. Rich western men travel the world for the purposes of getting trophy wives, the latest victim country of this shame is Ukraine.

Jun 30, 2014 1:44 | 0 replies

MissBhakajuju-1

@goslow..heloo bhuti, how much do you have in your bank account ?? lol

Jun 30, 2014 1:25 | 3 replies

TheRealMsKinks

mogwera hello, I don't think its a lot because rich men don't have time to blog on SL

Jun 30, 2014 1:28 | 1 replies

Mulani

Correction, Rich Men blog alot here, we don't blog about money but it there!

Jun 30, 2014 1:49 | 1 replies
Jun 30, 2014 2:13 | 1 replies

Mulani

Sisi, more like, I know so...

Jun 30, 2014 2:25 | 1 replies
Jun 30, 2014 2:34 | 1 replies

Mulani

People have money out there, sisi, Jo'burg & Pitori specifically, you just have to know where to look, No.1 Not in Sunnyside

Jun 30, 2014 2:40 | 1 replies

TheRealMsKinks

The KinkyOne makes her own money (but it would be nice to have unlimited funds in a 2 legged ATM)

Jun 30, 2014 3:2 | 1 replies

Mulani

That can be arranged, condition, must be good ka BJ, not scared of something that look like a banana!

Jun 30, 2014 3:54 | 0 replies

s.cold

KE MONTH END,,ISALARY INGENILE IM SURE I BALANCE IS R3,986,,,,NOT BAD

Jun 30, 2014 2:4 | 2 replies

Mulani

S.Cold is that after the debits or before?

Jun 30, 2014 2:9 | 0 replies

TheRealMsKinks

kwakwakwakwakwa......... so mgani, for bona it means that they are rich......kikikikikiki

Jun 30, 2014 2:12 | 0 replies

Aussie_cfnm_guy

If he doesn't have enough in his account MissBhakajuju-1, let me pamper you instead.

Mar 21, 2016 9:1 | 0 replies