I notice the article is directed particularly to women. Wonder why. Are they the only ones who can climb up the corporate ladder scheming? Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
k-bee
We have so many in our office in our office alone 10 ladies and 3 guys they all sleeping with the boss Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
ayobaness
i also wear mini skirts but m not a slut
sometimes i wear leggings with short top just to show my body
my body is not sexy but m proud of it especially my big tummy nd small ass Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Catty88
I hope many ladies can take this to their head.
You intelligents will get you somewhere.You kuku will get you on the desk and not anywhere beyond that.
Rather work for your respect and image but in the end people will still respect you even 10years for now but no one will respect a person who slept her way to the top.
The same way you go there is the same way you will get down.
Remember succes obtained over night is also lost over night. Report Abuse
Hold on sisters it is better to slip for something rather than nothing from those we call my boyfriend or my lover who can live me any time when feel like doing it. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
EmptyTin
K'shubile nowadays this young boys they are also busy selling their ndunus to this straight/in closet and marrried directors to get positions at work Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
$$$$
This councelling suits our officers.....most of the female wardens sleep their way up the Department ladder......some even sleep with the famouse and cash loaded inmates during the night shifts.
Very sad....
In the yesterday sagga...how do they explain to spouses....what about the kids at school and their friends.
However @Sowetan, it was wrong of them to publish such a disaster....do not again.
I am not condoning the deed of the officers but feel for their immediate ones spouses and kids. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Lee-Ann
@ayobaness...That is too ayouba. U shud be proud of ur body...U go girl! Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
SKIZOBANTWANA
SIYABAZI'' THERE ARE SOME OF THESE YOUNG ATTRACTIVE LADIES YOU'LL FIND GETTING PROMOTED _WITHOUT BEING COMPETENT OR SOMETHING'' BEHIND CLOSED DOORS ,THEY ARE GIVING IT ALL TO THE BOSSES..
mmmmhh i wish i can be a boss too so that i can enjoy this young attractive ladies. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
fokofpolisiekar
@Sowetan, except Asiphe Ndlela, don't you have any other qualified Pshycologist? I sense something dodgy between Asiphe and Sowetan Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
koma
@ Ayobaness..... Who said your body is not sexy??????? Being proud of your body is sexy in itself... It automatically makes you sexy gal.... Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
eKapa
EmptyTin
K'shubile nowadays this young boys they are also busy selling their ndunus to this straight/in closet and marrried directors to get positions at work
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@EmptyTin
i wonder why these office's smell like Manure in the afternoon. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Mybra
so the point here is trying to tell labantwana ukuthi
bangasniki thina umzimba? ungazodlala wena.
Everybody knows you have slept your way up the corporate ladder.
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Y cant we sleep our way up da lagger with our boss ladies?? mare chicks can do ths nee fok maan!!! *thinking out loud* Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
MRPRESIDENT11
@TupacAmaru
Just yesterday the female cop was f@@ked by illiterate traffic officer in the clinic territory without condom and you expected the article to face everybody. Married woman should stop to follow that recent horny incident example and they should learn from the above column. What the article does not emphasize is that married woman or anybody will never be late to change. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
G-ruff
Sleeping your way up to the corperate ladder or taking the short-cut can be very detrimental to your reputation. Its like being a door-mate. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
maftowncity
@Catty88
@ayobaness
Hahahahah...you gals are so funny..you make me laugh..OMW.. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
LEPAKUNYA
WEARING A MINI SKIRT doesnt mean that u r a slut.hu said a lady doesnt hv 2 look sexy
@Socafan i red that in church this past Sunday.Its amazing. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
OMG-girl
The sad state of affairs is that these women who use themselves and their punanz as bargaining chips give us who have to break our backs working hard to get where we want (instead of laying on our backs) a bad name .
Sometimes “using what your mama gave you” to get what you want does not always yield the results you want or expected.
Granted sex has become a big commodity in our day and age; but at the end of the day using sex for trade does not earn one any respect - position, maybe. But not respect. Some women need to stop using sex as a carrot dangling in front of the donkey’s head to get what they want – put in the work; then believe me the satisfaction would be sweeter!
B2n ukuluma, kupimpa and sleepin with one's boss. which one is better? Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
booze1984
It is never a good thing to have sex with your BOSS! period!! Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Coffebreak
It's not women, it's a certain type of person...
Also , considering that there are more female bosses now than ever, who's to say educated men aren't doing it now, as well?
Working off the assumption that the men are young, educated, and attractive, of course...
lol Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
So then Zenoyise the ones having sex what you term office sluts are guiltless in this corruption? you are chauvinist, I wrote to you about thsi before, so really, you suck!!! Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Tsek
U negotiate for performance appraisal since u also help brothers lyk nevus and bluemy ka sme extra exersise"tsek". Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
masepa
It is shameful that women have to use their panties while men can get what they want because they are men. Then you have another man writing this piece of kaak unashamed that this, is only happening to women and doesnt even ask himself why is it that women undergo this BLS. Its really sad Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Pabi
@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Mybra
Pabi
@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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You sleep with the boss again and again until the promotion is given.
Socafan
Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.
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U present your 'Lord/God' as if he/she was a monster to be feared?
Christians would do themselves a world of good if they would do right things most of the time without the threat hanging over their heads, ie 'fearing God' come on, do you guys have no ability to just do right without carrying the burden ie fear/threat? Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
LeeT
Success is a story of life time achievement. So educating yourself is a key to a better future. Bathong a re baleng dipuku re se ke ra ditshaba. Leponapona le ka se go ise felo. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
And in anycase, it takes 2 to have sex (unless its a group sex/swinging party of course), so why is it always a woman who has to take a blame, eg if a husband/boyfriend decides to cheat? surely these men sleeping with these so called 'office sluts' are as guilty but zenoyise the chauvinist (pathetic one to that effect) saw it fit to blame only the female side of the infidels, that's why I dont' support sharia law, imagine with mentalities liek that of zenoyise and others like him, only a woman would be shariad for udultery, in the same way that police when arresting prostitutes they don't arrest the ones who are supporting this illegal business, women still have a long way to go before men can learn to treat them as equals. It is primitive mentality really. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Tsek
Pabi
@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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U resign Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
Tsek
Pabi
@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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U resign
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No you don't, you go straight and tell the wife that her husband has a small cock and then resign:-) Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Skomoro
Truth is,all women sell thier body 4 power and money directly or indirectly.We have prostitutes dat sell s*x directly but wat do u call women dat sleep wit their bosses 2 get promotions?Are they profesional prostitutes?Lets do sum calculations here:
If u buy sex directly u wil only spend R100 or less but if i take a woman out on a date i wud have to:
1.Pick her at her place=R100 petrol plus R30 airtime to organise
2.Pay for the meal or wateva entertainment=R200
3.U might repeat the above 3 times b4 she trusts u enough to sleep wit u
As much as most women will claim they r not afta money but at the end its just wat they r afta.its in the nature of a man 2 b tempted by kuku of a woman n its a woman's nature attract a man.Symbiosis is nature and cant be changed. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Mjavalava
If a lady sleep her way up............so what? Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
Mjavalava
If a lady sleep her way up............so what? - if these were guys they would be applauded for being iskhokho, now a woman is a slut, sexist p!gs
You take it further by sleeping with them again until you get what you want. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
ayobaness
@pabi
@my bra
@ann
@lee-ann
@koma
@maftowncity
@tsek
@somaartakeit
thanx for that courage ill keep on wearing them
i think ill also report him to his wife these male bosses always take advantage of female emlpoyees Report Abuse
It is Folly to say Male Boses take advantage...........in my opinion the only people that can be taken advantage of is Kids with inept judgment.....how can a grown up person in a position to make there own decision be taken advantage of???? its really foolish and wishful thinking...... only people looking for excuses would even consider saying that or unless you are just stupid and wouldnt admit it Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
KUKU
Office sluts are evrywhere - so wrong and disgusting! Report Abuse
@Jaquo - now please don't play dumb, bosses can abuse their power over insubordinates, that's why we have 'sexual harassment' laws in place to protect victims in such cases, unfortunately someone have no confidence to deal with these sex preditors so they succumb to being sex objects. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
HoiHoi
@K-bee
We have so many in our office in our office alone 10 ladies and 3 guys they all sleeping with the boss
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A u 1 of them.
10 ladis or 3 guys, Shi#t your boss ke sekhokho joung. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Haha-sabela
Oh I am so proud of my office, ladies are more than guys in number but not even one is having an affair within us. You can wear what ever you want to wear. We are working as the family. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Tango
Yesterday's policewoman also slept her way to becoming a police officer.(No doubt about that) Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
Haha-sabela
Oh I am so proud of my office - and here I was thinking not sleeping with colleagues is part of the code of conduct/ethics, but no it would appear to some they have to really work hard at not beign immoral, hence they become 'proud' of something which should be effortless to do. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Mthondo'ngenanqondo
Useless piece of information we already know....!!!! Its everywhere and unstoppable. Its also very difficult to judge an office sl#t using the characteristics you suggest Sowetan. Someone can be confident and assertive, she will be considered a s#ut. Also no lady (or guy) in this blog can honestly claim that she/he does not flirt at work. We all do it, its fun.....Its just that some either lack confidence or/ and there are some who take further and end up victims.
As for us who don't use our bodies for promotions,let us hang in there. Our time wil come & it wil b nice cause we will be deserving it. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
DinuZulu
Mina ngiyabaxasa! They make life at work very exiting and at times intertaining...... More sex more manyala! Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
zenoyise you coward of a chauvinist, you now have changed the title of the article cause you don't know your story and you just don't realise how chauvinistic and sexist you come across, you are insult to constitution, and to Sowetan. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
ntshware-ke-yawa
Hopefully someone out there is taking notes on this one.Maybe many will start enjoying their work environment from now on as these(sluts) would have change for better.
Good things happens to those who wait. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
lindsay
whether a person sleeps her way up or down the corporate ladder is actually their business, they are using their God- given punanis mos and won't be asking for someone elses at the end, if it works for you do it. as for respect it doesn't matter how hard you work and how many degrees you hold some small minds will always think that just because you are a woman you get your promotion by sleeping with someone you shouldn't bother your self about them, they need a life. what if you like your boss just like everyone like someone you won't have a relationship with them because of the stigma? mnxcim Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
from-Malemeng
Jaar, kgale ke babona (they like attention ya masepa. if a leader akare hlobola, she'd be the 1st one. Report Abuse
@ayobaness
i also wear mini skirts but m not a slut
sometimes i wear leggings with short top just to show my body
my body is not sexy but m proud of it especially my big tummy nd small ass.
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that is a kak body, big tummy and a small ass. my advice to you do not wear a jean, alway wear a skirt.
@Bantwana... Lol.. But true dat hey.. and you cannot compare yourself to them.. if u are close to one of them, you get fired, or changed to other departments.. Report Abuse
hmmmm,this week we've been seeing nothing else but "women thighs",including yesterday's pictures.tltltltt,Sowetan,my newspaper. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
ntshware-ke-yawa
the way she is sitting you can just tell gore she's empty-headed. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Notorious29
To all the magents, Never trust basadi simple. ke dinoga (masepa a batho fela). sowetan thank you for making a our day yet again. masepanyana a, a basadi. ba pela banyaka dilo tse dintse mara ba tswafa ba kgona fela go di thola via go jewa fela. ke mesonu fela. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Chillis
Serope mperekele, matsogo a botlhoko. Mabooko ona, lebala!! Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
JahNeh
Sowetan is killing me this week.
My wife is in trouble, for sure. Report Abuse
Magents na kere Mr Big please record for me. lol Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
JnrJack
Notorious29
To all the magents, Never trust basadi simple. ke dinoga (masepa a batho fela). sowetan thank you for making a our day yet again. masepanyana a, a basadi. ba pela banyaka dilo tse dintse mara ba tswafa ba kgona fela go di thola via go jewa fela. ke mesonu fela.
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it pisses me off, but don't think your wife, gf, mother is a slut..then all women are like that......don't generalize.. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
JnrJack
Chillis
Serope mperekele, matsogo a botlhoko. Mabooko ona, lebala!!
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nyo gao oe tlhapa neng, o jewa spaneng le ko ntlung? Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Hippo-Happy-Masiya
woman does this with the porpose, we can all see that she's aware of of her bad reputation in work...try and change is not too late Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Mellow
@somaartakeit Hey babes you're hear making noise i hear TimesLive is gossiping about us as in YOU AND ME, am trying to log in there iyoo am worried Report Abuse
takoskonvict
@ayobaness
i also wear mini skirts but m not a slut
sometimes i wear leggings with short top just to show my body
my body is not sexy but m proud of it especially my big tummy nd small ass.
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that is a kak body, big tummy and a small ass. my advice to you do not wear a jean, alway wear a skirt.
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Lolitjies... kwaakwaakwaakwaa. I tink she must be head hunted for the new leading role of Johny Bravo. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Dames
Mara why some women are like that, my ex girlfriend while at Varsity slept with one lecturer in exchange of the course and she came to tell me because we broke up spo she wanted to hurt me, the guy changed the marks on the computer while she was in the office and she saw pass she came to boast to me but when the final results went out she found that the guy returned the results to the normal one I laughed my lung out, because she was bonked for nothing in return. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
MOTSOKWANA
Ja neee this week ke beke ya nnywana feela mo Sowetan. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
somaartakeit
so then Mellow, do you have a link? as far as I understand one doesn't have to be logged on to read comments unless you want to participate, for my part I can't promise that I will log on there, I am interested to read the 'gossip', lol Report Abuse
@tpaz- when did you see it, that day when I make you cry, even if is small still it managed to make you cry, by the way you also a victim of that lecturer. Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Mellow
@somaartakeit yah i was struggling to open their site well its nothing scarry just the truth hey about yesterday porn article, http://ww w.timeslive.co.za/local/2011/08/15/sowetan-front-page-causes-social-media-stir Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
cossette
Ndi matsheloni
WHO TO DATE?
If you want a romantic guy date a VENDA guy
If you want true love and someone who will rather have Aids with you than leave you,
date a Ndebele guy from Pretoria, Mams or Pheli
If you want a man with a big d*ck like a R25.00 wors but doesn't know how to use it then date Shangaan men.
If you want a man who does not mind spending money on you get a Tswana man from Rustenburg.
If you want your son to be a taxi driver/que marshall then date a Zulu guy.
If you want your son/daugter to be a good attorney and a good liar then surely date a Xhosa man.
If you want to be in an abusive relatioship dont hesitate the road is simple go to Eldos' and date Coloured's.
If you want to spend most of the times craving for sex and getting it once in three weeks, date any Mzalwane guy.
If you don't want to run out of chili spices then surely date Indian men from Durban .
If you want your son to be stupid and expect the world not to notice it then date a Pedi guy from any place that starts with Ga-. (e.g. Ga-Mphahlele)
If you want to spend lots of money in your life and being listed on ITC then date an Afrikaner
If you want to stay with the stolen goods date a zimbabwean boy
If you want to date the african mafia date Nigerian boy
If you want to stay with a man who will leave you the whole weekend and come back when you ask he only says 'Angati' .. Go for a Swazi guy
If you want a "vat en set" guy for life, date any guy driving golf in Gauteng, preferably Soweto, Alex and Tembisa
If you want to be married and stay in the back room at your hubby’s home date Mohlakeng, Carltonville and Kagiso guy.
@Mellow, hehehe this is what I call lazy journoalism, its like they have no ambitions, they do copy paste jobs, I mean their grandmas have more creativity and imagination than these guys, they are a disgrace to the profession, and this story and this bad F@ck of a prison warder and the cellulites woman is so most boring sex I've had the misfortune to watch, here I was thinking one has to be in the old age to have that kind of sex, that woman could have had her sandwitch for lunch whilst that guy was shuffling (lacking of words) as I can't sincerely call what he was doing sex, have to say though the guy is very immature to record what I would term worse act of sex, Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
cargosifuba
I think so long as it suits a woman & they feel good in it they can wear it. Who cares wat peeps think!!!! Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
jucleta
IT IS SO FUNNY THAT GUYS CALLS US SLUTS WHEN THEY HAVE BEEN ABUSING US FOR YEARS, TREATING US LIKE DIRT. SOME OF US GREW UP KNOWING THAT IT IS NOT RIGHT TO TALK BACK TO A MAN. IT IS HARD FOR WOMAN TO BE FREE BECAUSE GUYS ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO BRING US DOWNA N THEN U FIND WOMAN WHO ALSO HELPMTHESE MEN DO THE SAME. MAYBE WE ARE TIRED OF BEING TREATED LIKE FOOLS. U GUYS JUST WANT TO BE "ISKHOKHO BY SLEEPING WITH EVERY GAL WHILE WE ARE COOKING;CLEANING AND LOOKING AFTER THE CHILDREN. THE LADIES WHO SLEEP THEIR WAY UP ARE CRAZY U WON'T GET ANY RESPECT Report Abuse
Katlego>>>same women are just bitches................................ Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Letlotlo
Male bosses are the one's who are promoting this bad behaviour because they are the ones who hold high post of responsibility and decision making. That is why these days most businesses are failing because they are being led by uncapable people who got promoted by giving out on silver platter Report Abuse
Aug 16, 2011
Makhuloskop
Staff working for COSATU unions do this all the time. In fact promotion to a higher position or performance appraisal is always done that for the people working for the union. Report Abuse
Not only women uses their bodies to climb the corporate ladder, nowadays, guys to it too. Report Abuse
Aug 17, 2011
Mngani
The article started off well until I realised it was directed at women. I know of so many guys and girls, guys more who are so in the bosses' ass that their toes are sticking out from the bosses' behind. They scheme, they lie, they manipulate, they kiss ass just to get ahead and the funny thing about them is the fact that they are under-qualified, unproductive and generally stupid. I am a hard, smart working young black female and I am dammed good at my job. I work at a company where if you don't kiss ass, are not related to a boss, are not coloured female or are not white male you are definitely not going to get ahead.
Quite frankly, this is just a stupid article, it is filled with prejudice and promotes the stereotypes that women who succeed get to the top through dropping their panties for bosses. That is absolute rubbish, majority of women are not like that. Your article is all over the place, do a bit more planning prior to compiling a piece of this nature. This article reads like an article compiled by an amateur. Report Abuse
Aug 18, 2011
Tlatlawe
We can say whatever we want. This will never end for some ladies to sleep their way up. What do you do if you are desperate and no help comes your way? Report Abuse
Aug 18, 2011
POLOYANTSWA
THIS IS REALY DISGUSTING, HOW DO WE KNOW THAT THEY ARE ALSO CONDOMIZING,PHELA WITH QUICK, YOU DONT EVEN THINK OF THE PLASTIC, ONLY WANT YOUR LUST BE SATISFIED.
THERE ARE LOT OF CHEAP HOTEL OUT THERE THAT RANGES FRON 150 TO 200 WHERE ONE CAN EXCISE HIS SEXUAL MUSCLE WITHOUT DISTUBING OT DISTUBANCE. Report Abuse
Aug 19, 2011
mia88
desparation can lead 2 all dis most of us r forced 2 swap intimicy with our boss bcoz we need dat job 7 we hav kids 2 surport Report Abuse
what the cop n correctional officer did ,happen everyday in offices, some of these girls who drive around in expensive cars did sweat for them,it's either at their desk or the bosses's desk. Report Abuse
Aug 22, 2011
mupengo
plz ledies your body is the temple u must respect it,some say u must according to the position u have in da company n if u a low payer u must wear minies to attract de bosses ,nna in my office i dont take shit if u r wearing something which is not ayoba i can tell,LADIES RESPECT DAT TEMPLE Report Abuse
Aug 26, 2011
sexyliscious
The fact of the matter is that everyone flirts at the office...
i work in a male dominated industry - the only females in my office are the receptionist, me and another manager... we work with a team of 14 managers and industry specialists (electricians, architects, developers etc)....
i make sure that i am sexy every single day including Fridays (which are considered casual)...
i dont have to prove that i deserve to be here because i produce results, i have the qialifications and the skills...my boss has a soft spot for him, but then again its because i do a lot of his work...
im glad ive never had to sleep my way to the top - but it wasnt easy getting here because you have to work extra hard to prove that you are a valuable asset whereas the men dont have to do that.
i dont blame women who sleep their way to the top as long as they are qualified for the job and they can actually deliver the required results and exceed expectations!!! Report Abuse
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TupacAmaru
I notice the article is directed particularly to women. Wonder why. Are they the only ones who can climb up the corporate ladder scheming?Report Abuse
k-bee
We have so many in our office in our office alone 10 ladies and 3 guys they all sleeping with the bossReport Abuse
ayobaness
i also wear mini skirts but m not a slutsometimes i wear leggings with short top just to show my body
my body is not sexy but m proud of it especially my big tummy nd small ass
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Catty88
I hope many ladies can take this to their head.You intelligents will get you somewhere.You kuku will get you on the desk and not anywhere beyond that.
Rather work for your respect and image but in the end people will still respect you even 10years for now but no one will respect a person who slept her way to the top.
The same way you go there is the same way you will get down.
Remember succes obtained over night is also lost over night.
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Ann
@ayobaness, hhhaaaaaaaaaa so funnyReport Abuse
ntwempe
Hold on sisters it is better to slip for something rather than nothing from those we call my boyfriend or my lover who can live me any time when feel like doing it.Report Abuse
EmptyTin
K'shubile nowadays this young boys they are also busy selling their ndunus to this straight/in closet and marrried directors to get positions at workReport Abuse
$$$$
This councelling suits our officers.....most of the female wardens sleep their way up the Department ladder......some even sleep with the famouse and cash loaded inmates during the night shifts.Very sad....
In the yesterday sagga...how do they explain to spouses....what about the kids at school and their friends.
However @Sowetan, it was wrong of them to publish such a disaster....do not again.
I am not condoning the deed of the officers but feel for their immediate ones spouses and kids.
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Lee-Ann
@ayobaness...That is too ayouba. U shud be proud of ur body...U go girl!Report Abuse
SKIZOBANTWANA
SIYABAZI'' THERE ARE SOME OF THESE YOUNG ATTRACTIVE LADIES YOU'LL FIND GETTING PROMOTED _WITHOUT BEING COMPETENT OR SOMETHING'' BEHIND CLOSED DOORS ,THEY ARE GIVING IT ALL TO THE BOSSES..BULA NTHO` EO... tl tl tl tl
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ROCK
mmmmhh i wish i can be a boss too so that i can enjoy this young attractive ladies.Report Abuse
fokofpolisiekar
@Sowetan, except Asiphe Ndlela, don't you have any other qualified Pshycologist? I sense something dodgy between Asiphe and SowetanReport Abuse
koma
@ Ayobaness..... Who said your body is not sexy??????? Being proud of your body is sexy in itself... It automatically makes you sexy gal....Report Abuse
eKapa
EmptyTinK'shubile nowadays this young boys they are also busy selling their ndunus to this straight/in closet and marrried directors to get positions at work
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@EmptyTin
i wonder why these office's smell like Manure in the afternoon.
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Mybra
so the point here is trying to tell labantwana ukuthibangasniki thina umzimba? ungazodlala wena.
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OuButiMonate
Everybody knows you have slept your way up the corporate ladder.========================================================
Y cant we sleep our way up da lagger with our boss ladies?? mare chicks can do ths nee fok maan!!! *thinking out loud*
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MRPRESIDENT11
@TupacAmaruJust yesterday the female cop was f@@ked by illiterate traffic officer in the clinic territory without condom and you expected the article to face everybody. Married woman should stop to follow that recent horny incident example and they should learn from the above column. What the article does not emphasize is that married woman or anybody will never be late to change.
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G-ruff
Sleeping your way up to the corperate ladder or taking the short-cut can be very detrimental to your reputation. Its like being a door-mate.Report Abuse
maftowncity
@Catty88@ayobaness
Hahahahah...you gals are so funny..you make me laugh..OMW..
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LEPAKUNYA
WEARING A MINI SKIRT doesnt mean that u r a slut.hu said a lady doesnt hv 2 look sexyReport Abuse
Ruth
Wow,nice article........Report Abuse
Socafan
A wife of noble character who can find?She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
Amen!
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Mmerwa
Re ka bua letsheare kaofela empa botekatsi ke botekatsi ebile kentho e mpe e nyonyehang, sies man.
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Socafan
The sayings of King Lemuel—an oraclea his mother taught him:"O my son, O son of my womb,
O son of my vows,
do not spend your strength on women,
your vigor on those who ruin kings, women".
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Socafan
Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.Report Abuse
Catty88
@Socafan i red that in church this past Sunday.Its amazing.Report Abuse
OMG-girl
The sad state of affairs is that these women who use themselves and their punanz as bargaining chips give us who have to break our backs working hard to get where we want (instead of laying on our backs) a bad name .Sometimes “using what your mama gave you” to get what you want does not always yield the results you want or expected.
Granted sex has become a big commodity in our day and age; but at the end of the day using sex for trade does not earn one any respect - position, maybe. But not respect. Some women need to stop using sex as a carrot dangling in front of the donkey’s head to get what they want – put in the work; then believe me the satisfaction would be sweeter!
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G-ruff
B2n ukuluma, kupimpa and sleepin with one's boss. which one is better?Report Abuse
booze1984
It is never a good thing to have sex with your BOSS! period!!Report Abuse
Coffebreak
It's not women, it's a certain type of person...Also , considering that there are more female bosses now than ever, who's to say educated men aren't doing it now, as well?
Working off the assumption that the men are young, educated, and attractive, of course...
lol
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somaartakeit
So then Zenoyise the ones having sex what you term office sluts are guiltless in this corruption? you are chauvinist, I wrote to you about thsi before, so really, you suck!!!Report Abuse
Tsek
U negotiate for performance appraisal since u also help brothers lyk nevus and bluemy ka sme extra exersise"tsek".Report Abuse
masepa
It is shameful that women have to use their panties while men can get what they want because they are men. Then you have another man writing this piece of kaak unashamed that this, is only happening to women and doesnt even ask himself why is it that women undergo this BLS. Its really sadReport Abuse
Pabi
@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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Mybra
Pabi@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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You sleep with the boss again and again until the promotion is given.
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somaartakeit
SocafanCharm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.
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U present your 'Lord/God' as if he/she was a monster to be feared?
Christians would do themselves a world of good if they would do right things most of the time without the threat hanging over their heads, ie 'fearing God' come on, do you guys have no ability to just do right without carrying the burden ie fear/threat?
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LeeT
Success is a story of life time achievement. So educating yourself is a key to a better future. Bathong a re baleng dipuku re se ke ra ditshaba. Leponapona le ka se go ise felo.Report Abuse
somaartakeit
And in anycase, it takes 2 to have sex (unless its a group sex/swinging party of course), so why is it always a woman who has to take a blame, eg if a husband/boyfriend decides to cheat? surely these men sleeping with these so called 'office sluts' are as guilty but zenoyise the chauvinist (pathetic one to that effect) saw it fit to blame only the female side of the infidels, that's why I dont' support sharia law, imagine with mentalities liek that of zenoyise and others like him, only a woman would be shariad for udultery, in the same way that police when arresting prostitutes they don't arrest the ones who are supporting this illegal business, women still have a long way to go before men can learn to treat them as equals. It is primitive mentality really.Report Abuse
Tsek
Pabi@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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U resign
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somaartakeit
TsekPabi
@ayobaness, wa mpolaya girl, i can see that body u are talking about.
back to the article what if u slept with the boss and he/she doesn't give the promotion how are u going to take it further.
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U resign
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No you don't, you go straight and tell the wife that her husband has a small cock and then resign:-)
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Skomoro
Truth is,all women sell thier body 4 power and money directly or indirectly.We have prostitutes dat sell s*x directly but wat do u call women dat sleep wit their bosses 2 get promotions?Are they profesional prostitutes?Lets do sum calculations here:If u buy sex directly u wil only spend R100 or less but if i take a woman out on a date i wud have to:
1.Pick her at her place=R100 petrol plus R30 airtime to organise
2.Pay for the meal or wateva entertainment=R200
3.U might repeat the above 3 times b4 she trusts u enough to sleep wit u
As much as most women will claim they r not afta money but at the end its just wat they r afta.its in the nature of a man 2 b tempted by kuku of a woman n its a woman's nature attract a man.Symbiosis is nature and cant be changed.
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Mjavalava
If a lady sleep her way up............so what?Report Abuse
somaartakeit
MjavalavaIf a lady sleep her way up............so what? - if these were guys they would be applauded for being iskhokho, now a woman is a slut, sexist p!gs
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Pipilicious
You take it further by sleeping with them again until you get what you want.Report Abuse
ayobaness
@pabi@my bra
@ann
@lee-ann
@koma
@maftowncity
@tsek
@somaartakeit
thanx for that courage ill keep on wearing them
i think ill also report him to his wife these male bosses always take advantage of female emlpoyees
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somaartakeit
@ayobaness - at your service m'am:-)Report Abuse
nalita
i wear mini skirts, tight clothes but i am no slut, i know my grounds. i will never sleep with a person i work with or call a friend.Report Abuse
OomGreat
What an article on women's monthReport Abuse
Jaquo
It is Folly to say Male Boses take advantage...........in my opinion the only people that can be taken advantage of is Kids with inept judgment.....how can a grown up person in a position to make there own decision be taken advantage of???? its really foolish and wishful thinking...... only people looking for excuses would even consider saying that or unless you are just stupid and wouldnt admit itReport Abuse
KUKU
Office sluts are evrywhere - so wrong and disgusting!Report Abuse
Tsek
Nalita- talk to me skat......Report Abuse
somaartakeit
@Jaquo - now please don't play dumb, bosses can abuse their power over insubordinates, that's why we have 'sexual harassment' laws in place to protect victims in such cases, unfortunately someone have no confidence to deal with these sex preditors so they succumb to being sex objects.Report Abuse
HoiHoi
@K-beeWe have so many in our office in our office alone 10 ladies and 3 guys they all sleeping with the boss
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A u 1 of them.
10 ladis or 3 guys, Shi#t your boss ke sekhokho joung.
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Haha-sabela
Oh I am so proud of my office, ladies are more than guys in number but not even one is having an affair within us. You can wear what ever you want to wear. We are working as the family.Report Abuse
Tango
Yesterday's policewoman also slept her way to becoming a police officer.(No doubt about that)Report Abuse
somaartakeit
Haha-sabelaOh I am so proud of my office - and here I was thinking not sleeping with colleagues is part of the code of conduct/ethics, but no it would appear to some they have to really work hard at not beign immoral, hence they become 'proud' of something which should be effortless to do.
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Mthondo'ngenanqondo
Useless piece of information we already know....!!!! Its everywhere and unstoppable. Its also very difficult to judge an office sl#t using the characteristics you suggest Sowetan. Someone can be confident and assertive, she will be considered a s#ut. Also no lady (or guy) in this blog can honestly claim that she/he does not flirt at work. We all do it, its fun.....Its just that some either lack confidence or/ and there are some who take further and end up victims.Report Abuse
ThirdEye
As for us who don't use our bodies for promotions,let us hang in there. Our time wil come & it wil b nice cause we will be deserving it.Report Abuse
DinuZulu
Mina ngiyabaxasa! They make life at work very exiting and at times intertaining...... More sex more manyala!Report Abuse
somaartakeit
zenoyise you coward of a chauvinist, you now have changed the title of the article cause you don't know your story and you just don't realise how chauvinistic and sexist you come across, you are insult to constitution, and to Sowetan.Report Abuse
ntshware-ke-yawa
Hopefully someone out there is taking notes on this one.Maybe many will start enjoying their work environment from now on as these(sluts) would have change for better.uhuuuuuuuu.
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Notorious29
Good things happens to those who wait.Report Abuse
lindsay
whether a person sleeps her way up or down the corporate ladder is actually their business, they are using their God- given punanis mos and won't be asking for someone elses at the end, if it works for you do it. as for respect it doesn't matter how hard you work and how many degrees you hold some small minds will always think that just because you are a woman you get your promotion by sleeping with someone you shouldn't bother your self about them, they need a life. what if you like your boss just like everyone like someone you won't have a relationship with them because of the stigma? mnxcimReport Abuse
from-Malemeng
Jaar, kgale ke babona (they like attention ya masepa. if a leader akare hlobola, she'd be the 1st one.Report Abuse
LASTBOURNE
ok..basadiReport Abuse
takoskonvict
@ayobanessi also wear mini skirts but m not a slut
sometimes i wear leggings with short top just to show my body
my body is not sexy but m proud of it especially my big tummy nd small ass.
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that is a kak body, big tummy and a small ass. my advice to you do not wear a jean, alway wear a skirt.
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Mciazie
@Bantwana... Lol.. But true dat hey.. and you cannot compare yourself to them.. if u are close to one of them, you get fired, or changed to other departments..Report Abuse
Vjaay
KUKU and Ayobanessare also doing that
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CY192014
KUKU speak louder than words .Report Abuse
ntshware-ke-yawa
hmmmm,this week we've been seeing nothing else but "women thighs",including yesterday's pictures.tltltltt,Sowetan,my newspaper.Report Abuse
ntshware-ke-yawa
the way she is sitting you can just tell gore she's empty-headed.Report Abuse
Notorious29
To all the magents, Never trust basadi simple. ke dinoga (masepa a batho fela). sowetan thank you for making a our day yet again. masepanyana a, a basadi. ba pela banyaka dilo tse dintse mara ba tswafa ba kgona fela go di thola via go jewa fela. ke mesonu fela.Report Abuse
Chillis
Serope mperekele, matsogo a botlhoko. Mabooko ona, lebala!!Report Abuse
JahNeh
Sowetan is killing me this week.My wife is in trouble, for sure.
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kadotch
survival of da fittest applies!!!!Report Abuse
Notorious29
@ChillisSerope mperekele
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Magents na kere Mr Big please record for me. lol
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JnrJack
Notorious29To all the magents, Never trust basadi simple. ke dinoga (masepa a batho fela). sowetan thank you for making a our day yet again. masepanyana a, a basadi. ba pela banyaka dilo tse dintse mara ba tswafa ba kgona fela go di thola via go jewa fela. ke mesonu fela.
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it pisses me off, but don't think your wife, gf, mother is a slut..then all women are like that......don't generalize..
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JnrJack
ChillisSerope mperekele, matsogo a botlhoko. Mabooko ona, lebala!!
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nyo gao oe tlhapa neng, o jewa spaneng le ko ntlung?
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Hippo-Happy-Masiya
woman does this with the porpose, we can all see that she's aware of of her bad reputation in work...try and change is not too lateReport Abuse
Mellow
@somaartakeit Hey babes you're hear making noise i hear TimesLive is gossiping about us as in YOU AND ME, am trying to log in there iyoo am worriedReport Abuse
Mellow
meant here making lawaai eishReport Abuse
Ma-Bhova
takoskonvict@ayobaness
i also wear mini skirts but m not a slut
sometimes i wear leggings with short top just to show my body
my body is not sexy but m proud of it especially my big tummy nd small ass.
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that is a kak body, big tummy and a small ass. my advice to you do not wear a jean, alway wear a skirt.
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Lolitjies... kwaakwaakwaakwaa. I tink she must be head hunted for the new leading role of Johny Bravo.
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Dames
Mara why some women are like that, my ex girlfriend while at Varsity slept with one lecturer in exchange of the course and she came to tell me because we broke up spo she wanted to hurt me, the guy changed the marks on the computer while she was in the office and she saw pass she came to boast to me but when the final results went out she found that the guy returned the results to the normal one I laughed my lung out, because she was bonked for nothing in return.Report Abuse
MOTSOKWANA
Ja neee this week ke beke ya nnywana feela mo Sowetan.Report Abuse
somaartakeit
so then Mellow, do you have a link? as far as I understand one doesn't have to be logged on to read comments unless you want to participate, for my part I can't promise that I will log on there, I am interested to read the 'gossip', lolReport Abuse
tpaz
@Dames...you have a small prickReport Abuse
Dames
@tpaz- when did you see it, that day when I make you cry, even if is small still it managed to make you cry, by the way you also a victim of that lecturer.Report Abuse
Mellow
@somaartakeit yah i was struggling to open their site well its nothing scarry just the truth hey about yesterday porn article, http://ww w.timeslive.co.za/local/2011/08/15/sowetan-front-page-causes-social-media-stirReport Abuse
cossette
Ndi matsheloniWHO TO DATE?
If you want a romantic guy date a VENDA guy
If you want true love and someone who will rather have Aids with you than leave you,
date a Ndebele guy from Pretoria, Mams or Pheli
If you want a man with a big d*ck like a R25.00 wors but doesn't know how to use it then date Shangaan men.
If you want a man who does not mind spending money on you get a Tswana man from Rustenburg.
If you want your son to be a taxi driver/que marshall then date a Zulu guy.
If you want your son/daugter to be a good attorney and a good liar then surely date a Xhosa man.
If you want to be in an abusive relatioship dont hesitate the road is simple go to Eldos' and date Coloured's.
If you want to spend most of the times craving for sex and getting it once in three weeks, date any Mzalwane guy.
If you don't want to run out of chili spices then surely date Indian men from Durban .
If you want your son to be stupid and expect the world not to notice it then date a Pedi guy from any place that starts with Ga-. (e.g. Ga-Mphahlele)
If you want to spend lots of money in your life and being listed on ITC then date an Afrikaner
If you want to stay with the stolen goods date a zimbabwean boy
If you want to date the african mafia date Nigerian boy
If you want to stay with a man who will leave you the whole weekend and come back when you ask he only says 'Angati' .. Go for a Swazi guy
If you want a "vat en set" guy for life, date any guy driving golf in Gauteng, preferably Soweto, Alex and Tembisa
If you want to be married and stay in the back room at your hubby’s home date Mohlakeng, Carltonville and Kagiso guy.
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somaartakeit
@Mellow, hehehe this is what I call lazy journoalism, its like they have no ambitions, they do copy paste jobs, I mean their grandmas have more creativity and imagination than these guys, they are a disgrace to the profession, and this story and this bad F@ck of a prison warder and the cellulites woman is so most boring sex I've had the misfortune to watch, here I was thinking one has to be in the old age to have that kind of sex, that woman could have had her sandwitch for lunch whilst that guy was shuffling (lacking of words) as I can't sincerely call what he was doing sex, have to say though the guy is very immature to record what I would term worse act of sex,Report Abuse
cargosifuba
I think so long as it suits a woman & they feel good in it they can wear it. Who cares wat peeps think!!!!Report Abuse
jucleta
IT IS SO FUNNY THAT GUYS CALLS US SLUTS WHEN THEY HAVE BEEN ABUSING US FOR YEARS, TREATING US LIKE DIRT. SOME OF US GREW UP KNOWING THAT IT IS NOT RIGHT TO TALK BACK TO A MAN. IT IS HARD FOR WOMAN TO BE FREE BECAUSE GUYS ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO BRING US DOWNA N THEN U FIND WOMAN WHO ALSO HELPMTHESE MEN DO THE SAME. MAYBE WE ARE TIRED OF BEING TREATED LIKE FOOLS. U GUYS JUST WANT TO BE "ISKHOKHO BY SLEEPING WITH EVERY GAL WHILE WE ARE COOKING;CLEANING AND LOOKING AFTER THE CHILDREN. THE LADIES WHO SLEEP THEIR WAY UP ARE CRAZY U WON'T GET ANY RESPECTReport Abuse
TENKA
KWAKWALINGReport Abuse
Sboshey
It is eezy to ruin ur rputation but getting it back is different!Report Abuse
solotya
tips for the ladys take note girls yes you.Report Abuse
tsiki
bula ntho e monateReport Abuse
smoochy71
Katlego>>>same women are just bitches................................Report Abuse
Letlotlo
Male bosses are the one's who are promoting this bad behaviour because they are the ones who hold high post of responsibility and decision making. That is why these days most businesses are failing because they are being led by uncapable people who got promoted by giving out on silver platterReport Abuse
Makhuloskop
Staff working for COSATU unions do this all the time. In fact promotion to a higher position or performance appraisal is always done that for the people working for the union.Report Abuse
NoxmanOne
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DarkChoco
Mellow dear I'm back lolReport Abuse
MatshwaBemuda
Not only women uses their bodies to climb the corporate ladder, nowadays, guys to it too.Report Abuse
Mngani
The article started off well until I realised it was directed at women. I know of so many guys and girls, guys more who are so in the bosses' ass that their toes are sticking out from the bosses' behind. They scheme, they lie, they manipulate, they kiss ass just to get ahead and the funny thing about them is the fact that they are under-qualified, unproductive and generally stupid. I am a hard, smart working young black female and I am dammed good at my job. I work at a company where if you don't kiss ass, are not related to a boss, are not coloured female or are not white male you are definitely not going to get ahead.Quite frankly, this is just a stupid article, it is filled with prejudice and promotes the stereotypes that women who succeed get to the top through dropping their panties for bosses. That is absolute rubbish, majority of women are not like that. Your article is all over the place, do a bit more planning prior to compiling a piece of this nature. This article reads like an article compiled by an amateur.
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Tlatlawe
We can say whatever we want. This will never end for some ladies to sleep their way up. What do you do if you are desperate and no help comes your way?Report Abuse
POLOYANTSWA
THIS IS REALY DISGUSTING, HOW DO WE KNOW THAT THEY ARE ALSO CONDOMIZING,PHELA WITH QUICK, YOU DONT EVEN THINK OF THE PLASTIC, ONLY WANT YOUR LUST BE SATISFIED.THERE ARE LOT OF CHEAP HOTEL OUT THERE THAT RANGES FRON 150 TO 200 WHERE ONE CAN EXCISE HIS SEXUAL MUSCLE WITHOUT DISTUBING OT DISTUBANCE.
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mia88
desparation can lead 2 all dis most of us r forced 2 swap intimicy with our boss bcoz we need dat job 7 we hav kids 2 surportReport Abuse
Prez
Use a CondomReport Abuse
abzaWaPitori
what the cop n correctional officer did ,happen everyday in offices, some of these girls who drive around in expensive cars did sweat for them,it's either at their desk or the bosses's desk.Report Abuse
mupengo
plz ledies your body is the temple u must respect it,some say u must according to the position u have in da company n if u a low payer u must wear minies to attract de bosses ,nna in my office i dont take shit if u r wearing something which is not ayoba i can tell,LADIES RESPECT DAT TEMPLEReport Abuse
sexyliscious
The fact of the matter is that everyone flirts at the office...i work in a male dominated industry - the only females in my office are the receptionist, me and another manager... we work with a team of 14 managers and industry specialists (electricians, architects, developers etc)....
i make sure that i am sexy every single day including Fridays (which are considered casual)...
i dont have to prove that i deserve to be here because i produce results, i have the qialifications and the skills...my boss has a soft spot for him, but then again its because i do a lot of his work...
im glad ive never had to sleep my way to the top - but it wasnt easy getting here because you have to work extra hard to prove that you are a valuable asset whereas the men dont have to do that.
i dont blame women who sleep their way to the top as long as they are qualified for the job and they can actually deliver the required results and exceed expectations!!!
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tamati
seshebo mix..open leg policiesReport Abuse
joey.wa.rabapane
wowReport Abuse
MorenaWaPolelo
Yah neh ba fa ba fa office yaka e bile ya nkga!Report Abuse
phaladism1987
This is why i wont pitty anyone who gets desease from such actionsReport Abuse
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