Aug 2, 2012 | Zenoyise John Lifestyle Writer |
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WHEN she was single she had a killer body that looked like Chomee's - but the moment you married her she ballooned like a whale, and is now waddling around the house..
yea right so its our fault you getting fat, ok keep blaming us while we look for the sweet 16's Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
cocolucho
What happens when its the other way round? Where the man is the one that gains weight- should she leave him because he is no longer attractive. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
sarmologadi
Nt true, how about people like Connie Ferguson, Jada Pinkett who have maintained their weights? It's jst lazinesss, ohh plzzz..... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Stimela
when she gains waight, it shows that ngimuphethe kahle owakwami. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MyPot
This is good for the Women Market Cycle, new women must get a space of attention Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
heeee he calls me FAT....he doesnt see himself nxxxxxxxxxxxxxx!!!!
ID!OTooo!!!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Haidi
You could be responsible for her weight gain, according to recent research by dieticians from Newcastle University, in the UK, into how eating habits change after one moves in with a partner.
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Don't worry Mr o tswa ko tlaleng so ha a fihla hahao o ja e kare lehlanya ke macheri a o. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Mokwepa
Guys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
Letitgo
ITS A LIE, THEY FIND CONFORT IN FOOD? DIFEBENYANA TSE? THEY FIND CONFORT IN OTHER MAN, NXAAAA.
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kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa #dzead4dayzzzzzzzz# Report Abuse
sarmologadi
Nt true, how about people like Connie Ferguson, Jada Pinkett who have maintained their weights? It's jst lazinesss, ohh plzzz.....
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Hello there.
Women like Jada, Connie are very independent women. I think the more the woman is independent, the less likely she will fall into bad habits when she is married or living with partner. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
Mokwepa
Guys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.
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my fl!pin f*3kn left foot....................6 packs also will tempmt a woman SHEM!!!! Report Abuse
"When women are settled, they stop caring about how they look to their partner because they assume the other person has basically become blind to it. That is why some men stop loving them because they are not the women they married."
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what a load of BS. I see a lot of beautiful women that have kids and got it going for themselves. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
Letitgo
@imd, am i misrepresenting da truth?
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very much so do you think if you FAT a woman does not see them six packs out there as much as you would be tempted.......
am suprised what handles you talk of though coz its fully figures who has handles????? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Feratas3
That's why my grandfather back in the days used to say, uma siyothenga inkomo : Mzukulu bheka amanqina, uma umsipha ngemuva ungaveli inezitho asiyithengi, because lapho ezothola khona utshani obanele izonona ingasakhoni ukuhamba ematsheni. Wayesholo nokumuntu wesimame ukuthi lo, onezitho ezingcwele the chances yokuthi anone makhulu compared to the one unemicondo. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
some women don't know how to take care of thier beautiful body : yes indeed they balloned to such such extend not enjoying sex with her after marriege : some eat everthing they come accross :
i know how to take care of myself by eating vegetables & avoiding foods with oil & salt Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
QueenTT
I think women themselves are to blame because when you single you always go extra mile to look your best all the time. You meet someone, get married and think the "looking-good-job" is done... that's the mistake... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Letitgo
@imd, I dont think its me who commented on handles, it is actually Mokwepa not me. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
cocolucho
"What happens when its the other way round? Where the man is the one that gains weight- should she leave him because he is no longer attractive."
read te article sesi : it's al about women not man
Letitgo
@imd, I dont think its me who commented on handles, it is actually Mokwepa not me.
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lol my bad..now you ..you bro r killin me thats all........
Lemme share one with you SOME woman YES like you say it find confort in other man..
WHAT confort if you may be clear ??? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Psalm124
Life is easier for men, when they gain weight it's okay, it just shows that you are feeding him well.
Married women do gain weight because of the men in their lives. Not all men are supportive and loving towards their wives, you get SOME selfish, egotistical men.
1. Where will those women find the time to get back in shape after giving birth because they have look after their families. It's even worse when you don't have a helper or can't afford 1 and you live far away from family and friends. HE won't take out an hour of HIS time to look after the babies just for the woman to rush to gym or jog around the block especially for working moms. Batho ga ba tshwane, some women don't have to lift a finger to get back in shape after having children.
2. When your husband is unloving, emotionally; mentally and physically abusive, that tampers with your emotions and self esteem driving you to unhealthy eating.
When he cheats on you, he will always go for the skinny girls. So ladies you better up your game, watch what you eat and squeeze in 30 minutes to work out at least 3 - 5 times a week. It's so much easier to maintain your weight when you're active. Love yourself 1st because I can promise you someone out there appreciates and treasures you. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Letitgo
ITS A LIE, THEY FIND CONFORT IN FOOD? DIFEBENYANA TSE? THEY FIND CONFORT IN OTHER MAN, NXAAAA.
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kikkikikikkikkiki hahahahahhahaha Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@Psalm124
Spot on my dear......luckily I feel am sexy fit not FAT as he sings it .........COmpared to him nxa! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Letitgo
@imd, once they (women) feel neglected or not sure about their bodies, they dont got to food for assurence, they got to other men for assurity, if they still find them sexy, interesting and beautiful. The sad part is they get laid, why open your legs? kwalang dirope tle bo mme and shake your body, u know that cat walk will give u attention u looking for. But not if u r BOOMBER, not offence boombers. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Eraser
@Stimela
when she gains waight, it shows that ngimuphethe kahle owakwami.
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@Letitgo
once they (women) feel neglected or not sure about their bodies,
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can you guess what I just heard by that................
YOU CLEARLY NOT DOING YOUR ONE JOB AS A MAN...............................
why must a woman feel neglected TO BEGIN WITH???????? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Tango
Married women tend to adopt the eating habits of their husbands. That means more high-fat, high-sugar foods.
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Even single woman like mine does that, she doesn't care whether i am having a skop or not, but she will still want a piece. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Vhamsanda
The writter has commiitted a serious flaw of judgement . It has become a norm to blame men for all the ills of the world.
What about the fat women who are single ?
What about the fat virgins ?
What about the fat men ?
i dont think this is true. when i moved in with ma husband, i joined the gym and i still go up to today Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
cocolucho
Mokwepa
Guys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.
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The only reason that women are okay with men getting a little on the fat side is because it makes them less capable of cheating since less women are choosing them. But that leaves your woman with a host of other hot guys to pick from when she does not want to be poked by a match stick that she can hardly feel beneath all that fat- and thats if she loves you.
There is also no excuse for a man to gain weight, if you do then you have no pride in yourself if you allow your weight to spiral out of control. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Cl!ck
If Lindiwe Mazibuko can't fit through a door now that she's single.. Imagine when she's married.. *Oh boy*
sarmologadi
Nt true, how about people like Connie Ferguson, Jada Pinkett who have maintained their weights? It's jst lazinesss, ohh plzzz.....
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my sweety thats medical intervention,they do operations to remove the fat Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JahNeh
Is this why my wife picked up weight, while my mistresses still look as hot as ever?
My I should introduce my wife to the mistresses so that she can see the competition, and pick up her game! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
DeOvi
@Mokwepa
Guys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.
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so wat about female headed household???
o kae Kweps Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
JahNeh
Is this why my wife picked up weight, while my mistresses still look as hot as ever?
My I should introduce my wife to the mistresses so that she can see the competition, and pick up her game!
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LOL You wanna go into a snakes pit jy I see.......kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
malemaforpresident
You balooon? i go for the best a 17 year grade 12 student with beautiful innocent thighs Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
EC222
Most blacks think gaining weight means LIFE IS GOOD N CONTENT WITH ALL
I often hear my granny says " why o sa none ke gore makoti ga gofe dijo pila, or say " o warisa keng ngwanaka" ?
She adds that the chosen foods are usually high in fat or carbohydrates such as pasta, rice, chips, or fried potato chips.
She says lack of sleep can also lead to weight gain.
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My daughter makes me do all of the above...............
The opposite happens when Im in a loving relationship.......... the love handles just melt away
malemaforpresident
You balooon? i go for the best a 17 year grade 12 student with beautiful innocent thighs
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Sad part is you'd DIE if your woman does that to you Kwaaaaaaaaaaaa
woman live throught it.......You foget your petite is someone elses looooooooolz Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Letitgo
@imd, why must a woman feel neglected TO BEGIN WITH????????
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA U R QOUTING ME NOW, WHATEVER REASON THAT SUPPOSEDLY MAKES THEM FIND CONFORT IN FOOD, ITS THE SAME REASON THAT WILL MAKE THEM FEEL NEGLECTED. IT COULD BE ANYTHING, THATS WHY THERE IS NOT VIRGIN ON EARTH BECAUSE LIFE F@CKS EVERYONE. SO ITS LIFE SISI. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Tango
Cl!ck
If Lindiwe Mazibuko can't fit through a door now that she's single.. Imagine when she's married.. *Oh boy*
kwaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaa..........i can't imagine that Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
Ke itsitse go re Sowetan ekase fetse pila ka freitaga esa bolela ka mnyakazo! SIES! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
Letitgo
@imd, why must a woman feel neglected TO BEGIN WITH????????
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA U R QOUTING ME NOW, WHATEVER REASON THAT SUPPOSEDLY MAKES THEM FIND CONFORT IN FOOD, ITS THE SAME REASON THAT WILL MAKE THEM FEEL NEGLECTED. IT COULD BE ANYTHING, THATS WHY THERE IS NOT VIRGIN ON EARTH BECAUSE LIFE F@CKS EVERYONE. SO ITS LIFE SISI.
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Listening is a skill you know
Neglected by her man?????? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
Bumboklaat
2day thursdae wena! gao tsa maye lemabaka Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MommaC
Something that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club or something. Maybe if she was doing that during her marriage, she wouldn't be getting divorced? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
@imd - 4rom 2dae darling just try 2 eat vegetables as much as u can : n avoid fatie foods with oil Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
sh!tFaceSamsung
@imd - 4rom 2dae darling just try 2 eat vegetables as much as u can : n avoid fatie foods with oil
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Not with my food............I eats veggies though Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Bumboklaat
Ke itsitse go re Sowetan ekase fetse pila ka freitaga esa bolela ka mnyakazo! SIES!
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BooooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOmbaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Report Abuse
@MommaC
Something that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club or something. Maybe if she was doing that during her marriage, she wouldn't be getting divorced?
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I agree 100%. You gave me a de javu moment. When I divorced my ex-wife, she was this big momma who was always nagging and lazy to do anything. She just ate and ate, complained and complained. But, since our divorce, I have noticed has been looking after herself. She lost weight and does her hair. Every time I go and visit my kids she makes sure that she well washed and smells good. She is slender and a bit curvy. She even speaks to me politely. Its a pity that we can't revive our marriage because we have both move on and remarried to other people.
Bad eating habits,lack of exercise and smoking .It's clearly stated that the content of the study is about life in UK.The research was conducted in UK following their lifestyle,so I would agree fully with the results.
The study also forget to include how much those women in the UK smoke.
@ngutha
she was this big momma who was always nagging and lazy to do anything. She just ate and ate, complained and complained.
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you shottin youself on the foot BRO.........."we have both move on and remarried to other people."
meaning you failed at your one lousy job to continue carig for her elooooooooooooooooooooo......
i agree with the article, i have gained a lot of weight since i have moved in with my partner, i wud usually have lunch and a light supper but since we have been together it breakfast, lunch and supper all of which are heavy mara we are working on shedding the weight Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@ all men :
If you want an Angel provide heaven for the woman
But if its HELL you provide you sure will get ................ Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Skopokopo
Good Morning,
Nice and good looking people and those who are not nice and not good looking i also say morning to you!!! Report Abuse
MommaC
Something that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club or something. Maybe if she was doing that during her marriage, she wouldn't be getting divorced?
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I think divorces are much more than a woman looking good and going to the gym and so on.If a marriage is not working, it does not matter how much of a bombshel a woman is.
And if a man loves his woman, he will find ways and means to get both of them to the gym. The movies why did i get married shows people that they need to support their partner rather than put them down. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Skopokopo
Good Morning,
Nice and good looking people and those who are not nice and not good looking i also say morning to you!!!
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(makhi) we know u are FAT and not good looking, morning to you too (Tsekeleke) Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MommaC
Chichi7
The problem is that too many people (both men and women) start out under false pretences. Why only take pride in your appearance if you are single or find interesting things to talk about after a divorce? A spouse should not be expected to respect and love someone if they don't respect and love themselves. Yes, there are times when you need support and that is when your spouse should be there for you but not bothering to bath regularly or wondering around looking like a badly packed sack of potatoes for years on end does not exactly inspire 'intimacy'
Humans are superficial creatures. We like to pretend that we aren't but we really are. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Voetzek
Lets be honest guys our woman/ladies tend to relax when you live with them, editor forgot something -:1st acting as they are your parents-warawarawara, want to manage your money, changing from wearing G-string to panties and threatening to call the police, the list is endless Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
eKapa-
@Voetzek
Lets be honest guys our woman/ladies tend to relax when you live with them, editor forgot something -:1st acting as they are your parents-warawarawara, want to manage your money, changing from wearing G-string to panties and threatening to call the police, the list is endless
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and also tend to use your username when you ask them for mnyakazo..."voetzek! "
Nice and good looking people and those who are not nice and not good looking i also say morning to you!!!
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(makhi) we know u are FAT and not good looking, morning to you too (Tsekeleke)
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Kikikikikiki my exact target fell on my trap kikikiki makhi dont turn things around batho, i dont want to discribe you Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
ngutha
@imd
ngutha
she was this big momma who was always nagging and lazy to do anything. She just ate and ate, complained and complained.
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you shottin youself on the foot BRO.........."we have both move on and remarried to other people."
meaning you failed at your one lousy job to continue carig for her elooooooooooooooooooooo......
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No, I did not fail. We both failed. We were both 20 when we got married. We were young and we both never knew what we were doing. We love it each other and we fought each other. The weight issue was just part of the problem. There were also other personal issues which we both could not solve and resulted in the divorce.
Since we are divorced I think she is motivated to loose weight just to make me jealous and regret and feel guilty about divorcing her. But anyway I have no hard feelings or regrets because she is still a great mother. Even though my kids have a step-father, she still allows them to come and visit me during the school holidays. She has taught them to respect and acknowledge me as their biological father.
But anyway my current wife is 2x hotter and 10 years younger than her. Therefore I have nothing to complain about.
This article does not speak to me, it probably speak to those that says Love is temporary and conditional.
A relationship between any two parties has to be mutual or else it will fail. A habit has nothing to do with Love but frustrations of life in general.
We seem to forget that although people can commit to each other in marriage, they are still individuals who have their own personal goals and needs and if those are not met or achieved, there will be problems; hence one should only commit once they are completely matured and understand the marriage communion.
One cannot expect personal growth and development within a marriage since this is not a career but a spiritual union.
This is similar to schooling; it is believed to be so mandatory that when one fails or do not get an opportunity to attend school; they are immediately declared outcasts/illiterate because either they can’t speak English very well or cannot achieve higher grades. Yet you find a University Professor smoking a pack of cigarette that has a big sign to inform a him/her of the dangers of smoking; now, is that wit or illiteracy? I know some academic will come with a so called academic reasoning like addiction and so forth to cover their arses.
For Example, today’s schools are not ONLY expensive because of Education but because they got swimming pools, beautiful gardens yet the students sees the Gardner as an ordinary illiterate man while it’s his garden that attracts parents, media, sponsors, etc.
This shows that it is not Education that assist the brain but the heart.
Character will always lead and Education and the rest will follow. It is one’s goodness of the Heart that will make him/her shares a meal with a neighbor while Economics and Accounting will tell or advise you otherwise.
@ MommaC- I agree with you that as humans, we tend to pretend a lot at being who we are not and we also marry for the wrong reasons. In african culture, most marry the first person that asks because of pressure from family and friends. Some marry because they are lonely and need some fulfilment. The truth of the matter is, people need to marry when they are ready and they know that it is more than just love that they feel for their partner.
A lot of both men and women complain that their partner has changed. There is nothing like that, as that is how they were from the start. They were merely good at camouflage.
I know that w woman needs to take pride in her appearance and it is no excuse for her to say that she has too much on her plate. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
But anyway my current wife is 2x hotter and 10 years younger than her. Therefore I have nothing to complain about.
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aaaaaah you see chances are she was only 10yrs old when you first married WOW
all dze best hope she stays sizzzlin for your sake.... loool Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Skopokopo-O na le mepako e mentle or le wena marao a wele?
@Chichi7
I know that w woman needs to take pride in her appearance and it is no excuse for her to say that she has too much on her plate.
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REALLY now if you can count to just 5 ......5 of what is on a mans plate.....i'll give you a bells!!!!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
ngutha
@imd
But anyway my current wife is 2x hotter and 10 years younger than her. Therefore I have nothing to complain about.
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aaaaaah you see chances are she was only 10yrs old when you first married WOW
all dze best hope she stays sizzzlin for your sake.... loool
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LMAO
...no, she does not look like a 10 year old anymore. She is grown woman. I am in my late 30s, so you can do the maths to guess her age.
She is going to remain HOT because she is a "gym freak" Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MommaC
Chichi7
There is an old saying about how a woman marries a man hoping to change him and a man marries a woman hoping she won't change.
I fully agree with you. My Gran always told me never to marry someone until I had nursed him through a dose of the flu. It was only later that I understood what she meant. Its also important that you are a whole person and marry a whole person. This nonsense about 'you complete me' is ridiculous. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@ngutha yho she was younger than ten yrs mossss..............
is my point not how she looks now :D Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Skopokopo
Maezizsto4Sure
Skopokopo-O na le mepako e mentle or le wena marao a wele?
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hey! hey! my other target responded, my good looking people have not yet responded!
@ imd- am merely saying that a woman, no matter how much burdens she has to carry, she needs time out to relax in a bath and have time alone to feel relaxed and freshen up.
Get the man involved in allowing you time out whilst he takes care of the kids. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-Araba man are you packed to capacity or o flat like maraba staad road? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@Chichi7 ............ no bells for you! Report Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-Araba man are you packed to capacity or o flat like maraba staad road?
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What do you think? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MommaC
imd
Are you saying that you don't have time to take care of yourself? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Chichi7
@ MommaC- Marc Grungor talks about marriage and single people looking for marriage. I must admit that what he says makes a lot of sense to me. If you are a miserable person, why the hell do you want to marry and bring misery on another person he says.
You are right when you say that we have to be happy as an individual rather than wait for someone to make us happy. If people looked at this fact, many would not eat tonnes of food every time things went wrong in their marriage.
@Chichi7
@ imd- am actually non AA
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same here, fact is you couldnt even get to one.............. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Buckselona
@Blackseed.Wow you deserve a round of applause,first comment i read today that makes sense.Spot on bro.
Tell me bro.Say i wanna pay Lobola for my woman and the her family demands R30.000 citing reasons that she is well educated from a good institution and all that rubbish.Fine i pay the the first installment of R15.000 and everything is cool.Now my question is, say i want her to move in with me does her family require me to pay the full amount of the Lobola before she can move in with me or can she move in with me before i finish paying the full amount.Bear in mind she is Zulu and masulu can have a lot of annoying rules and regulations. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
the bigger Mkhaba u have, the smaller it be comes..ur (d!ck)
MommaC
imd
Are you saying that you don't have time to take care of yourself?
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fortunately I do .....but am saying if anybody can give just 5 of whats on a mans plate
so can you......they have a lot to say these ppl yerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
then have a nerve to say woman complain n complain n complain Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Skopokopo
@Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-Araba man are you packed to capacity or o flat like maraba staad road?
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What do you think?
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Ruler Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
"When women are settled, they stop caring about how they look to their partner because they assume the other person has basically become blind to it. That is why some men stop loving them because they are not the women they married."
when we walk down the aisle he said "till deaath" do us apart,why are u complaining now,that means u have seen the better one nna plus ga ke rate go hlapa le yena ga a rate so 50/50 equals to saving water Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MommaC
imd
Men aren't good at multitasking so they only need two things on their plate before becoming confused :-P
I have always maintained that I need a 'wife'. Being the one who always has to do everything gets tiring. That is no excuse for not taking care of yourself though. If anything, pampering yourself and making yourself look all shiny new is a great antidote for all the stress. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
ngutha
@imd
ngutha yho she was younger than ten yrs mossss..............
is my point not how she looks now :D
No, she was 11yrs old. She is 9 years younger than me to be exact and she is currently in her late 20s.
When I said that she is 10 years younger, I was just giving a rough estimate. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Ndona
Fitness is an individual's responsibility, stop blaming men for own self-inflicted injuries! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Cl!ck
Seshebo cooking with Mam Ruby tv show is very misleading to the women of south africa..
LESON.1
@Skopokopo
@Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-Araba man are you packed to capacity or o flat like maraba staad road?
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What do you think?
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Kikikikikikikiki hai ke makhi kikikiki Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
"When women are settled, they stop caring about how they look to their partner because they assume the other person has basically become blind to it. That is why some men stop loving them because they are not the women they married."
when we walk down the aisle he said "till deaath" do us apart,why are u complaining now,that means u have seen the better one nna plus ga ke rate go hlapa le yena ga a rate so 50/50 equals to saving water
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Ga le hlape bohle because le berekisha sekotlolo se se 1 ene le ka sefite ka go fela ka nako ye 1, Husband first a re senepe sa pasa then follows shenene a thoma ka maoto a fetsa ka hlogo........... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@LESON.1
dumela setagwaa
@eKapa
remember your promise?
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
@McLoving
dumela ntati m0r0to i mean m0ruti Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@LESON.1
wena le go nkga diboots o bolela eng? re better re hlapa ka sekotlolo wena o e phumula mahlo wa tshasa roll-on then e tshaile mmerekong ba tla utlwa ka wena ge o tsena Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@MommaC read what this pargraph says:
"Once people are married, most men stop giving women the love they used to. When the couple is first courting, there's a lot of attention and men want to make a good impression, and after living together for a while that goes away."
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One thing I can sebela you if men dont stop the above there is nothing that will ever be an effort to do
from a woman....but because men r DOM ai ai ai aiiiiiiiiiiiii................... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Cl!ck
@ Ndona
I agree.. These women should cheat more and spice up their sex lives.. That way they'll always be under-pressure to look good for their "roll-ons"
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
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doing my job, what job sesi? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
BlackSeed
Buckselona
Give thanks Roots; if the communion is a blessed one, pay the money and be with the woman you admire and Love. I will do that without a blink.
Though I do not support Lobola at all; my view is that all other personal gains have nothing to do with the Marriage communion. However, I still respect the Customs of others for as long as they don't hurt or cause harm to anyone and will follow them if I have to marry in the family; unless my spouse elect tells me otherwise.
The Elders always advised one to marry in the family that almost shares the same customs to avoid such unnecessary confrontations; at least that way you’ll plan well ahead because you know what is expected.
The other thing that we forget to talk about before Marriage is aspects like this; one needs to know what your spouses’ elect customs are before you commit so you know whether you can meet them or not should you wish to marry.
Spend more time talking to your girlfriend about more important things than just having s.e.x and partying; that’s the mistake we make and only try to fight these things later.
Relationship is not just about spending time together but about engaging each other about your future together going forward.
People are different and unfortunately there’s nothing we can do about it.
That goes both ways.
When you first get together there is steamy monkeysex three or five times a day, you cook him breakfast, you sit holding his hand through every soccer match and you gaze into his eyes at every opportunity. Couple of years down the line - not so lots. Good thing too as you'd get nothing done.
Part of the problem is the unrealistic expectations. There is no 'happily ever after', we are not Sleeping Beauty and he is not Prince Charming. Marriage is damn hard work. Its worth it but it isn't easy.
Best analogy I ever heard was that marriage is like a rose garden. Tend it with love and it is beautiful but neglect it and it becomes a weed choked bramble pit in no time at all Report Abuse
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
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doing my job, what job sesi?
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blinding him,robbing him and thakathing him Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@BlackSeed
Spend more time talking to your girlfriend about more important things than just having s.e.x and partying; that’s the mistake we make and only try to fight these things later.
Relationship is not just about spending time together but about engaging each other about your future together going forward.
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how old are you? You talk sence I must say ...now teach the rest!
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
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doing my job, what job sesi?
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blinding him,robbing him and thakathing him
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oh i see, i wish i could have more power of thakathing to thakatha him and stop thukaning!!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@All
Who are this two drug addicts couples talking “SENCE” ? ( Whitney and Bobby ?)
@MommaC
That goes both ways.
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eh banna 50/50 works when it suits the situation?????
He is a man must be man enough moss and stick to his side of the bargain kaloku.......
It does not give a right for him to stray coz you stopped gazing in his eyes while he watch soccer,
when he now decides you FAT he'll go look for a 16V ............
I know you, if you behave like this it means your R11 increase is been approved........ Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
LESON.1
@All
Who are this two drug addicts couples talking “SENCE” ? ( Whitney and Bobby ?)
@imd AKA imdom-kop
@ @BlackSeed AKA Blacksh1t
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you DOM number1 akere as in super DOM........... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@Cl!ck
@ Ndona
I agree.. These women should cheat more and spice up their sex lives.. That way they'll always be under-pressure to look good for their "roll-ons
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you talking bull, you f@cking constipated Dog!! or your mom conceived while cheating, is that what you saying?? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@LESON.1
hello! my boy.....tell your mom I am sleeping over tonight....then wena olo robala ko kitchen or toiled ya RDP you chose
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@All, Hello!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
MommaC
imd
Haai bokkie. You can't have one rule for him and one for you. Its either both do 50/50 or none do. What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Buckselona
@Blackseed.You absolutely right ma man.Its just that when it comes to other ppls cultures some issues become complex.Eg.If maybe u impregnate a zulu woman your family must approach her family first if not when they come to your family to (letha isisu) they are gonna demand a lot of money for damages and i for one ddint know that.Hence the huge amount of Lobola they have requested from me.Atleast now i know.You absolutely right we shud try to marry within the family that shares the same customs but sumtyms it becomes impossible bcos your heart can direct you in the opposite direction sumtyms and you end up dating sum1 who shares different customs and beliefs as you. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@imd
i been reading your comments "Lady Gaga" - you sound like a pre-school teacher.... is like you writting with a white crayon....*****Shame**** Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
@MommaC
Haai bokkie. You can't have one rule for him and one for you. Its either both do 50/50 or none do. What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
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No he is the man eloooooooo not me.............
thats y this 50/50 gets pulled up when it suits situation this aint no 50/50
a man must b a man qha!!
i been reading your comments "Lady Gaga" - you sound like a pre-school teacher.... is like you writting with a white crayon....*****Shame****
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its showin your bo DOMness ....again Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@LESON.1
wena o setlatla struu o dira ke gore o ne o phaka dijo primary then wa ya high school still wa llela government a tlise dijo tsa mahala now o wa bereka o batla boss ya gago e go fe dijo mahala mxm o budgeter masepaaaa struu Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@JnrJack
You getting paid weekly, so the first thing you should buy tomorrow is a pair of B@lls....ok !!!
Think your relationship is a failure because you and your partner aren't following certain "rules" or meeting certain standards? Dr. Phil blows the whistle on most common but dangerous relationship myths.
MYTH #1: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON A GREAT MEETING OF THE MINDS •You will never see things through your partner's eyes because you are two entirely different people. You are genetically, physiologically, psychologically and historically different.
•You will not solve your relationship problems by becoming more alike in your thinking. Men and women are wired differently. Attempting to blur your fundamentally different viewpoints is unnatural and even dangerous.
•Recognize that a relationship is far more enjoyable when you're with someone who enriches your life, not simply reflects it. Appreciate your differences.
MYTH #2: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES A GREAT ROMANCE •Yes, your life with your partner should include plenty of romance. But don't kid yourself and expect an unrealistic Hollywood fairytale. The truth is that in the real world, being in love is not like falling in love.
•Falling in love is only the first stage of love. It's impossible to remain in that stage. A mature relationship will shift from dizzying infatuation to a deeper, more secure love.
•Don't make the common mistake of thinking that when the initial wild passion fades you aren't in love anymore. The answer is not to start a new relationship so you can recapture that emotional high with someone else. The answer is to learn how to move on to the next stages of love for a different but richer experience.
MYTH #3: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES GREAT PROBLEM-SOLVING •Don't fall into the trap of believing that you and your partner can't be happy if you can't resolve your serious disagreements. Ninety percent of problems in a relationship are not solvable.
•There are things that you and your partner disagree about and will continue to disagree about. Why can't you once and for all resolve these issues? Because in order to do so, one of you would have to sacrifice your values and beliefs.
•You can simply agree to disagree and reach "emotional closure" even though you haven't reached closure on the issue.
◦Don't avoid achieving emotional closure at the end of an argument.
MYTH #4: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX •The belief that sex is not important is a dangerous and intimacy-eroding myth. Sex provides an important time-out from the pressures of our daily lives and allows us to experience a quality level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our partners.
•Sex might not be everything but it registers higher (90 percent) on the "importance scale" if it's a source of frustration in your relationship. If your sex life is unfulfilled, it becomes a gigantic issue. On the other hand, couples that have satisfying sex lives rate sex at only 10 percent on the "importance scale."
•Don't restrict your thinking by considering sex to be something that only consists of the actual physical act. Touching, caressing, holding hands and any means by which you provide physical comfort to your partner can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life.
MYTH #5: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP CANNOT SURVIVE A FLAWED PARTNER •Nobody's perfect. As long as your partner's quirks are non-abusive and non-destructive, you can learn to live with them.
•Instead of focusing on your partner's shortcomings, remember the qualities that attracted you in the first place. Perhaps some of these idiosyncrasies were part of the attraction? Just because a behavior isn't mainstream, doesn't mean that it's toxic to the relationship.
•Be careful to distinguish the difference between a partner with quirks and one with a serious problem. Serious problems that are destructive and abusive include substance abuse and mental/physical abuse. Unlike idiosyncrasies, these are not behaviors you should learn to live with.
MYTH #6: YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN BECOME GREAT ONLY WHEN YOU STRAIGHTEN YOUR PARTNER OUT •Don't fall into the trap of believing that if you could change your partner, your relationship would be better. You are, at the very least, jointly accountable for the relationship.
•Let go of the childlike notion that falling in love means finding someone who will be responsible for your happiness. You need to take responsibility for your own happiness.
•If your relationship is distressed, the most important person for you to change might be yourself. Once you identify the payoffs you are subconsciously seeking with destructive behavior, you can choose to remove them from your life.
Ooooh boy is this Pastor Mbhoro or D.r Phil ? some1's life is about to change today ... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Buckselona
@Blackseed.I watched Khumbule khaya maobane and saw that Lady from ZCC who was looking for her father to do rituals for since she divorced from her husband bcos her ancestors ddint recognise her surname which she was using and that resulted in the split-up with the husband.What im trying to say is that as Blacks our cultures and beliefs are very complex and yet important at the same time.That story really touched me cos a lot of black ppl are wondering around lost and all things dont go well for them claiming to be bewitched kgante its bcos there is that one aspect in their life that they have neglected and once they find their roots things will start looking up for them.Hence a lot of lost souls we see in S.A.
All they know is parties,sex, cheating ,drinking and all the evil things.this blogg can attest to that. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
BlackSeed
Buckselona
R30 000 is cheaper than the medical costs you’ll have to pay due to stress for marrying the wrong woman; stress and depression causes irregularities in your daily life and believe me, you don’t want to go through that because that’s a costly exercise; not only financially but emotionally and physically.
You can end up being a psycho and spend the rest of your life in Jail or as a refugee because of stress and depression.
By investing that R30 000, you’ll be saving on a possible loss in anticipated separation/divorce where you could lose your pension money, part of your house investments, etc.
You getting paid weekly, so the first thing you should buy tomorrow is a pair of B@lls....ok !!!
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lol!! your mom loves me a lot, because i buy you malamogodu and 20litre kudu beer every weekend!!!
then tomorrow, i am there and o lo robala fase ko kitchen jou sw!ne!
@Cl!ck
just stop opening that stinky mouth if you have nothing constructive to say!! sounds better now, you FAG*T!!
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
here comes Ms universe with a size10 High heels....... AKA Ms kikikikikikiki tltltltltltltltltltltlt ttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt Report Abuse
Oh SORRY PPS, I WASNT AWARE OF THIS
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tltltlttltltltltlt DEAD kikikikikkiikikkikikikkkikikkikki so is a mistake
@SWEETK
hi babes
@Lesson.1 its lunch babes, so were are we eating 2day Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
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Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@JnrJack
If you bored put your right middle finger in your @ss for 5min then take it out and sack on it....(Zeb Matabane) Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
DeOvi
@JnrJack
Oh SORRY PPS, I WASNT AWARE OF THIS
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tltltlttltltltltlt DEAD kikikikikkiikikkikikikkkikikkikki so is a mistake
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when you look upsidedown between you legs then you would probably see a very big MISTAKE!!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
LESON.1
@JnrJack
If you bored put your right middle finger in your @ss for 5min then take it out and sack on it....(Zeb Matabane)
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No comment nfana, let me have chat with this one old rat: Makhosini0408!!!!
No lunch - will just drink water---- please how many times, divide and minus must i tell you not to include my name with M0nkeys ? Eissh wena mara......................
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
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Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@JnrJack
and stop talking to my woman @DeOvi while you busy scratching your hairy b@lls ka access card.... ok!!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@DeOvi
@JnrJack
ohhk dude wat eva i said i did not open doors 4 u to insults me geeeeeez.......
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please give me time to pay more attention on this one big RAT: you call Who?
Iyooo wa roga m0tho so ? flat tyres............... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
LESON.1
@JnrJack
and stop talking to my woman @DeOvi while you busy scratching your hairy b@lls ka access card.... ok!!!
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ask your wife, she has undergone a kuku repair and reduction... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
the bigger Mkhaba u have, the smaller it be comes..ur (d!ck)
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Ftsek wena o thala Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@eKapa
shoooooooooooooo papa o wa bolela this days am suspecting gore o navvy
@LESON.1
kana ware ke proposer majita? kikikikiki Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
Shenene
@eKapa
shoooooooooooooo papa o wa bolela this days am suspecting gore o navvy
@LESON.1
kana ware ke proposer majita? kikikikiki
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hello! can i befriend you on this blogg? everyone seems to be against me Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
O thomile akere ene nna keya tseba gore onyaka mang on this blog ? dn't wory busy corner is the place this weeked....aneh ?
O thomile akere ene nna keya tseba gore onyaka mang on this blog ? dn't wory busy corner is the place this weeked....aneh ?
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nee fok!! you all over the place.....so wanna f@ck every s.l.u.t here? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
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Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@Shenene
your mouth looks like nyoyahao: ganetxa! Report Abuse
@LESON.1
kana ware ke proposer majita? kikikikiki
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hello! can i befriend you on this blogg? everyone seems to be against me
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what are you sagesting wena by saying befriend? nxaaaa-shame a skinny guy like you who can't even hold a R5 Cell C airtime with both hands- o nagana gore o tlo dirang shenene wena ..fokof Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
LESON.1
@imd
Shame--(You went to EWC College at Boksburg only to grab the word ‘DOM”—You’re worse than I thought) ..
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and it glows by hour your bo DOMnesss dont epose yourself boy..... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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i have heard you still suffering a weak errection and its a pity that you have tried all traditional doctors with no luck....!! Uzoba right baba, dont give up. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@imd
@LESON.1
@imd
Shame--(You went to EWC College at Boksburg only to grab the word ‘DOM”—You’re worse than I thought) ..
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and it glows by hour your bo DOMnesss dont epose yourself boy.....
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i wish you can speak English cos i dnt understand Endilishi........(go back to your primary school and ask for your refund- you are just a waste of time) Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
@Maezizsto4Sure
nt0t0 ya gago ya loma i see , o ja di cleanara tsa mmerekong,o ja ditagwa tsa kasi ebile o ja ma old crock difefe tsa go tswa taste Report Abuse
You only waiting for Pirates gore e wine------ (wa bbbbbbhora) Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@JnrJack
hahahahahahah (evil lough) o nyeele boiky o nagana gore o ka thoma nna shenene a.k.a shenny ma shezzzo hihihihi ba tla go lukisa maretenyanaa a wa kgona go ny0ba tonight kikikikiki......maezi,less0n,nachy,mzaco etc including your sh!Tself o kakile mfanaka Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Endilishi hahahahahahahaha
Shenene-O lebetse gore ke jele wena nama to nama that's why nzwere ya me e loma. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
Shenene
@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
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your mouth is as wide and deep as n.y.o ya gago
your mouth is as red inside like n.y.o ya gago Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@Maezizsto4Sure
Endilishi hahahahahahahaha
Shenene-O lebetse gore ke jele wena nama to nama that's why nzwere ya me e loma.
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lol!!!!kikikikikkikiiiiiiii!!!!!! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@Shenene
your mouth looks like nyoyahao: ganetxa! Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Makhosini0408
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
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Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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i have heard you still suffering a weak errection and its a pity that you have tried all traditional doctors with no luck....!! Uzoba right baba, dont give up.
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That is very lame. Sham. Atleast the are places where I can go to get help. If I understand well my diagnosis according to Dr JnrJack is not permanent buy can your member be cured? Judging by the comments from the blogg, usenkingeni baba.
If I wanted to rub it in, I was going to google the comments and relive your famous moment. I h@te dialogues and unfortunately, I feel that we are both acting childish and will be the first one to own up and say, humble apologies again, if I have offended you. Nothing personal. I forgive you. I rest my case. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
@SWEETYK
masepaaaaoooooo gal , wa re y o sa ndumedise wena ye? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
Gape wena ge o twatwetswe o bolela m.ehlolo, E no rena Vienna sausage ye warm o e lokele ka nny0ng… (O tlaba strong) Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
imd
LESON.1
@m'zaco'
You only waiting for Pirates gore e wine------ (wa bbbbbbhora)
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aaaaaaaaaah u a ZEBRA y usabolele mara heeee..................i fogve you i understand now
kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
Shenene
@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
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lol ke DOMo ela?? i dont use stuff seo my dear lol so chill Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
Makhosini0408
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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i have heard you still suffering a weak errection and its a pity that you have tried all traditional doctors with no luck....!! Uzoba right baba, dont give up.
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That is very lame. Sham. Atleast the are places where I can go to get help. If I understand well my diagnosis according to Dr JnrJack is not permanent buy can your member be cured? Judging by the comments from the blogg, usenkingeni baba.
If I wanted to rub it in, I was going to google the comments and relive your famous moment. I h@te dialogues and unfortunately, I feel that we are both acting childish and will be the first one to own up and say, humble apologies again, if I have offended you. Nothing personal. I forgive you. I rest my case.
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Thank you when you have finally noticed that you need to grow some balls in that empty 80kg BLACK bag between you legs and is when your Mini COOPER would errect when neccessary Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@imd
@LESON.1
@m'zaco'
You only waiting for Pirates gore e wine------ (wa bbbbbbhora)
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aaaaaaaaaah u a ZEBRA y usabolele mara heeee..................i fogve you i understand now
kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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you're a lost m0nkey from Kilimanjaro, Try PTA or Jo'burg zoo... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
JnrJack
Shenene
@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
----------------------------------------LOL!!!!!!!!!
your mouth is as wide and deep as n.y.o ya gago
your mouth is as red inside like n.y.o ya gago
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ah wena yena o bhari sis ebile bhari e better o semaomao struu vele molomo wa ka o tshwana le nny0 mara ge e le maretenyana ao a gago a swana le nnoga ya cobra with a groaf skin ebile e ya hlaba Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
SWEETYK
Shenene
@SWEETYK
masepaaaaoooooo gal , wa re y o sa ndumedise wena ye?
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Shenene shenenene shenenenenenenen sheneneneneneneneenee ke yao galemela
@imd
@Shenene
@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
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lol ke DOMo ela?? i dont use stuff seo my dear lol so chill
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Akere kuku ya gago is leaking - someone please call the plumber Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
m'zaco'
Bra Maez
~eish, Grootman di a mpoela....since ke thola this POs.............lol
leson.1
~o reng lepara...o sa le busy ka basadi mo blokkong..
Shenene-O lebetse gore ke jele wena nama to nama that's why nzwere ya me e loma.
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o tlhapisitse maretenyana ao ka jik le vim wa di hlakantsa le handy andy so what did u expect vele....o experiencer masepaaa mfanaka u wanted it to be white in complexion? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
Shenene
JnrJack
Shenene
@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
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your mouth is as wide and deep as n.y.o ya gago
your mouth is as red inside like n.y.o ya gago
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ah wena yena o bhari sis ebile bhari e better o semaomao struu vele molomo wa ka o tshwana le nny0 mara ge e le maretenyana ao a gago a swana le nnoga ya cobra with a groaf skin ebile e ya hlaba
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Compliment ntwana, vhele ke tswhere COBRA!!!! not a miniCOOPER!!
@m'zaco'
wena o tsena wa dumedisa dimaomao tse tsa banna wa tlogela nna anyway how u doing hun Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
2nevvy4u
MommaC
Something that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club
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which women are you talking about?Those i've seen they immediately goes to casino(hostel) play cards,join kasi management and start gossip group with memeza on their face. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
SWEETYK
Shenene
@SWEETYK
masepaaaaoooooo gal , wa re y o sa ndumedise wena ye?
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Shenene shenenene shenenenenenenen sheneneneneneneneenee ke yao galemela
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keng o tla ntoya hanti? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
2nevvy4u
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BLACKminiCOOPER0408
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hlukana no Makhosini wena nja man. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
@m'zaco'
wena o tsena wa dumedisa dimaomao tse tsa banna wa tlogela nna anyway how u doing hun
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No need for yena gore a go dumidishe cos o re dumedisha a le ka gare ga nny0 ya gago since this morning.... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Shenene-Baby ge o ka nsolvela Sweetk I promise babes ko go ja gore o mense boladu.Kopa o nsolvele yena then ke tlo go ja non stop I wouldnt mind go reka mbiza Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
JnrJack
@2nevvy4u
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BLACKminiCOOPER0408
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hlukana no Makhosini wena nja man.
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sure, will do so.....but telling him" he must come with that COPY PASTE SH!T" Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Shenene
@2nevvy4u
wena ke batla go go botsa masepaaa pela batho le suit e blaack....
wa re o suppoter neng banaa ebile o nyaala neng o busy o kitimisa bo rye le bo sweetk o be o nagana gore ke tla thola fela o bumpa ka di all-ster tsa maratha every weekend mxm just do the right thing and marry me maan Report Abuse
@m'zaco'
Wena o pre-mature, a g0na m0lala eb1le a g0na d1tsebe, ge o ny@ka o lebelel@ sel0 ka th0ko or ka m0rago, O corner ka m.mele ka m0ka o kare ba go hl@betse la lema0 la digaf1……. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
Kuku ya gago ka mokgo e bifileng ka gona o kare R1 yela ya kgale ye kgolo… Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Shenene
Kuku ya gago ka m0kgo e bifileng ka gona o kare R1 yela ya kgale ye kg0lo… Report Abuse
Skopo-I asked you a question phakela yerrr.Phela a se ntho encha ge o le plaatgat. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Skopokopo
Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-I asked you a question phakela yerrr.Phela a se ntho encha ge o le plaatgat.
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Im not plaat, satisfied? Report Abuse
Ask Sweetyk, she will describe me better Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
I don't want to talk to that thing va?I wana see for myself...o apara size mang ko chest or breast what ever you call it? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
DeOvi
@LESON.1
ma love note that am commenting 4 the last time 2day,going to work in Australia 4 da whole month and internet is not allowed where i'll be working,pls behave neh.....so wil miss you and love you so much
@Maezizsto4Sure and LESON.1 please guys le hlokomele ngwana o mong neh Report Abuse
Leson-The only place I know where internet is not allowed is Somalia maybe she's going there.
DeOvi-Ka re cup size man keng ka wena akere ke batla go thola idea? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
McLoving
@shenene
What have I done to deserve the ntate moroto...ke go yeditseng ko bophelong ba gao kante?
a ke robale le bana ba banyane ke robala le thaka tsaka ,,so like mme wa gao. Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Mcloving-Mfeth'u I'm telling you ge o ka bona Shenene o tlo kometsa mathe.She is baie mooi ke yellow bone. Report Abuse
Leson-Sure akere DeOvi a re o ya Australia and ga ba dumele internet daso...wa jiya o ya Somalia Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@Maezi
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha o tla bolaya ke tlala moss Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
DeOvi
@Maezizsto4Sure
the r some places wer technological appliances are not allowd due to wat we r working with.....o nkwele ke rile le hlokomele ngwana o mong Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
DeOvi
LESON.1
What a coincident,
@Maezi is going to Brazil and I’m going to Japan
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le sepela bjang le sena di passport Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
DeOvi
@Maezizsto4Sure
the r some places wer technological appliances are not allowd due to wat we r working with.....o nkwele ke rile le hlokomele ngwana o mong
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Ja I know working for Red Cross delivering medicines doesnt need technological appliances Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
LESON.1
@DeOvi
@LESON.1
What a coincident,
@Maezi is going to Brazil and I’m going to Japan
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le sepela bjang le sena di passport
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Re nale 5 passports if you dn't know - nna ke ya Japan ka morago ga tuck shop ya Yun Fat Chow tlabe e le makhi wa ka,,,,, Ge o sa tshephe o kano mo gogola Yun Fat Chow... Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
hiddengold
The article forgets to mention that the woman will also give birth to 2 or 3 kids in that time-span weight gain is inevitable and theres nothing more difficult to shed than post-pregnancy weight Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
pierre2012
People should take personal responsibility for thier body sizes /health and stop blaming others. We all know the dangers of overweight, y should we over-eat and then blame our wfies or hubbies for this??? Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
McLoving
@maezizsto
what's yellow bone ?ga ke galisiwe ke bana ba banyane ,,,ke werdela thaka tsaka Report Abuse
Aug 2, 2012
Tall-n-handsome
They are usually superfit and follow a strict fitness regimen. Because they need lots of energy they are constantly refuelling. That is why you find a very fit man with a big woman that looks like his mom
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Ask Sweetyk, she will describe me better
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Ke explainele lechiana ka setswana hai frend I don't want to waist my time, ke yena o plat remember, don't justify ko selo see. Tell him to meet you at PAN (Alex) next to Makhi G.F's house to see you gore o hit e yang. lol Report Abuse
Aug 20, 2012
D-liciousLips
Y DUZNT DE ARTICLE MENTION DAT WOMEN GAIN WEIGHT FRM PREGNANCY N SOME R JST UNABLE TO LOOSE IT AGN. Report Abuse
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maneater
yea right so its our fault you getting fat, ok keep blaming us while we look for the sweet 16'sReport Abuse
cocolucho
What happens when its the other way round? Where the man is the one that gains weight- should she leave him because he is no longer attractive.Report Abuse
sarmologadi
Nt true, how about people like Connie Ferguson, Jada Pinkett who have maintained their weights? It's jst lazinesss, ohh plzzz.....Report Abuse
Stimela
when she gains waight, it shows that ngimuphethe kahle owakwami.Report Abuse
MyPot
This is good for the Women Market Cycle, new women must get a space of attentionReport Abuse
imd
heeee he calls me FAT....he doesnt see himself nxxxxxxxxxxxxxx!!!!ID!OTooo!!!!
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Haidi
You could be responsible for her weight gain, according to recent research by dieticians from Newcastle University, in the UK, into how eating habits change after one moves in with a partner.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Don't worry Mr o tswa ko tlaleng so ha a fihla hahao o ja e kare lehlanya ke macheri a o.
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Mokwepa
Guys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.Report Abuse
imd
LetitgoITS A LIE, THEY FIND CONFORT IN FOOD? DIFEBENYANA TSE? THEY FIND CONFORT IN OTHER MAN, NXAAAA.
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kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa #dzead4dayzzzzzzzz#
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G-ruff
I like for fatty Boom Boom.Report Abuse
Buc4life
sarmologadiNt true, how about people like Connie Ferguson, Jada Pinkett who have maintained their weights? It's jst lazinesss, ohh plzzz.....
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Hello there.
Women like Jada, Connie are very independent women. I think the more the woman is independent, the less likely she will fall into bad habits when she is married or living with partner.
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imd
MokwepaGuys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.
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my fl!pin f*3kn left foot....................6 packs also will tempmt a woman SHEM!!!!
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Letitgo
@imd, am i misrepresenting da truth?Report Abuse
Chichi7
"When women are settled, they stop caring about how they look to their partner because they assume the other person has basically become blind to it. That is why some men stop loving them because they are not the women they married."
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what a load of BS. I see a lot of beautiful women that have kids and got it going for themselves.
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imd
Letitgo@imd, am i misrepresenting da truth?
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very much so do you think if you FAT a woman does not see them six packs out there as much as you would be tempted.......
am suprised what handles you talk of though coz its fully figures who has handles?????
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Feratas3
That's why my grandfather back in the days used to say, uma siyothenga inkomo : Mzukulu bheka amanqina, uma umsipha ngemuva ungaveli inezitho asiyithengi, because lapho ezothola khona utshani obanele izonona ingasakhoni ukuhamba ematsheni. Wayesholo nokumuntu wesimame ukuthi lo, onezitho ezingcwele the chances yokuthi anone makhulu compared to the one unemicondo.Report Abuse
sh!tFaceSamsung
some women don't know how to take care of thier beautiful body : yes indeed they balloned to such such extend not enjoying sex with her after marriege : some eat everthing they come accross :i know how to take care of myself by eating vegetables & avoiding foods with oil & salt
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QueenTT
I think women themselves are to blame because when you single you always go extra mile to look your best all the time. You meet someone, get married and think the "looking-good-job" is done... that's the mistake...Report Abuse
Letitgo
@imd, I dont think its me who commented on handles, it is actually Mokwepa not me.Report Abuse
sh!tFaceSamsung
cocolucho"What happens when its the other way round? Where the man is the one that gains weight- should she leave him because he is no longer attractive."
read te article sesi : it's al about women not man
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imd
Letitgo@imd, I dont think its me who commented on handles, it is actually Mokwepa not me.
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lol my bad..now you ..you bro r killin me thats all........
Lemme share one with you SOME woman YES like you say it find confort in other man..
WHAT confort if you may be clear ???
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Psalm124
Life is easier for men, when they gain weight it's okay, it just shows that you are feeding him well.Married women do gain weight because of the men in their lives. Not all men are supportive and loving towards their wives, you get SOME selfish, egotistical men.
1. Where will those women find the time to get back in shape after giving birth because they have look after their families. It's even worse when you don't have a helper or can't afford 1 and you live far away from family and friends. HE won't take out an hour of HIS time to look after the babies just for the woman to rush to gym or jog around the block especially for working moms. Batho ga ba tshwane, some women don't have to lift a finger to get back in shape after having children.
2. When your husband is unloving, emotionally; mentally and physically abusive, that tampers with your emotions and self esteem driving you to unhealthy eating.
When he cheats on you, he will always go for the skinny girls. So ladies you better up your game, watch what you eat and squeeze in 30 minutes to work out at least 3 - 5 times a week. It's so much easier to maintain your weight when you're active. Love yourself 1st because I can promise you someone out there appreciates and treasures you.
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Maezizsto4Sure
LetitgoITS A LIE, THEY FIND CONFORT IN FOOD? DIFEBENYANA TSE? THEY FIND CONFORT IN OTHER MAN, NXAAAA.
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kikkikikikkikkiki hahahahahhahaha
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imd
@Psalm124Spot on my dear......luckily I feel am sexy fit not FAT as he sings it .........COmpared to him nxa!
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Letitgo
@imd, once they (women) feel neglected or not sure about their bodies, they dont got to food for assurence, they got to other men for assurity, if they still find them sexy, interesting and beautiful. The sad part is they get laid, why open your legs? kwalang dirope tle bo mme and shake your body, u know that cat walk will give u attention u looking for. But not if u r BOOMBER, not offence boombers.Report Abuse
Eraser
@Stimelawhen she gains waight, it shows that ngimuphethe kahle owakwami.
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true
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imd
@Letitgoonce they (women) feel neglected or not sure about their bodies,
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can you guess what I just heard by that................
YOU CLEARLY NOT DOING YOUR ONE JOB AS A MAN...............................
why must a woman feel neglected TO BEGIN WITH????????
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Tango
Married women tend to adopt the eating habits of their husbands. That means more high-fat, high-sugar foods.==================
Even single woman like mine does that, she doesn't care whether i am having a skop or not, but she will still want a piece.
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Vhamsanda
The writter has commiitted a serious flaw of judgement . It has become a norm to blame men for all the ills of the world.What about the fat women who are single ?
What about the fat virgins ?
What about the fat men ?
This is pathetic research .
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svavava
i dont think this is true. when i moved in with ma husband, i joined the gym and i still go up to todayReport Abuse
cocolucho
MokwepaGuys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.
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The only reason that women are okay with men getting a little on the fat side is because it makes them less capable of cheating since less women are choosing them. But that leaves your woman with a host of other hot guys to pick from when she does not want to be poked by a match stick that she can hardly feel beneath all that fat- and thats if she loves you.
There is also no excuse for a man to gain weight, if you do then you have no pride in yourself if you allow your weight to spiral out of control.
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Cl!ck
If Lindiwe Mazibuko can't fit through a door now that she's single.. Imagine when she's married.. *Oh boy*Report Abuse
Kaylae
sarmologadiNt true, how about people like Connie Ferguson, Jada Pinkett who have maintained their weights? It's jst lazinesss, ohh plzzz.....
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my sweety thats medical intervention,they do operations to remove the fat
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JahNeh
Is this why my wife picked up weight, while my mistresses still look as hot as ever?My I should introduce my wife to the mistresses so that she can see the competition, and pick up her game!
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DeOvi
@MokwepaGuys are allowed to be fat because they are head of the house. no excuse for women to be fat because i will see other ladies with "handles" be tempted.
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so wat about female headed household???
o kae Kweps
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imd
JahNehIs this why my wife picked up weight, while my mistresses still look as hot as ever?
My I should introduce my wife to the mistresses so that she can see the competition, and pick up her game!
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LOL You wanna go into a snakes pit jy I see.......kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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malemaforpresident
You balooon? i go for the best a 17 year grade 12 student with beautiful innocent thighsReport Abuse
EC222
Most blacks think gaining weight means LIFE IS GOOD N CONTENT WITH ALLI often hear my granny says " why o sa none ke gore makoti ga gofe dijo pila, or say " o warisa keng ngwanaka" ?
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
She adds that the chosen foods are usually high in fat or carbohydrates such as pasta, rice, chips, or fried potato chips.She says lack of sleep can also lead to weight gain.
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My daughter makes me do all of the above...............
The opposite happens when Im in a loving relationship.......... the love handles just melt away
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imd
malemaforpresidentYou balooon? i go for the best a 17 year grade 12 student with beautiful innocent thighs
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Sad part is you'd DIE if your woman does that to you Kwaaaaaaaaaaaa
woman live throught it.......You foget your petite is someone elses looooooooolz
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Letitgo
@imd, why must a woman feel neglected TO BEGIN WITH????????________________________________________________________
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA U R QOUTING ME NOW, WHATEVER REASON THAT SUPPOSEDLY MAKES THEM FIND CONFORT IN FOOD, ITS THE SAME REASON THAT WILL MAKE THEM FEEL NEGLECTED. IT COULD BE ANYTHING, THATS WHY THERE IS NOT VIRGIN ON EARTH BECAUSE LIFE F@CKS EVERYONE. SO ITS LIFE SISI.
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Tango
Cl!ckIf Lindiwe Mazibuko can't fit through a door now that she's single.. Imagine when she's married.. *Oh boy*
kwaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaa..........i can't imagine that
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Bumboklaat
Ke itsitse go re Sowetan ekase fetse pila ka freitaga esa bolela ka mnyakazo! SIES!Report Abuse
imd
Letitgo@imd, why must a woman feel neglected TO BEGIN WITH????????
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA U R QOUTING ME NOW, WHATEVER REASON THAT SUPPOSEDLY MAKES THEM FIND CONFORT IN FOOD, ITS THE SAME REASON THAT WILL MAKE THEM FEEL NEGLECTED. IT COULD BE ANYTHING, THATS WHY THERE IS NOT VIRGIN ON EARTH BECAUSE LIFE F@CKS EVERYONE. SO ITS LIFE SISI.
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Listening is a skill you know
Neglected by her man??????
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sh!tFaceSamsung
Bumboklaat2day thursdae wena! gao tsa maye lemabaka
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MommaC
Something that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club or something. Maybe if she was doing that during her marriage, she wouldn't be getting divorced?Report Abuse
sh!tFaceSamsung
@imd - 4rom 2dae darling just try 2 eat vegetables as much as u can : n avoid fatie foods with oilReport Abuse
imd
sh!tFaceSamsung@imd - 4rom 2dae darling just try 2 eat vegetables as much as u can : n avoid fatie foods with oil
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Not with my food............I eats veggies though
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Maezizsto4Sure
BumboklaatKe itsitse go re Sowetan ekase fetse pila ka freitaga esa bolela ka mnyakazo! SIES!
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BooooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOmbaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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Malwela1
Is this dude a Nigerian?Report Abuse
ngutha
@MommaCSomething that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club or something. Maybe if she was doing that during her marriage, she wouldn't be getting divorced?
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I agree 100%. You gave me a de javu moment. When I divorced my ex-wife, she was this big momma who was always nagging and lazy to do anything. She just ate and ate, complained and complained. But, since our divorce, I have noticed has been looking after herself. She lost weight and does her hair. Every time I go and visit my kids she makes sure that she well washed and smells good. She is slender and a bit curvy. She even speaks to me politely. Its a pity that we can't revive our marriage because we have both move on and remarried to other people.
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McLoving
Bad eating habits,lack of exercise and smoking .It's clearly stated that the content of the study is about life in UK.The research was conducted in UK following their lifestyle,so I would agree fully with the results.The study also forget to include how much those women in the UK smoke.
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Bingo-Ingo
By the way, they've got two mouths.Report Abuse
imd
@nguthashe was this big momma who was always nagging and lazy to do anything. She just ate and ate, complained and complained.
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you shottin youself on the foot BRO.........."we have both move on and remarried to other people."
meaning you failed at your one lousy job to continue carig for her elooooooooooooooooooooo......
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branded
i agree with the article, i have gained a lot of weight since i have moved in with my partner, i wud usually have lunch and a light supper but since we have been together it breakfast, lunch and supper all of which are heavy mara we are working on shedding the weightReport Abuse
imd
@ all men :If you want an Angel provide heaven for the woman
But if its HELL you provide you sure will get ................
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Skopokopo
Good Morning,Nice and good looking people and those who are not nice and not good looking i also say morning to you!!!
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UP THE BUCSReport Abuse
Chichi7
MommaCSomething that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club or something. Maybe if she was doing that during her marriage, she wouldn't be getting divorced?
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I think divorces are much more than a woman looking good and going to the gym and so on.If a marriage is not working, it does not matter how much of a bombshel a woman is.
And if a man loves his woman, he will find ways and means to get both of them to the gym. The movies why did i get married shows people that they need to support their partner rather than put them down.
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LESON.1
@SkopokopoGood Morning,
Nice and good looking people and those who are not nice and not good looking i also say morning to you!!!
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(makhi) we know u are FAT and not good looking, morning to you too (Tsekeleke)
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MommaC
Chichi7The problem is that too many people (both men and women) start out under false pretences. Why only take pride in your appearance if you are single or find interesting things to talk about after a divorce? A spouse should not be expected to respect and love someone if they don't respect and love themselves. Yes, there are times when you need support and that is when your spouse should be there for you but not bothering to bath regularly or wondering around looking like a badly packed sack of potatoes for years on end does not exactly inspire 'intimacy'
Humans are superficial creatures. We like to pretend that we aren't but we really are.
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Voetzek
Lets be honest guys our woman/ladies tend to relax when you live with them, editor forgot something -:1st acting as they are your parents-warawarawara, want to manage your money, changing from wearing G-string to panties and threatening to call the police, the list is endlessReport Abuse
eKapa-
@VoetzekLets be honest guys our woman/ladies tend to relax when you live with them, editor forgot something -:1st acting as they are your parents-warawarawara, want to manage your money, changing from wearing G-string to panties and threatening to call the police, the list is endless
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and also tend to use your username when you ask them for mnyakazo..."voetzek! "
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Skopokopo
LESON.1@Skopokopo
Good Morning,
Nice and good looking people and those who are not nice and not good looking i also say morning to you!!!
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(makhi) we know u are FAT and not good looking, morning to you too (Tsekeleke)
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Kikikikikiki my exact target fell on my trap kikikiki makhi dont turn things around batho, i dont want to discribe you
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ngutha
@imdngutha
she was this big momma who was always nagging and lazy to do anything. She just ate and ate, complained and complained.
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you shottin youself on the foot BRO.........."we have both move on and remarried to other people."
meaning you failed at your one lousy job to continue carig for her elooooooooooooooooooooo......
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No, I did not fail. We both failed. We were both 20 when we got married. We were young and we both never knew what we were doing. We love it each other and we fought each other. The weight issue was just part of the problem. There were also other personal issues which we both could not solve and resulted in the divorce.
Since we are divorced I think she is motivated to loose weight just to make me jealous and regret and feel guilty about divorcing her. But anyway I have no hard feelings or regrets because she is still a great mother. Even though my kids have a step-father, she still allows them to come and visit me during the school holidays. She has taught them to respect and acknowledge me as their biological father.
But anyway my current wife is 2x hotter and 10 years younger than her. Therefore I have nothing to complain about.
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BlackSeed
This article does not speak to me, it probably speak to those that says Love is temporary and conditional.A relationship between any two parties has to be mutual or else it will fail. A habit has nothing to do with Love but frustrations of life in general.
We seem to forget that although people can commit to each other in marriage, they are still individuals who have their own personal goals and needs and if those are not met or achieved, there will be problems; hence one should only commit once they are completely matured and understand the marriage communion.
One cannot expect personal growth and development within a marriage since this is not a career but a spiritual union.
This is similar to schooling; it is believed to be so mandatory that when one fails or do not get an opportunity to attend school; they are immediately declared outcasts/illiterate because either they can’t speak English very well or cannot achieve higher grades. Yet you find a University Professor smoking a pack of cigarette that has a big sign to inform a him/her of the dangers of smoking; now, is that wit or illiteracy? I know some academic will come with a so called academic reasoning like addiction and so forth to cover their arses.
For Example, today’s schools are not ONLY expensive because of Education but because they got swimming pools, beautiful gardens yet the students sees the Gardner as an ordinary illiterate man while it’s his garden that attracts parents, media, sponsors, etc.
This shows that it is not Education that assist the brain but the heart.
Character will always lead and Education and the rest will follow. It is one’s goodness of the Heart that will make him/her shares a meal with a neighbor while Economics and Accounting will tell or advise you otherwise.
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Chichi7
@ MommaC- I agree with you that as humans, we tend to pretend a lot at being who we are not and we also marry for the wrong reasons. In african culture, most marry the first person that asks because of pressure from family and friends. Some marry because they are lonely and need some fulfilment. The truth of the matter is, people need to marry when they are ready and they know that it is more than just love that they feel for their partner.A lot of both men and women complain that their partner has changed. There is nothing like that, as that is how they were from the start. They were merely good at camouflage.
I know that w woman needs to take pride in her appearance and it is no excuse for her to say that she has too much on her plate.
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imd
But anyway my current wife is 2x hotter and 10 years younger than her. Therefore I have nothing to complain about.======================================
aaaaaah you see chances are she was only 10yrs old when you first married WOW
all dze best hope she stays sizzzlin for your sake.... loool
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Maezizsto4Sure
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imd
@Chichi7I know that w woman needs to take pride in her appearance and it is no excuse for her to say that she has too much on her plate.
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REALLY now if you can count to just 5 ......5 of what is on a mans plate.....i'll give you a bells!!!!!
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ngutha
@imdBut anyway my current wife is 2x hotter and 10 years younger than her. Therefore I have nothing to complain about.
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aaaaaah you see chances are she was only 10yrs old when you first married WOW
all dze best hope she stays sizzzlin for your sake.... loool
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...no, she does not look like a 10 year old anymore. She is grown woman. I am in my late 30s, so you can do the maths to guess her age.
She is going to remain HOT because she is a "gym freak"
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MommaC
Chichi7There is an old saying about how a woman marries a man hoping to change him and a man marries a woman hoping she won't change.
I fully agree with you. My Gran always told me never to marry someone until I had nursed him through a dose of the flu. It was only later that I understood what she meant. Its also important that you are a whole person and marry a whole person. This nonsense about 'you complete me' is ridiculous.
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@ngutha yho she was younger than ten yrs mossss..............is my point not how she looks now :D
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Maezizsto4SureSkopokopo-O na le mepako e mentle or le wena marao a wele?
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hey! hey! my other target responded, my good looking people have not yet responded!
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Chichi7
@ imd- am merely saying that a woman, no matter how much burdens she has to carry, she needs time out to relax in a bath and have time alone to feel relaxed and freshen up.Get the man involved in allowing you time out whilst he takes care of the kids.
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imd
@Chichi7 ............ no bells for you!Report Abuse
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@ imd- am actually non AAReport Abuse
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Maezizsto4SureSkopo-Araba man are you packed to capacity or o flat like maraba staad road?
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imdAre you saying that you don't have time to take care of yourself?
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Chichi7
@ MommaC- Marc Grungor talks about marriage and single people looking for marriage. I must admit that what he says makes a lot of sense to me. If you are a miserable person, why the hell do you want to marry and bring misery on another person he says.You are right when you say that we have to be happy as an individual rather than wait for someone to make us happy. If people looked at this fact, many would not eat tonnes of food every time things went wrong in their marriage.
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@Chichi7@ imd- am actually non AA
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same here, fact is you couldnt even get to one..............
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@Blackseed.Wow you deserve a round of applause,first comment i read today that makes sense.Spot on bro.Tell me bro.Say i wanna pay Lobola for my woman and the her family demands R30.000 citing reasons that she is well educated from a good institution and all that rubbish.Fine i pay the the first installment of R15.000 and everything is cool.Now my question is, say i want her to move in with me does her family require me to pay the full amount of the Lobola before she can move in with me or can she move in with me before i finish paying the full amount.Bear in mind she is Zulu and masulu can have a lot of annoying rules and regulations.
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Maezizsto4Surethe bigger Mkhaba u have, the smaller it be comes..ur (d!ck)
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MommaCimd
Are you saying that you don't have time to take care of yourself?
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fortunately I do .....but am saying if anybody can give just 5 of whats on a mans plate
so can you......they have a lot to say these ppl yerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
then have a nerve to say woman complain n complain n complain
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@Skopokopo@Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-Araba man are you packed to capacity or o flat like maraba staad road?
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"When women are settled, they stop caring about how they look to their partner because they assume the other person has basically become blind to it. That is why some men stop loving them because they are not the women they married."when we walk down the aisle he said "till deaath" do us apart,why are u complaining now,that means u have seen the better one nna plus ga ke rate go hlapa le yena ga a rate so 50/50 equals to saving water
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imdMen aren't good at multitasking so they only need two things on their plate before becoming confused :-P
I have always maintained that I need a 'wife'. Being the one who always has to do everything gets tiring. That is no excuse for not taking care of yourself though. If anything, pampering yourself and making yourself look all shiny new is a great antidote for all the stress.
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@imdngutha yho she was younger than ten yrs mossss..............
is my point not how she looks now :D
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No, she was 11yrs old. She is 9 years younger than me to be exact and she is currently in her late 20s.
When I said that she is 10 years younger, I was just giving a rough estimate.
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Fitness is an individual's responsibility, stop blaming men for own self-inflicted injuries!Report Abuse
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Seshebo cooking with Mam Ruby tv show is very misleading to the women of south africa..Report Abuse
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LESON.1@Skopokopo
@Maezizsto4Sure
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Kikikikikikikiki hai ke makhi kikikiki
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@Shenene"When women are settled, they stop caring about how they look to their partner because they assume the other person has basically become blind to it. That is why some men stop loving them because they are not the women they married."
when we walk down the aisle he said "till deaath" do us apart,why are u complaining now,that means u have seen the better one nna plus ga ke rate go hlapa le yena ga a rate so 50/50 equals to saving water
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Ga le hlape bohle because le berekisha sekotlolo se se 1 ene le ka sefite ka go fela ka nako ye 1, Husband first a re senepe sa pasa then follows shenene a thoma ka maoto a fetsa ka hlogo...........
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@LESON.1dumela setagwaa
@eKapa
remember your promise?
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
@McLoving
dumela ntati m0r0to i mean m0ruti
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@LESON.1wena le go nkga diboots o bolela eng? re better re hlapa ka sekotlolo wena o e phumula mahlo wa tshasa roll-on then e tshaile mmerekong ba tla utlwa ka wena ge o tsena
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@MommaC read what this pargraph says:"Once people are married, most men stop giving women the love they used to. When the couple is first courting, there's a lot of attention and men want to make a good impression, and after living together for a while that goes away."
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One thing I can sebela you if men dont stop the above there is nothing that will ever be an effort to do
from a woman....but because men r DOM ai ai ai aiiiiiiiiiiiii...................
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@ NdonaI agree.. These women should cheat more and spice up their sex lives.. That way they'll always be under-pressure to look good for their "roll-ons"
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@shenene@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
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doing my job, what job sesi?
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BuckselonaGive thanks Roots; if the communion is a blessed one, pay the money and be with the woman you admire and Love. I will do that without a blink.
Though I do not support Lobola at all; my view is that all other personal gains have nothing to do with the Marriage communion. However, I still respect the Customs of others for as long as they don't hurt or cause harm to anyone and will follow them if I have to marry in the family; unless my spouse elect tells me otherwise.
The Elders always advised one to marry in the family that almost shares the same customs to avoid such unnecessary confrontations; at least that way you’ll plan well ahead because you know what is expected.
The other thing that we forget to talk about before Marriage is aspects like this; one needs to know what your spouses’ elect customs are before you commit so you know whether you can meet them or not should you wish to marry.
Spend more time talking to your girlfriend about more important things than just having s.e.x and partying; that’s the mistake we make and only try to fight these things later.
Relationship is not just about spending time together but about engaging each other about your future together going forward.
People are different and unfortunately there’s nothing we can do about it.
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imdThat goes both ways.
When you first get together there is steamy monkeysex three or five times a day, you cook him breakfast, you sit holding his hand through every soccer match and you gaze into his eyes at every opportunity. Couple of years down the line - not so lots. Good thing too as you'd get nothing done.
Part of the problem is the unrealistic expectations. There is no 'happily ever after', we are not Sleeping Beauty and he is not Prince Charming. Marriage is damn hard work. Its worth it but it isn't easy.
Best analogy I ever heard was that marriage is like a rose garden. Tend it with love and it is beautiful but neglect it and it becomes a weed choked bramble pit in no time at all
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Shenenewhat promise now? remind me plz..
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Skopokopo@shenene
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
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doing my job, what job sesi?
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blinding him,robbing him and thakathing him
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@BlackSeedSpend more time talking to your girlfriend about more important things than just having s.e.x and partying; that’s the mistake we make and only try to fight these things later.
Relationship is not just about spending time together but about engaging each other about your future together going forward.
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how old are you? You talk sence I must say ...now teach the rest!
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@eKapa- sure my boet
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@shenene
@Maezizsto4Sure
na wareng rre . ke go hlolosetse jwang mara i see skopokopo is doing her job
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doing my job, what job sesi?
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blinding him,robbing him and thakathing him
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oh i see, i wish i could have more power of thakathing to thakatha him and stop thukaning!!!
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@AllWho are this two drug addicts couples talking “SENCE” ? ( Whitney and Bobby ?)
@imd AKA imdom-kop
@ @BlackSeed AKA Blacksh1t
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@MommaCThat goes both ways.
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eh banna 50/50 works when it suits the situation?????
He is a man must be man enough moss and stick to his side of the bargain kaloku.......
It does not give a right for him to stray coz you stopped gazing in his eyes while he watch soccer,
when he now decides you FAT he'll go look for a 16V ............
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@SheneneI know you, if you behave like this it means your R11 increase is been approved........
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LESON.1@All
Who are this two drug addicts couples talking “SENCE” ? ( Whitney and Bobby ?)
@imd AKA imdom-kop
@ @BlackSeed AKA Blacksh1t
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you DOM number1 akere as in super DOM...........
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@Cl!ck@ Ndona
I agree.. These women should cheat more and spice up their sex lives.. That way they'll always be under-pressure to look good for their "roll-ons
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you talking bull, you f@cking constipated Dog!! or your mom conceived while cheating, is that what you saying??
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@LESON.1hello! my boy.....tell your mom I am sleeping over tonight....then wena olo robala ko kitchen or toiled ya RDP you chose
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@All, Hello!!
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MommaC
imdHaai bokkie. You can't have one rule for him and one for you. Its either both do 50/50 or none do. What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
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@Blackseed.You absolutely right ma man.Its just that when it comes to other ppls cultures some issues become complex.Eg.If maybe u impregnate a zulu woman your family must approach her family first if not when they come to your family to (letha isisu) they are gonna demand a lot of money for damages and i for one ddint know that.Hence the huge amount of Lobola they have requested from me.Atleast now i know.You absolutely right we shud try to marry within the family that shares the same customs but sumtyms it becomes impossible bcos your heart can direct you in the opposite direction sumtyms and you end up dating sum1 who shares different customs and beliefs as you.Report Abuse
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@imdi been reading your comments "Lady Gaga" - you sound like a pre-school teacher.... is like you writting with a white crayon....*****Shame****
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@MommaCHaai bokkie. You can't have one rule for him and one for you. Its either both do 50/50 or none do. What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
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No he is the man eloooooooo not me.............
thats y this 50/50 gets pulled up when it suits situation this aint no 50/50
a man must b a man qha!!
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LESON.1@imd
i been reading your comments "Lady Gaga" - you sound like a pre-school teacher.... is like you writting with a white crayon....*****Shame****
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its showin your bo DOMness ....again
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@LESON.1wena o setlatla struu o dira ke gore o ne o phaka dijo primary then wa ya high school still wa llela government a tlise dijo tsa mahala now o wa bereka o batla boss ya gago e go fe dijo mahala mxm o budgeter masepaaaa struu
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@JnrJackYou getting paid weekly, so the first thing you should buy tomorrow is a pair of B@lls....ok !!!
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@ JnrJackRemove the mute button please.. I can't hear a damn thing you're saying!!
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Shenenewhat prmise maan araba putso yaka
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MommaC
imd??? so because he is the man he must do everything to make you happy and you don't need to do anything
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@SheneneI have a job for you - go and wash @imd's oversized p@nty ka " maq washing powder"
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where are you's my frends.....
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Good afternoonI hope this helps.
Relationship Myths - DR PHIL
Think your relationship is a failure because you and your partner aren't following certain "rules" or meeting certain standards? Dr. Phil blows the whistle on most common but dangerous relationship myths.
MYTH #1: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON A GREAT MEETING OF THE MINDS •You will never see things through your partner's eyes because you are two entirely different people. You are genetically, physiologically, psychologically and historically different.
•You will not solve your relationship problems by becoming more alike in your thinking. Men and women are wired differently. Attempting to blur your fundamentally different viewpoints is unnatural and even dangerous.
•Recognize that a relationship is far more enjoyable when you're with someone who enriches your life, not simply reflects it. Appreciate your differences.
MYTH #2: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES A GREAT ROMANCE •Yes, your life with your partner should include plenty of romance. But don't kid yourself and expect an unrealistic Hollywood fairytale. The truth is that in the real world, being in love is not like falling in love.
•Falling in love is only the first stage of love. It's impossible to remain in that stage. A mature relationship will shift from dizzying infatuation to a deeper, more secure love.
•Don't make the common mistake of thinking that when the initial wild passion fades you aren't in love anymore. The answer is not to start a new relationship so you can recapture that emotional high with someone else. The answer is to learn how to move on to the next stages of love for a different but richer experience.
MYTH #3: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES GREAT PROBLEM-SOLVING •Don't fall into the trap of believing that you and your partner can't be happy if you can't resolve your serious disagreements. Ninety percent of problems in a relationship are not solvable.
•There are things that you and your partner disagree about and will continue to disagree about. Why can't you once and for all resolve these issues? Because in order to do so, one of you would have to sacrifice your values and beliefs.
•You can simply agree to disagree and reach "emotional closure" even though you haven't reached closure on the issue.
◦Don't avoid achieving emotional closure at the end of an argument.
MYTH #4: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX •The belief that sex is not important is a dangerous and intimacy-eroding myth. Sex provides an important time-out from the pressures of our daily lives and allows us to experience a quality level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our partners.
•Sex might not be everything but it registers higher (90 percent) on the "importance scale" if it's a source of frustration in your relationship. If your sex life is unfulfilled, it becomes a gigantic issue. On the other hand, couples that have satisfying sex lives rate sex at only 10 percent on the "importance scale."
•Don't restrict your thinking by considering sex to be something that only consists of the actual physical act. Touching, caressing, holding hands and any means by which you provide physical comfort to your partner can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life.
MYTH #5: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP CANNOT SURVIVE A FLAWED PARTNER •Nobody's perfect. As long as your partner's quirks are non-abusive and non-destructive, you can learn to live with them.
•Instead of focusing on your partner's shortcomings, remember the qualities that attracted you in the first place. Perhaps some of these idiosyncrasies were part of the attraction? Just because a behavior isn't mainstream, doesn't mean that it's toxic to the relationship.
•Be careful to distinguish the difference between a partner with quirks and one with a serious problem. Serious problems that are destructive and abusive include substance abuse and mental/physical abuse. Unlike idiosyncrasies, these are not behaviors you should learn to live with.
MYTH #6: YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN BECOME GREAT ONLY WHEN YOU STRAIGHTEN YOUR PARTNER OUT •Don't fall into the trap of believing that if you could change your partner, your relationship would be better. You are, at the very least, jointly accountable for the relationship.
•Let go of the childlike notion that falling in love means finding someone who will be responsible for your happiness. You need to take responsibility for your own happiness.
•If your relationship is distressed, the most important person for you to change might be yourself. Once you identify the payoffs you are subconsciously seeking with destructive behavior, you can choose to remove them from your life.
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Ooooh boy is this Pastor Mbhoro or D.r Phil ? some1's life is about to change today ...
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@Blackseed.I watched Khumbule khaya maobane and saw that Lady from ZCC who was looking for her father to do rituals for since she divorced from her husband bcos her ancestors ddint recognise her surname which she was using and that resulted in the split-up with the husband.What im trying to say is that as Blacks our cultures and beliefs are very complex and yet important at the same time.That story really touched me cos a lot of black ppl are wondering around lost and all things dont go well for them claiming to be bewitched kgante its bcos there is that one aspect in their life that they have neglected and once they find their roots things will start looking up for them.Hence a lot of lost souls we see in S.A.All they know is parties,sex, cheating ,drinking and all the evil things.this blogg can attest to that.
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BuckselonaR30 000 is cheaper than the medical costs you’ll have to pay due to stress for marrying the wrong woman; stress and depression causes irregularities in your daily life and believe me, you don’t want to go through that because that’s a costly exercise; not only financially but emotionally and physically.
You can end up being a psycho and spend the rest of your life in Jail or as a refugee because of stress and depression.
By investing that R30 000, you’ll be saving on a possible loss in anticipated separation/divorce where you could lose your pension money, part of your house investments, etc.
Marriage and Relationships is not child’s play
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@ ALLGUD DAY GUYS
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imdThanks, I was raised well; age has nothing to do with it.
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@LESON.1@JnrJack
You getting paid weekly, so the first thing you should buy tomorrow is a pair of B@lls....ok !!!
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lol!! your mom loves me a lot, because i buy you malamogodu and 20litre kudu beer every weekend!!!
then tomorrow, i am there and o lo robala fase ko kitchen jou sw!ne!
@Cl!ck
just stop opening that stinky mouth if you have nothing constructive to say!! sounds better now, you FAG*T!!
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@imdShame--(You went to EWC College at Boksburg only to grab the word ‘DOM”—You’re worse than I thought) ..
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SWEETYK@ ALL
GUD DAY GUYS
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hello and welcome SWEETY!
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LESON.1Ooooh boy is this Pastor Mbhoro or D.r Phil ? some1's life is about to change today ...
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Pastor Mbhoro it is.
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LESON.1Don’t shoot in the dark because you wasting bullets. None of your insults will ever dent my soul. My free will and joy is in my heart.
The likes of you nature takes care of like waste e.g. kaka
You’ll be lucky if you could be recycled
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@Makhosini0408Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right?
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here comes Ms universe with a size10 High heels....... AKA Ms kikikikikikiki tltltltltltltltltltltlt tttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttReport Abuse
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@BlackSeedStop drinking hydraulic oil during your tea break, you gonna kak BlackShit......
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Oh SORRY PPS, I WASNT AWARE OF THIS!Report Abuse
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@JnrJackOh SORRY PPS, I WASNT AWARE OF THIS
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tltltlttltltltltlt DEAD kikikikikkiikikkikikikkkikikkikki so is a mistake
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hi babes
@Lesson.1 its lunch babes, so were are we eating 2day
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JnrJack@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
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Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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@JnrJackIf you bored put your right middle finger in your @ss for 5min then take it out and sack on it....(Zeb Matabane)
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DeOvi@JnrJack
Oh SORRY PPS, I WASNT AWARE OF THIS
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tltltlttltltltltlt DEAD kikikikikkiikikkikikikkkikikkikki so is a mistake
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when you look upsidedown between you legs then you would probably see a very big MISTAKE!!!
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LESON.1@JnrJack
If you bored put your right middle finger in your @ss for 5min then take it out and sack on it....(Zeb Matabane)
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No comment nfana, let me have chat with this one old rat: Makhosini0408!!!!
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@DeOviNo lunch - will just drink water---- please how many times, divide and minus must i tell you not to include my name with M0nkeys ? Eissh wena mara......................
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@JnrJackohhk dude wat eva i said i did not open doors 4 u to insults me geeeeeez.......
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Holla 7~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
kikikikikiikikikik
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Makhosini0408JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
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Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
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@JnrJackand stop talking to my woman @DeOvi while you busy scratching your hairy b@lls ka access card.... ok!!!
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@DeOvi@JnrJack
ohhk dude wat eva i said i did not open doors 4 u to insults me geeeeeez.......
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please give me time to pay more attention on this one big RAT: you call Who?
@Makhosini0408
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@JnrJackIyooo wa roga m0tho so ? flat tyres...............
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LESON.1@JnrJack
and stop talking to my woman @DeOvi while you busy scratching your hairy b@lls ka access card.... ok!!!
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ask your wife, she has undergone a kuku repair and reduction...
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eKapa-Maezizsto4Sure
the bigger Mkhaba u have, the smaller it be comes..ur (d!ck)
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Ftsek wena o thala
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Shenene
@eKapashoooooooooooooo papa o wa bolela this days am suspecting gore o navvy
@LESON.1
kana ware ke proposer majita? kikikikiki
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Shenene@eKapa
shoooooooooooooo papa o wa bolela this days am suspecting gore o navvy
@LESON.1
kana ware ke proposer majita? kikikikiki
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hello! can i befriend you on this blogg? everyone seems to be against me
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LESON.1
@SheneneO thomile akere ene nna keya tseba gore onyaka mang on this blog ? dn't wory busy corner is the place this weeked....aneh ?
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@LESON.1@Shenene
O thomile akere ene nna keya tseba gore onyaka mang on this blog ? dn't wory busy corner is the place this weeked....aneh ?
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nee fok!! you all over the place.....so wanna f@ck every s.l.u.t here?
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Makhosini0408
JnrJackMakhosini0408
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
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Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
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Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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JnrJack
@Sheneneyour mouth looks like nyoyahao: ganetxa!
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Maezizsto4Sure
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LESON.1
@JnrJack@Shenene
@LESON.1
kana ware ke proposer majita? kikikikiki
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hello! can i befriend you on this blogg? everyone seems to be against me
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what are you sagesting wena by saying befriend? nxaaaa-shame a skinny guy like you who can't even hold a R5 Cell C airtime with both hands- o nagana gore o tlo dirang shenene wena ..fokof
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LESON.1@imd
Shame--(You went to EWC College at Boksburg only to grab the word ‘DOM”—You’re worse than I thought) ..
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and it glows by hour your bo DOMnesss dont epose yourself boy.....
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Makhosini0408JnrJack
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
Good afternoon
I hope this helps.
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Shovel that novel in your tinny@ss!! dont have time reading all that kak you downloaded on the internet!! anyway welcom and enjoy yourself.....next time!! dont bring that sh!t here! right
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Apologies, if that offended you, but you did not have to stoop so low. By the way, after that unfortunate ordeal, if I make call it, was it last year, that led to your absence? I thought that you will come back matured and how wrong I was?
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
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Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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i have heard you still suffering a weak errection and its a pity that you have tried all traditional doctors with no luck....!! Uzoba right baba, dont give up.
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@imd@LESON.1
@imd
Shame--(You went to EWC College at Boksburg only to grab the word ‘DOM”—You’re worse than I thought) ..
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and it glows by hour your bo DOMnesss dont epose yourself boy.....
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i wish you can speak English cos i dnt understand Endilishi........(go back to your primary school and ask for your refund- you are just a waste of time)
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Shenene
@JnrJackok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
@Maezizsto4Sure
nt0t0 ya gago ya loma i see , o ja di cleanara tsa mmerekong,o ja ditagwa tsa kasi ebile o ja ma old crock difefe tsa go tswa taste
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Spekepeke
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eKapa
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Dzel
Makhosini0408
MissBhakajuju
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Hala hala hala hala hala guys
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m'zaco'
sure SweetykNna_ se ke vaya....eish! These days di a boa, no blogging time. its hectic mme.
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sh!tFaceSamsung
"You’ll be lucky if you could be recycled "ohh mi GOD : u made my dae : wahahahahaha
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@m'zaco'You only waiting for Pirates gore e wine------ (wa bbbbbbhora)
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Shenene
@JnrJackhahahahahahah (evil lough) o nyeele boiky o nagana gore o ka thoma nna shenene a.k.a shenny ma shezzzo hihihihi ba tla go lukisa maretenyanaa a wa kgona go ny0ba tonight kikikikiki......maezi,less0n,nachy,mzaco etc including your sh!Tself o kakile mfanaka
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Maezizsto4Sure
Endilishi hahahahahahahahaShenene-O lebetse gore ke jele wena nama to nama that's why nzwere ya me e loma.
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Shenene@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
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your mouth is as wide and deep as n.y.o ya gago
your mouth is as red inside like n.y.o ya gago
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@Maezizsto4SureEndilishi hahahahahahahaha
Shenene-O lebetse gore ke jele wena nama to nama that's why nzwere ya me e loma.
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lol!!!!kikikikikkikiiiiiiii!!!!!!
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@Sheneneyour mouth looks like nyoyahao: ganetxa!
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Makhosini0408
Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.=================================
that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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i have heard you still suffering a weak errection and its a pity that you have tried all traditional doctors with no luck....!! Uzoba right baba, dont give up.
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That is very lame. Sham. Atleast the are places where I can go to get help. If I understand well my diagnosis according to Dr JnrJack is not permanent buy can your member be cured? Judging by the comments from the blogg, usenkingeni baba.
If I wanted to rub it in, I was going to google the comments and relive your famous moment. I h@te dialogues and unfortunately, I feel that we are both acting childish and will be the first one to own up and say, humble apologies again, if I have offended you. Nothing personal. I forgive you. I rest my case.
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Shenene
@imdgal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
@SWEETYK
masepaaaaoooooo gal , wa re y o sa ndumedise wena ye?
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LESON.1
@SheneneGape wena ge o twatwetswe o bolela m.ehlolo, E no rena Vienna sausage ye warm o e lokele ka nny0ng… (O tlaba strong)
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LESON.1@m'zaco'
You only waiting for Pirates gore e wine------ (wa bbbbbbhora)
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aaaaaaaaaah u a ZEBRA y usabolele mara heeee..................i fogve you i understand now
kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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@Shenene@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
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2 - 4 yrs......
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Shenene@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
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lol ke DOMo ela?? i dont use stuff seo my dear lol so chill
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JnrJack
Makhosini0408Anyway, no hard feelings. You have my full attention now.
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that Black Mini COOPER with flat tyres in your pants, get it well matured first so that it can errect when necessary because i understand it suffers weak errection!!! hope this helps
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Actually baba, thank you again for the compliment, but I can safely say mine is private and was not seen by all and sundry. This platform is not to be used as a means of popularity contest. You can swear at me, but that will not bring back your dignity as by the look of things, you have not recovered from a bruised ego. Uzoba strong baba.
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i have heard you still suffering a weak errection and its a pity that you have tried all traditional doctors with no luck....!! Uzoba right baba, dont give up.
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That is very lame. Sham. Atleast the are places where I can go to get help. If I understand well my diagnosis according to Dr JnrJack is not permanent buy can your member be cured? Judging by the comments from the blogg, usenkingeni baba.
If I wanted to rub it in, I was going to google the comments and relive your famous moment. I h@te dialogues and unfortunately, I feel that we are both acting childish and will be the first one to own up and say, humble apologies again, if I have offended you. Nothing personal. I forgive you. I rest my case.
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Thank you when you have finally noticed that you need to grow some balls in that empty 80kg BLACK bag between you legs and is when your Mini COOPER would errect when neccessary
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@imd@LESON.1
@m'zaco'
You only waiting for Pirates gore e wine------ (wa bbbbbbhora)
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aaaaaaaaaah u a ZEBRA y usabolele mara heeee..................i fogve you i understand now
kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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you're a lost m0nkey from Kilimanjaro, Try PTA or Jo'burg zoo...
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JnrJackShenene
@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
----------------------------------------LOL!!!!!!!!!
your mouth is as wide and deep as n.y.o ya gago
your mouth is as red inside like n.y.o ya gago
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ah wena yena o bhari sis ebile bhari e better o semaomao struu vele molomo wa ka o tshwana le nny0 mara ge e le maretenyana ao a gago a swana le nnoga ya cobra with a groaf skin ebile e ya hlaba
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Shenene@SWEETYK
masepaaaaoooooo gal , wa re y o sa ndumedise wena ye?
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Shenene shenenene shenenenenenenen sheneneneneneneneenee ke yao galemela
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JnrJack
@Makhosini0408ANOTHER NOVEL here JY SAL PIS JONG!!!!! HOOR JY?
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@imd@Shenene
@imd
gal ba re ke tlhatswe panti ya gago, o apara s!ze mang?
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lol ke DOMo ela?? i dont use stuff seo my dear lol so chill
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Akere kuku ya gago is leaking - someone please call the plumber
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m'zaco'
Bra Maez~eish, Grootman di a mpoela....since ke thola this POs.............lol
leson.1
~o reng lepara...o sa le busy ka basadi mo blokkong..
~shenene
why o sa ntumedise?....:)
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Shenene
Maezizsto4SureEndilishi hahahahahahahaha
Shenene-O lebetse gore ke jele wena nama to nama that's why nzwere ya me e loma.
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o tlhapisitse maretenyana ao ka jik le vim wa di hlakantsa le handy andy so what did u expect vele....o experiencer masepaaa mfanaka u wanted it to be white in complexion?
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Shenene
@JnrJack
ok wena se reipa bo koko o jele family ya gago kamoka o nagana o tla ja nna u bl00dy 2cent d!ck
----------------------------------------LOL!!!!!!!!!
your mouth is as wide and deep as n.y.o ya gago
your mouth is as red inside like n.y.o ya gago
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ah wena yena o bhari sis ebile bhari e better o semaomao struu vele molomo wa ka o tshwana le nny0 mara ge e le maretenyana ao a gago a swana le nnoga ya cobra with a groaf skin ebile e ya hlaba
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Compliment ntwana, vhele ke tswhere COBRA!!!! not a miniCOOPER!!
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m'zaco'
yooo_ strong language mo....yerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrra re ke bereke!
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JnrJack
@Makhosini0408>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BLACKminiCOOPER0408Report Abuse
Shenene
@m'zaco'wena o tsena wa dumedisa dimaomao tse tsa banna wa tlogela nna anyway how u doing hun
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2nevvy4u
MommaCSomething that always amuses me is when a woman gets divorced she always immediately goes to the hairdresser, joins a gym and starts going to a book club
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which women are you talking about?Those i've seen they immediately goes to casino(hostel) play cards,join kasi management and start gossip group with memeza on their face.
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SWEETYKShenene
@SWEETYK
masepaaaaoooooo gal , wa re y o sa ndumedise wena ye?
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Shenene shenenene shenenenenenenen sheneneneneneneneenee ke yao galemela
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keng o tla ntoya hanti?
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JnrJack@Makhosini0408>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BLACKminiCOOPER0408
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hlukana no Makhosini wena nja man.
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@Shenene@m'zaco'
wena o tsena wa dumedisa dimaomao tse tsa banna wa tlogela nna anyway how u doing hun
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No need for yena gore a go dumidishe cos o re dumedisha a le ka gare ga nny0 ya gago since this morning....
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Maezizsto4Sure
Shenene-Baby ge o ka nsolvela Sweetk I promise babes ko go ja gore o mense boladu.Kopa o nsolvele yena then ke tlo go ja non stop I wouldnt mind go reka mbizaReport Abuse
JnrJack
@2nevvy4uJnrJack
@Makhosini0408>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BLACKminiCOOPER0408
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hlukana no Makhosini wena nja man.
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sure, will do so.....but telling him" he must come with that COPY PASTE SH!T"
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Shenene
@2nevvy4uwena ke batla go go botsa masepaaa pela batho le suit e blaack....
wa re o suppoter neng banaa ebile o nyaala neng o busy o kitimisa bo rye le bo sweetk o be o nagana gore ke tla thola fela o bumpa ka di all-ster tsa maratha every weekend mxm just do the right thing and marry me maan
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JnrJack
.......................................LOGGING OFF....................................................LOVE YOU ALL
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Shenene
@JnrJackkwaaaaaaaaaa u bl00dy roasted chicken kwaaaaaaaaaa navvy will pull u down
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Shenene@m'zaco'
wena o tsena wa dumedisa dimaomao tse tsa banna wa tlogela nna anyway how u doing hun
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eita daaaaa.....8winks
wena Leson.1...............ke ho shebile your molala wa thutlwa.......lol
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Shenene
@LESON.1v0tseke wena o tsamaya o replacer banna ba tshabileng metseng ya bona
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Shenene
@m'zaco'shooo o ntse o le teng mo hanti? i thought o china
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2nevvy4u
fotsek wena straatmate.Report Abuse
LESON.1
@m'zaco'Wena o pre-mature, a g0na m0lala eb1le a g0na d1tsebe, ge o ny@ka o lebelel@ sel0 ka th0ko or ka m0rago, O corner ka m.mele ka m0ka o kare ba go hl@betse la lema0 la digaf1…….
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LESON.1
@SheneneKuku ya gago ka mokgo e bifileng ka gona o kare R1 yela ya kgale ye kgolo…
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LESON.1
@SheneneKuku ya gago ka m0kgo e bifileng ka gona o kare R1 yela ya kgale ye kg0lo…
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Skopokopo
@Sweetyk,Hala frendo, how are you?
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Maezizsto4Sure
Skopo-I asked you a question phakela yerrr.Phela a se ntho encha ge o le plaatgat.Report Abuse
Skopokopo
Maezizsto4SureSkopo-I asked you a question phakela yerrr.Phela a se ntho encha ge o le plaatgat.
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Im not plaat, satisfied?
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Skopokopo
@Maezi,Ask Sweetyk, she will describe me better
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Maezizsto4Sure
I don't want to talk to that thing va?I wana see for myself...o apara size mang ko chest or breast what ever you call it?Report Abuse
DeOvi
@LESON.1ma love note that am commenting 4 the last time 2day,going to work in Australia 4 da whole month and internet is not allowed where i'll be working,pls behave neh.....so wil miss you and love you so much
@Maezizsto4Sure and LESON.1 please guys le hlokomele ngwana o mong neh
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Skopokopo
@maezi,hai maan nxxxxx
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McLoving
@SheneneYou are my daughters age..I don't sleep with small children..o batle thaka tsa hao ga se nna ntate moroto wa hawo.
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LESON.1
What a coincident,@Maezi is going to Brazil and I’m going to Japan
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Maezizsto4Sure
Leson-The only place I know where internet is not allowed is Somalia maybe she's going there.DeOvi-Ka re cup size man keng ka wena akere ke batla go thola idea?
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McLoving
@sheneneWhat have I done to deserve the ntate moroto...ke go yeditseng ko bophelong ba gao kante?
a ke robale le bana ba banyane ke robala le thaka tsaka ,,so like mme wa gao.
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Maezizsto4Sure
Mcloving-Mfeth'u I'm telling you ge o ka bona Shenene o tlo kometsa mathe.She is baie mooi ke yellow bone.Report Abuse
LESON.1
@maezi,can you read my Endilishi ?
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LESON.1
@Maezizsto4SureLeson-The only place I know where internet is not allowed is Somalia maybe she's going there.
DeOvi-Ka re cup size man keng ka wena akere ke batla go thola idea?
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Like i said "coincident", ki ki ki ki ki ki ki ki
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Maezizsto4Sure
Leson-Sure akere DeOvi a re o ya Australia and ga ba dumele internet daso...wa jiya o ya SomaliaReport Abuse
LESON.1
@Maeziha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha o tla bolaya ke tlala moss
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DeOvi
@Maezizsto4Surethe r some places wer technological appliances are not allowd due to wat we r working with.....o nkwele ke rile le hlokomele ngwana o mong
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DeOvi
LESON.1What a coincident,
@Maezi is going to Brazil and I’m going to Japan
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le sepela bjang le sena di passport
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Maezizsto4Sure
DeOvi@Maezizsto4Sure
the r some places wer technological appliances are not allowd due to wat we r working with.....o nkwele ke rile le hlokomele ngwana o mong
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Ja I know working for Red Cross delivering medicines doesnt need technological appliances
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@DeOvi@LESON.1
What a coincident,
@Maezi is going to Brazil and I’m going to Japan
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le sepela bjang le sena di passport
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Re nale 5 passports if you dn't know - nna ke ya Japan ka morago ga tuck shop ya Yun Fat Chow tlabe e le makhi wa ka,,,,, Ge o sa tshephe o kano mo gogola Yun Fat Chow...
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hiddengold
The article forgets to mention that the woman will also give birth to 2 or 3 kids in that time-span weight gain is inevitable and theres nothing more difficult to shed than post-pregnancy weightReport Abuse
pierre2012
People should take personal responsibility for thier body sizes /health and stop blaming others. We all know the dangers of overweight, y should we over-eat and then blame our wfies or hubbies for this???Report Abuse
McLoving
@maezizstowhat's yellow bone ?ga ke galisiwe ke bana ba banyane ,,,ke werdela thaka tsaka
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Tall-n-handsome
They are usually superfit and follow a strict fitness regimen. Because they need lots of energy they are constantly refuelling. That is why you find a very fit man with a big woman that looks like his mom==========================
*dead*
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SWEETYK
Go na le mpja e ke tlameileng ke e rage kamoso.DUMELANG DICHOMI TSAKA!!
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SWEETYK
Skopokopo@Maezi,
Ask Sweetyk, she will describe me better
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Ke explainele lechiana ka setswana hai frend I don't want to waist my time, ke yena o plat remember, don't justify ko selo see. Tell him to meet you at PAN (Alex) next to Makhi G.F's house to see you gore o hit e yang. lol
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Y DUZNT DE ARTICLE MENTION DAT WOMEN GAIN WEIGHT FRM PREGNANCY N SOME R JST UNABLE TO LOOSE IT AGN.Report Abuse
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wbdube
Women just turn to relax in general once they've settled with the ones they love.They no-longer look after themselves lik they used to before settling under the same roof.
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