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Great sex makes life wonderful - even as work gets harder

Jul 27, 2012 | Zenoyise John Lifestyle Writer | 39 comments

Because of the slim job market, many women have to give their all to secure jobs and are finding it difficult to fit sex into their heavy schedules - which includes household chores. This is putting many relationships under pressure....

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Sun May 19 14:58:15 SAST 2013 ::
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Jul 27, 2012

mathopeed

Is unfortunate you brought this article late,if it was in the morning, i was expecting 700 Comments before the end of today.
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Jul 27, 2012

SWEETYK

@Mathopeed

True
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Jul 27, 2012

MsHollyHerb

so true basindwe izinyawo *very late*
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Jul 27, 2012

Mellow

Mbanga explains: "The Bible says that sex is only for married couples and that it unifies the marriage. It also says that the wife and husband should never deny themselves to each other
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ONLY for married couples? Ooohh S#it hell will be flooding with sinners geez

Research shows that sex is one of the main reasons why couples argue, often more than about money, housework and other common sources of conflict.
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Research? Really now as if the only problem ppl have is SEX haai nxaaaaaaaaa
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Jul 27, 2012

sakhomba

He warns women not to use sex as a weapon to get back at their men.
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eish you fools let the cat out of the bag. now women know haba batla go re tsenya motseleng ba re tima marago. damn you.
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Jul 27, 2012

Kasiologist

Thats true, the medication that takes it all away. After which both parties gather their thoughts and solve life's little problems.

Happt times.
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Jul 27, 2012

gaetswe

when sex is used as a weapon of power, i simply go out there and BUY some!
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Jul 27, 2012

masende

ASIDLENI INQUZA SIYEKE UKUKHULUMA TO MUCH
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Jul 27, 2012

Dzel

All the resident sex addicts are gone that is why this will not even reach 50 comments today.

Hi there SweetyK,
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Jul 27, 2012

MsHollyHerb

27 Jul 2012masende
ASIDLENI INQUZA SIYEKE UKUKHULUMA TO MUCH
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kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa DEAD noma usuyibiza kabuhlungu nje LOL
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Jul 27, 2012

Mas-culin

Agreed...

masculinnkosi_gmail
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Jul 27, 2012

MAZAMBANI

KE LAKA LEO
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Jul 27, 2012

SWEETYK

Dzel
All the resident sex addicts are gone that is why this will not even reach 50 comments today.

Hi there SweetyK,
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Hello Dzel how are you today mara?
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Jul 27, 2012

kekeletso321

Horny Sowetan hehehe
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Jul 27, 2012

newhori

KGWEDI E FEDILE LE BUA KA MARAGO THE THIRD ARTICLE NOW.
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Jul 27, 2012

pierre2012

@sakhomba
He warns women not to use sex as a weapon to get back at their men.
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eish you fools let the cat out of the bag. now women know haba batla go re tsenya motseleng ba re tima marago. damn you
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The article does not mention marago, jaanong mathata a gago keng?
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Jul 27, 2012

CTRL-ALT-DEL

If ga ago tima marago, ntja engwe yona ya aja....period
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Jul 27, 2012

VavaVoom25

they should have reserved this article for Monday morning
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Jul 27, 2012

pierre2012

@VavaVoom25
they should have reserved this article for Monday morning
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It can still be discussed ka monday, neh?
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Jul 27, 2012

QPCLCD308

Nnyo e bose hle bathong!??khikhikihi
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Jul 27, 2012

msizi

My partner always tries to say no after an argument but she always ends up underneath me hehehe. i guess i'm too damn good, she is my woman she can't deny me the cake coz if she is i will start accusing her of giving it to someone else & it works. So there is the secret my guys, make false accusations to make her feel guilty & she will give it to u on a silver platter hehehe
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Jul 27, 2012

Still_leShandis

- my comment is the 22nd, i prophesy that come monday, early in the morning, comments would have climbed 500% if not more.

- Anywhoooo, i hope this was noted "Dont make it a habit to deny your man with your NOs"....A-L-E-L-U-Y-A-H koleyondawo....
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Jul 28, 2012

maneater

He warns women not to use sex as a weapon to get back at their men.
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my woman uses sex to get what she wants. she always times herself to ask all the rediculous things a few minutes after sex and i am so stupid to accept all her requests. sex just makes me stupid and i cannot help it.
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Jul 29, 2012

Mzalaz

@Dzel,lol lol lol, eish , i cant stop laughing but its true

@SOWETAN, thank you so much about you sex articles. I think everybody got the message but,can we proceed to other issues other than sex now. Now we all know that we have to give it everyday if possible and if "married" not too sure abt that though.
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Jul 30, 2012

Misslady

maneater
He warns women not to use sex as a weapon to get back at their men.
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my woman uses sex to get what she wants. she always times herself to ask all the rediculous things a few minutes after sex and i am so stupid to accept all her requests. sex just makes me stupid and i cannot help it.
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Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! death by laughter
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Jul 30, 2012

thinya

I don't think having sex regularly prolong a relationship, in fact the more a woman denies a man a sex is the more a man loves that woman. If having sex regularly was a thing to hold a relationship we wouldn't be having so many divorces and cheating. Selo se monate ge o se hwetsa "twaritswari" not in bulk.
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Jul 30, 2012

nnakenna

Thats so true. I agree 100%
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Jul 30, 2012

PapaOra

they busy on the chiefs/pirate article, don't worry sex is the last thing they worried about the last weekend unless their wife/gf are chiefs fans, just saying.

now to the topic at hand, the article is so true... try it ladies you'll see your relationship will be great.. nna my gf goes all out to make sure gore ke sharp, and i return the favour..
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Jul 30, 2012

Ayobas

Eish. no wonder why my performance at work is so poor, I haven't had it since May this year.
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Jul 30, 2012

Maxi77

Article is true. As a woman I have experienced it first-hand. Ladies do not make a bargaining tool out of sex. You're not a hooker... You're married to the man. Eish
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Jul 31, 2012

imd

*rollin eyes*
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Jul 31, 2012

QueenTT

@thinya
I don't think having sex regularly prolong a relationship, in fact the more a woman denies a man a sex is the more a man loves that woman. If having sex regularly was a thing to hold a relationship we wouldn't be having so many divorces and cheating. Selo se monate ge o se hwetsa "twaritswari" not in bulk.

I agree with you...
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Jul 31, 2012

mopostolo

!@Mellow wa utlwa
By having sex you are showing your partner that you care about his needs and that you trust him
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so i'll be waiting
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Aug 1, 2012

sharp01

Some women are not respecting their body. Sex is good but with your own partner don't just give anyone your v.....n ladies because it will get tired .
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Aug 8, 2012

DoubleThink

P$#% is nothing but just p#@$% and I eat it only if i want to_ Drake

Using sex as a weapon trick only work on weak guys, there's just no compromise. If wanted to be married to a nun then I would've went and found myself a nun. Either we do it or i dial or our sexy maid is gona get a raise. hahaha
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Aug 10, 2012

sowetangal

yes I agree, but sex needs to be fun, and not the same style always. in case you didn’t know, women get bored easily just like men. If the sex is not good it becomes a mission for us woman, cause we already know what to expect, if he doesn’t come early , it’s the no foreplay kind of style. Foreplay is so important, not just sticking your fingers into the V. Kissing also counts, dont just bite. OMG being gentle as well .... Men should also read more about how to satisfy a woman. Most woman don’t even know the feeling of a CLIMAX.
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Sep 20, 2012

SKINNY

100% true.
KUKU my friend were are you? tell this women (PYATLA) ya jewa.
and that (GABI GA E NAMELE MPETO) just fulfull your duties as husbands and wifes
Wheather Tiered , Sick or Unhappy .
The two Organs have nothing to do with. just let them do what GOD made them to Do.
NEH!!!!!!

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Oct 26, 2012

Goitsimang1993

if sex was prayer, no1 would say amen
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Dec 28, 2012

KatakataEmaotoAditshepe

This is a very nice article hope young men could take from it and stop sleeping at the sheebens (bars) whilst their partners are waiting for them at home.
I'm happy that they know that money and other stuff dont make it compare to sex.
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