TV PERSONALITY and former radio jock Penny Lebyane has expressed disappointment at former Live presenter Bonang Matheba for dropping charges against ex-beau, Themba Nkosi aka DJ Euphonik.
come now Penny. one of the rights that the woman has is a right to choose. who are you to question that right? fight your own battles sisi and leave Bonang alone. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Chichi7
How will society take this abuse of women seriously when the victims drop charges? How will the abusers stop what they are doing when they know that at the end of the day, the charges will be dropped?
I am not only disappointed with Bonang but a million other women that do this on a daily basis. They wait until the man kills them and by then, it is too late. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Vhamsanda
I applaud Bonang for dropping the charges against her Ex. Despite what happened between the two , it is very important to let go and move on with her life. She has a very bright future ahead and it is not worth it for her to keep grudges against nobodies.
Big - Ups, Queen B , we love u. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
The inquiry might have found out that Miss B was also at fault here, so I’m guessing there was an amount of money paid to her by the Ex to drop the charges....SHE SOLD HER SOUL Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MsBlackberry
Taba tsa batho ba babedi o ka se di kgone i hope this boy will never raise his hand to Bonang in future ........wena Penny kgona tsa gago i know you used to stalk DJ Fresh Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KGS000
Ditaba tsa batho baratani ga di kenwe now they've smoked the peace pipe di setse le rona nou mxm Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Shredder
"She now has a huge responsibility to explain why she dropped the charges to those young girls who follow her and those who are going through what she went through."
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Wa mo rata.
This is not a stru.ggle of us and them!!! This is a per.sonal matte.r and Bon.ang's pers.onal cho.ices must be res.pected and she must not be second g.uessed by anyone as that would be fur.ther viol.ation of her right to d.ignity as ens.hrined in the consti.tution. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Papage
That proves how powerful Men are and they will stay that way until the end of time, women must accept it, Men rule the Worls and evrything that is on it. We wer created that way and it will never be changed, even the Courts can do nothing about it. Hope you two will find a way to put the past behind and go on with your lives. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
sekhebereshe
is this the same penny who chased her husband out of the house with help of her mother...please! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
babyfats
amen to dat one Msbleckberry izindaba zabantu abawu2 zihlula imantjie strate. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MAILBOX
What was the point of her reporting the man , so dissapointed in her. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
moemish
i'm very sure B knows why she dropped the charges, it definately cud have not been an easy decision maara we have to respect her decision. yes she is a public figure who is a role model to a lot of young galls and gals her age (myself) and making this decision doesnt seem fit but this has and still will be a very trying situation for sumone of her stature to be in.
i'm behind you gal, every step of the way and may God be with you and continue to guide you in his righteous path!! Queen B fan for life!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Msiphos00
I like the pic (Penny Lebyane) screeeeaaaammmmmm uthanda izindaba zabantu Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Stumtum
Anty Penny please fight yours, in case they reconcile what are you going to say then. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
DIKENKENG
I agree with you MsBlackberry ditaba tsa baratani di thata ebile,di kenwe hobane otla sala le tsona. Even we (mphakhathi) can say Bonang has dissapointed us but love conquers all,Thumbs up Miss B Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Dinnymashaba
I agree with POWA, it is her choice and Penny mustn't ask her to explain herself, she doesnt owe anyone an explanation. Young girls should learn to be true to themselves and stop following "so callled models". They are human afterall. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Diva7
Some times you need to do what is best for you, regardless of people's opinions. Let go and let it flow Queen B! Report Abuse
Problem is the freedom of speech that we have been granted that makes people like Penny dictators,Mama we she doesn't owe you ziltch Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Danger1985
In as much as Bonang is a role model she has her life to live. As long as she is compens-mentis and aslong as she wasnt coerced into dropping the charges I dnt see the need for all the hullaballo...sheb can make any decision she sees fit, its her life and some people need to deal with it. The same type on nosie was made when Rihanna released video on man down and when she "got back together"with Chris...we love them they entertain us but look they have a life to live...bellie dat!!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Nkasegobotsesephirise
Euphonik works with DJ Fresh,who once dated n vomit Penny!
1+1=2 Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Pitso.MCCMA.SAFA
@Penny Lebyane
You are arrogant little freak woman. I am suprised that you undermine the decision of another woman over your personal agenda. You want to imply that Matheba is not a woman enough more than you. You oneday ask Khanyi Mbau how does she feel when people call her Jezzebell as if we do not also call you Jezzebell.The christian you know is our jezzabell. You are also jezzabell to other people. For your record to use emotions to impreson the person you love is like blacklisting yourself to live and suspending your progress. If Dj Euphonic would have found gilty and jailed.How would be christmass. You do not think for us. You are arrogant. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
ThirdEye
Who gave Penny a right to put her nose to other people's business? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
DJ-Winner
You love your Mr. wrong even if he kicks you around like a soccer ball. ay ha ha ha...these things are interesting, very interesting. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
ibrahim.ustun
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Akundaba yakho leyo wena Penny...*the photo killls me*
Its Bonang's right to do whatever feels best for her. People should stop putting pressure on the girl,im sure she has good reasons why she chose to settle out of court. Courts can be exhausting,time consuming and take a toll on one's health not to mention the tarnishing of one's image through the media which likes to blow things out of proportion. Anyway isnt it a good thing that they have made peace? people love it when other people are fighting...mcxm
And this excuse that she is a role model nton nton,doesnt mean she is not a human being hawu, parents lets be role models to our kids and stop relying on celebrities to do the job for us. uBonang doesnt have a child!
All the best to you Queen B*,LOVE YOU LOTS!!! mwaaaaaaaaaah!
I don't know Bonang's personality, but judging from what I see from her on TV and listening to her on radio, I think this girl is a not a bitter person and doesn't waist her time in anger as many doo, she seems more of "the sooner you move on" kind of person, I know some women can stay bitter for years at all men because of one man, Penny looks like those women.... Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
T'dpole
I thought Penny o na le tlhaloganyo........o batlang ditabeng tsa Bonang, she must comment abt her own life a tlogele ngwana o mongwe............she must eat a chill pill..........i mean she has kids with different dads but do other women comment..........no.because its her own business... Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
T.C.T
it might be her right not to continue with the charges or we can call it freedom of choice on her defence,however young ladies who admire her might not understand why there hero droped the charges,she is admired by lot of ppl especially young ladies and her descions do influence other ladies choices and Bonang promote the beating inside relationships hence organisation such as POWA advice women to report this incidents the qtion is what is she teaching young ppl?Penny is not qtioning her desicion but simply dissapointed on her choice.DJ need to be locked away for beating this fantastic chick perheps she is scared who knows.
this issue is not only about Bonang but all women..if some lady here is raped by a gang of boys and tmr she decide to drop charges does that mean her decision wont dissapoint other women? ladies need to stand together cry together adiving together etc etc Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Snow-White
True, ditaba ke tsa batho babedi fela. It was her decisin to drop those assualt charges.
They've moved on with their lives. & life goes on. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
swona
the second picture is not on homey! but what u said its true, even in the rural areas, I have never seen men moering their spouces, as a public figure, she should have never withdrew the case! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SHEMAN
Bonang yena o mo editseng...This typical modern women who watch soapies everyday think they can imitate the lives of actors who everyday think they perfect and can solve every problem without fights but only negotiation...That is highly impossible...Those boxes are fake and folklores...In this world there would always be problems,but that does'nt mean you should always be prepared to fight or always be prepared to defend yourself from everything that comes along...
Sometimes we should just try and live a happy life in the midst of our troubles and possibilities...
@Penny. Waphapha wena thats why osena monna.What "if" Bonang cheated or did sumthing bad to Euphonza?Was he supposed to laugh about it and pretend as if nuthing happened?Im not condoning what Euphonik did but basadi bakago tena sumtyms.Especially these so called independent/career/educated women.Tjeeeer batlago ferola dibete maan. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Nincompoop
Mind your business sissy, we all know that we need not burge into affairs of a couple. Three is a crowd. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
The_Only_1
Since when is Penny Lebyane qualified to make decisions on behalf of Bonang. As far as I'm informed, it was Common Assault. Also the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa after 1994 gave both men and women equal powers and rights to be treated equally and to be the same in all respect and in front of the Law. Gender Discrimination is ONLY allowed when you try to balance the injustices of the past through 'Affirmative Action and Gender Diversity'. I'm not promoting gender violence; however the only people who really know what happened is Bonang and DJ Euphonik. So lets stay away from their decision making and worry about our problems including Aunt Penny Lebyane. Bonang does not owe any one any Media Statement about withdrawing assault charges. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Iyo Penny, you look so angry.......... as if you about to strangle Bonang for dropping the charges Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
sabza007
Penny has a right to show her dissapointment, so do I. We understand that its Bonang's choice to forgive and forget BUT she should have not went to the media to show us her bruised face in the first place. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MophemeKoPitori
@Maneeater, i agree with you 100%.
Queen B is a grown-a$$ woman and yes if she sees fit to drop the charges, so be it. No wonder Penny has three kids with different dads Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
The inquiry might have found out that Miss B was also at fault here, so I’m guessing there was an amount of money paid to her by the Ex to drop the charges....SHE SOLD HER SOUL
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But i doubt that Bonang would do such, I mean she has her own money, she is the "IT" girl in Mzansi.
I do think though as you say she was at fault aswell. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KeRataBasadi
People need to butt out, where were they when they where fncking, she made a choice to drop the charges and move on, I think thats a sensible move for someone as ambitious and busy as she is, she cant have all her gains throughout her career come down to this one incident, seems to be the only thing the media is interested in these days, hopefully though she has learnt from this and will never allow a madafaka to lay a hand on her. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
cutedogg
I am also dissapointed she dropped the charges but ditaba tsa baratani ke tse thata. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Papage
...................., women must accept it, Men rule the Worls
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So true as women rule the real WORLD Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Kabelo10
Ma Nigeria bao lapisitshe wena Penny. Taba ke tsha batho ba babedi, wa boraro ke mpeyane (Maratha ditaba). Attention seeker with low class!!!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
The-Vince
Wena Penny wazenza ncgono la....I don't think Bonang has the responsibility to explain to any one why she decided to drop the charges, It's her life, her decision so leave her be uyekele ukubheda la....if she will live to regret it or not she will find a way to deal with it. Uyaphapha maan wena Gogo Penny. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
there is nothing wrong with pocketing an extra R50k from an Ex....by withdrawing she defeats the whole purpose of complaining or charging him of assault, damet if she was a white woman non of this could had happened, white b!tches vat nie K@k that's the reason y OJ had to permanently silence his’s, he knew divorce will leave him dry.......
@Winner.......Really, stru, u, can, ka nnete, truly, lol, How!
The_Only_1
Since when is Penny Lebyane qualified to make decisions on behalf of Bonang. As far as I'm informed, it was Common Assault. Also the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa after 1994 gave both men and women equal powers and rights to be treated equally and to be the same in all respect and in front of the Law. Gender Discrimination is ONLY allowed when you try to balance the injustices of the past through 'Affirmative Action and Gender Diversity'. I'm not promoting gender violence; however the only people who really know what happened is Bonang and DJ Euphonik. So lets stay away from their decision making and worry about our problems including Aunt Penny Lebyane. Bonang does not owe any one any Media Statement about withdrawing assault charges.
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Good point!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
madamx
I'm also dissapointed by Bonang decision. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
This issue of women dropping charges after an assault or abuse is one of the biggest problems that this country is facing right now. We cannot afford to be feeble and clumsy about it."
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This is sad reality
@Penny, Bonang is grown wo.man, she has reason why she dropped the charges.
The settle out of court scenario sounds dubious to me......... my assumption is Ms B had a lot to lose (reputation)
See, mense fail to understand that when u charge some for assaulting or any criminal activity that took place even murder, you place the judgment into the courts hands, the court has representatives from two parties, now the court here represents that law that is set out by the state, and the state is the people, so in other words your BUSINESS becomes our business because you report a case to the state to provide judgment by reading what the Law says concerning domestic VIOLENCE,
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Ok, now we (the state) must fEcken lay a charge against BONANG for withdrawing with OUT the court being given the opportunity to read the evidence from the assault claim….which is bridge of promise
Taba ke tsa babedi, Wa boraro ke Mpheane. Tlogelang baratani bana, you dont know what he gave her in that room, just the two of them, so all of you shut up Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
DJ-Winner
@THEmadame2B-BBEE...Are you horny? ha ha ha...Nothing wrong with that. Women get horny too.. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
thinya
Because of Bonang's case we will be seeing lot of women abuses and more charges being dropped, this is an insult to our women. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, boy, i'm forever horny, i'm intrigued to know ur technique of put it in without cumming inside the vivi!
Ur method can save the world from unwanted pregnancies
Guys I know gore our feelings are different about this issue. I know we blame Penny by interfering but guys there are stories out there, people will tell you gore he started by clapping me and them he'll ask for forgiveness and lenna I'll do that. The following day bruises and forgiveness and Mydo when he's busy doing that after mashapa he buys flowers. Guys next time this person will buy flowers ele gore o ko Lenasia/Avalon cemetery, nna I do understand Penny but again we have to respect Bonang's decision cause we don't know what exactly happened and again what ever happened he (Euphonik) had no right to do what he did. Let's respect one another go lwana a go thuse niks instead go ira dilo di be worse. No to women abuse.
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, boy, i'm forever horny, i'm intrigued to know ur technique of put it in without cumming inside the vivi!
Ur method can save the world from unwanted pregnancies
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ha ha ha...It takes a lot of practices. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Flemza
Whats wrong with this granny Penny Lebyane , who has never had a real love affair in her life , shouldn`t she be mainding her own busisness , if this young lady decided to drop the charges its her choice to make not this Penny Lebyane choice NXA Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
californiaqueen
THE POWER OF CASH, KE BRIBARY FEELA MO. O MO REKILE PERIOD, NO EVEN GOOD S@# CAN MAKE ME DROP THE CHARGES, they had an agreement PLAIN!!!
@Winner....but do u know its feken nice when the dude is about to cum, yoh, damn ur madam is missing out my chap Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MGEEZ
SWEETYK
@ ALL
Guys I know gore our feelings are different about this issue. I know we blame Penny by interfering but guys there are stories out there, people will tell you gore he started by clapping me and them he'll ask for forgiveness and lenna I'll do that. The following day bruises and forgiveness and Mydo when he's busy doing that after mashapa he buys flowers. Guys next time this person will buy flowers ele gore o ko Lenasia/Avalon cemetery, nna I do understand Penny but again we have to respect Bonang's decision cause we don't know what exactly happened and again what ever happened he (Euphonik) had no right to do what he did. Let's respect one another go lwana a go thuse niks instead go ira dilo di be worse. No to women abuse.
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I disagree with you completely. I say no to human abuse of any kind!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
T.C.T
SWEETYK
my sister it is not a valid and resonable justification suggesting that we do not know the whole story wat is given is BONANG was beaten and she opened a case we all act on those bases and ignoring the law to take its cours is so dissapointing especially to other women who are shy to expose there men. but if it was a scam bag like me o ne o tla bona go itlhaganetswe gore ke golegwe.di celebrity need to have there own police station wer they can do as they want and wast time de. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Walaza
aaaah she pulles a Rihana stunt,yah neh celebrities. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner....but do u know its feken nice when the dude is about to cum, yoh, damn ur madam is missing out my chap
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Nothing wrong with that. I also like it when the woman squirts Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
@ T.C.T
As ke itse ga re itse gore go etsagetse eng and even if Bonang a le wrong Euphonik ga ana right ya go mo shapa, ke gana ya go shapa abuti setlhare sa mosi ke go katoga. If nna ke sa go thabisi go better re tlogele you will find someone o tlo go thabisa the way o batlang ka teng. I do understand your point. Report Abuse
ok my sister i understand and see your point of view however as you say setlhare sa mosi ke go sekatoga, that is not how we should solve problems cause wen we do that we promote the culture of saying is better to avoide and undermine the correct measures that need to be taken avoiding the problem is a big no no.we should face and solve problems. wa itse gore bananyana le bagolo ba bangwe ba rata B.o tlhalosa yang ko ngwaneng wa 14yrs gore B o tsholotse kgetsi morago ga gore a ketekiwe ke lekau la gagwe? re ruta bana dilo tsa molao go diragetseng? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
CONDOMLarge
Who r u to judge her dicision.o sa mo rata ga Thambo la haye la Nados mos.leave her alone wena Pen***ty. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
malemaforpresident
Ok Penny please advise Uyanda Mbuli to also open an assault case against her husband Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
@ T.C.T
Ok broer I understand, if u doesn't agree with your partner in most cases and fights alot, kamo ga a itsi go berekisa madi always out with friends, he/she disrespects you infront of your friends, ga a go tlhatswetse if le dula mmogo and again o bowa late wena o robetse and this thing etsagala for 2 years how do you solve this problem? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
thankgodiamblack
My good people, I still dont understand why women in this country are being abused phisically by their husbands or boyfriend and why is this happening so much.
But what I undestand is this, I had a long relationship of about four years and I wasso attached to this woman, i would do everything for her when she needed me the most, money wise and emotionally wise aswell. Her parents knew me and mine knew her so it was like family affair. If we both heard something somewhere we couldnt wait to tell each other.I loved her so much.
Then one night I decided to go through her cell and I found out she was inlove with someone else at work, they were sending each other smses .I was in shock, then straight I starting thinking about all the good times we had, my heart starting pumping so fast, I couldnt breath, I could feel tears coming, my whole body was shaking, my hands and I was busy asking her about them having sex, after she denied for about two hours she said yes they had sex when she used to say she visited her parents in weekends.By this point I was thinking about another man having sex with her, after that the only thing went through my mind was the big knife which was in the kitchen and then slitting her through throat so I could make this thing quiet forever, however with so much anger I passed out before doing that. I woke up in hospital I called her to go take a her stuff from the house and go.
Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature. So when another male lion comes in another lions den it is war.
Since from that day when I hear a policeman shot his whole family because he was suspecting his wife was cheating on him ...I do understand
And for the recored the is no man in this world will just wake up one morning and beat,kill girlfriend or wife just for nothing.
SWEETYK
@ MGEEZ
In this case who is the victim?
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The point I am making here is very clear and that is: women rights are human rights!!! Bonang as a human being who's rights had been allegedly violated by another human being has decided to withdraw the charges!!!! But yet you find people like Penny and many others who feel that as part of their own going war with men, this must be turned into women's rights, instead of human rights. The problem with that approach is that it makes abusers out of good men in the society and perpetuate a stereo type that a certain gender should be protected more than the other and that all men are abusive!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
thankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
T.C.T
SWEETYK
ok to answer you in short i pack my bags and go!!!!!
again understand this before you reach that particular stage you described, wat is needed is proper understanding betwn two partners knowing there background,personalities,type of friends there real character of who they realy are to avoide the fake personality you mite receive from them or commit yourself with some1 inappropriate for you.after receiving that ,you can know how you suppose to treat your partner ,talk to him etc wat qtions you must ask etc.im having the impression that your above comment is pointing in one direction of disrespecting but lacks the courage to show or explain proper ways of communication inside the relationship..nothing is gauranteed my sister Report Abuse
Bonang i hope u wont regret your decision soon coz some woman act befor thinking some times Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
@ thankgodiamblack
I'm very much sorry you didn't deserve that, tell me my brother is killing or beating a solution? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Kaylae
thankgodiamblack
My good people, I still dont understand why women in this country are being abused phisically by their husbands or boyfriend and why is this happening so much.
But what I undestand is this, I had a long relationship of about four years and I wasso attached to this woman, i would do everything for her when she needed me the most, money wise and emotionally wise aswell. Her parents knew me and mine knew her so it was like family affair. If we both heard something somewhere we couldnt wait to tell each other.I loved her so much.
Then one night I decided to go through her cell and I found out she was inlove with someone else at work, they were sending each other smses .I was in shock, then straight I starting thinking about all the good times we had, my heart starting pumping so fast, I couldnt breath, I could feel tears coming, my whole body was shaking, my hands and I was busy asking her about them having sex, after she denied for about two hours she said yes they had sex when she used to say she visited her parents in weekends.By this point I was thinking about another man having sex with her, after that the only thing went through my mind was the big knife which was in the kitchen and then slitting her through throat so I could make this thing quiet forever, however with so much anger I passed out before doing that. I woke up in hospital I called her to go take a her stuff from the house and go.
Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature. So when another male lion comes in another lions den it is war.
Since from that day when I hear a policeman shot his whole family because he was suspecting his wife was cheating on him ...I do understand
And for the recored the is no man in this world will just wake up one morning and beat,kill girlfriend or wife just for nothing.
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So touched by your story broer,its sad what your ex did to you.I also tell my husband that its better for him to divorce me than cheat on me Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
@ Galfrend
Morning my love how are you doing Lala? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
Galfrend
thankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Morning All
Hala Sweetyk hala frend,
@Galfrend,
Hala frend, oh shame frend you know how to shayisa someone ngomoya neh?. Been halaling you on the other side and you quiet. how are you? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
SWEETYK
@ T.C.T
Ok broer I understand, if u doesn't agree with your partner in most cases and fights alot, kamo ga a itsi go berekisa madi always out with friends, he/she disrespects you infront of your friends, ga a go tlhatswetse if le dula mmogo and again o bowa late wena o robetse and this thing etsagala for 2 years how do you solve this problem?
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T.C.T
SWEETYK
ok to answer you in short i pack my bags and go!!!!!
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Did Dj Fresh use to abuse Penny back when they were still dating or does this have anything to do with Euphonic being friends with Dj Fresh hmmm, i wonder??? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Galfrend
Don't ever cheat on a man that's a dangerous game to play. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Phuntjo
ahh im disapointed, i was waiting for bonang to set a great example to all abusers out there, but its fine, she decided Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
Skopo my darling...did I shayisa you ngomoya. I dont know whats wrong with me uyaz these days,yesterday uSweety was also saying ngimshayisa nge snow shoulder..lol askies,unjani my f Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Phuntjo
You think Euphonic was going to be the first man to be convicted for assault? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
H6 - no. You must say partners must never cheat on one another because its a dangerous game either way. Men physically abuse their cheating women, thina we have other ways of revenge. A woman scorned my brother...jesess!! lol Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
T.C.T
SWEETYK
bear in mind my sister that each situation is answered or handled on different circumstances required fo that specific situation and one should not be selective or tend to accept or agree only to wat it suet there expectation hence i explained the process or stages before i pack my bag and go normal ppl dont just wake up and go before looking fo solutions. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MGEEZ
@Hadebe
Did Dj Fresh use to abuse Penny back when they were still dating or does this have anything to do with Euphonic being friends with Dj Fresh hmmm, i wonder???
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Ahaaaa; I thought as much and now she wants Bonang to fight a battle that she did not fight with Fresh? Penny and all the feminist's who are dissappointed on this blog must realize that this is not a democratic revolution; it's a love affair; they must quit politicizing it. Report Abuse
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Moffdat
@Sowetan
What did i do mara heh. heh? heh *shouting* heh? You block me when there are plenty who are misbehaving. eish eish eish. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
malemaforpresident
thankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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thats excatly what im saying. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KGS000
Women are very forgiving, Bonang thought that this punk stood to loose a lot if he was convicted and decided not to carry on with the case ke basadi for you they have love but one day le tla fela Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
thankgodiamblack
@SWEETYK
I'm very much sorry you didn't deserve that, tell me my brother is killing or beating a solution?
Obviously killing is not the solution here, what I am saying is that I do understand, untill you are in that moment you cannot think properly, your whole world falls down. I was lucky that I passed out because I might have done something stupid but at that second, moment, hour hearing that your most important person in your life was cheating on you it was the right thing to do, beleive me. However after some few days I was still angry although i was not that angry to do anything.Its just that moment I cannot explain, you just become the darkest person in the world.Even people who go on suicide I dont blame them because I dont know what led them doing it, however they where also robbed by that only moment, I was just lucky I passed out. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Galfrend
What do you do run to the courts to force maintenance? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Moffdat
Galfrend
malemaforpresident
thankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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thats excatly what im saying.
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Stop living in lalaland lenna. Cheating is sometimes so much more complicated than you may think. For instance most women know long before they find out that their person is cheating. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
BinoBanga
Penny must mind her own business. She must tell he spouse to blacksem her(Penny) so that she can be the one to press charges against him. She must buzz off from other people's affairs and mind her own model C affairs. Ja he blacksemmed her and that has nothing to do with Penny. Ahhh buss off you Pennnnny V@##$##$k!!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
BinoBanga
She failed to remote control DJ Fresh and now u nghenisa-nghenisa nhompfu(nose) ya yena eka timhaka ta vanhu. U njhani mhani ya loyi? Report Abuse
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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thats excatly what im saying.
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Stop living in lalaland lenna. Cheating is sometimes so much more complicated than you may think. For instance most women know long before they find out that their person is cheating.
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okay...your point being?????? Im saying in reference to @ thankgodiamblack's comment,that we as women feel the same pain you feel when your partner has cheated on you.We react by crying or dumping you,or forgiving,or even cheating on you so we can be even. Men on the other hand,phyisically abuse us when we cheat...so whats your point?
Wena Bonang stop allowing ur popularity and this thing of you being a celebrity to get into your head
and mess you up!!!! Hi nga hembelani and Im not saying that men have to raise their hands on women-no! We have to respect women in all ways, yet women should also return the courtesy. Wena wena wena Bonang wa kona, that affair is not between you, DJ Euphonik and Penny but between wena na DJ ntsena so vo Penny and Senny na vo Jackky na vo mani mani henny should buzzz offf man! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
Hosh6
Galfrend
What do you do run to the courts to force maintenance?
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If you are not taking care of your responsibilities hell yah...but a real man wont be dragged to court just to support his child. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Moffdat
Galfrend
I was referring to the part where you both said 'stop cheating'! Like it was that easy. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
@ thankgodiamblack
You must thank God that you are alive, no one deserve to be hurt. There is a reason why you passed out. Good Luck and thanks for telling us your story. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
Moffdat
Galfrend
I was referring to the part where you both said 'stop cheating'! Like it was that easy.
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Oh I see. But I dont think it was necessary for you to say i must stop living in lalaland. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
BinoBanga
@Galfrend
"real man cannot be dragged to court to support his child"
Senwina vavasati mi endla yini ku tshika ku famba mi tswala tswala swihlanginyani? Report Abuse
Galfrend
There are some women who use children to get even with their exes but that's a topic for another day...all I'm saying is cheat but be prepared to be panel beaten. Report Abuse
H6 - LOL I get you but no one has a right to hit another human being shame. Why not leave me bathong,is panel beating me going to solve anything? Report Abuse
Frendo uthini lana? phela I'm reading your comments. ***smiling***
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hahahahaa frendo,I dont know what it means,I dont understand Venda,so i just typed what i thought was close to his language lol!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Lenyora-Buckselona
@Thankgodimblack.Wow man sorry about that skhokho saka basadi ke dintja mfana.One thing i know is that u ddint wake one morning and decide to check her phone.There is a reason why u decided to check her phone.Its better to be hurt than to live in a fantasy world thinking that your woman is honest kgante she is being chowed left right and center @ work by her colleagues.
U are a real man my friend and the reason why im saying this is because u ddint harm her or yourself in any way and u decided to make her pack her bags.Nxa ungratefull woman.Also one thing i hate about nowadys technology is this Facebook and Whatsapp nonsense.I hate these social media with a passion cos thats where manyala happen.Women cheat on these social media mfowethu.Lenna i once checked my womans fone a while back and i found stuff i ddnt anticipate.She was acting dodgy evrytym her fone rang and wudnt answa and she wud reject calls.As hurt as i was i decided never to trust a woman ever ever again.Even if i do get married one day i'll never trust that woman i'd rather trust myself and god.The sooner social media is banned the sooner relationships and marriages will start going back to normal cos they lead to pre-mature divorces and broken families.
I just ask myself who came up with these Facebook,Whatsapp,Mxit and Twitter rubbish.These ppl neeed to be caught and arrested for causing heartache and misery due to these forms of social media nonsense. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
BinoBanga
@Galfrend.
It is Tsonga not Venda!! Laughing myself to death!!!!
moffdat - lol nah,will tell you oneday when i become one..lol
Lenyora-Buckselona
@Thankgodimblack.Wow man sorry about that skhokho saka basadi ke dintja mfana..................>Hello to you too BUCKSELONA...News flash,some men are dogs too! Report Abuse
It is Tsonga not Venda!! Laughing myself to death!!!!
Jaaah ne!!!!This is interesting!!!!!
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Oh! mara kuyafana...XiTsonga swi swi and Venda ndaa ...okay Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KGS000
@Lenyora-Buckselona
I feel what you saying bra, I will never love or trust a woman like I did basadi when you treat them like Queens they treat you like a slave ba batla bona bo Euphonick and say were are soft mxxxm Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
KGS000
@Lenyora-Buckselona
I feel what you saying bra, I will never love or trust a woman like I did basadi when you treat them like Queens they treat you like a slave ba batla bona bo Euphonick and say were are soft mxxxm
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he he he these men.
@Galfrend
BinoBanga
Hey hey hey hey!!!! galfrend!!! Se u vula yini sweswo na? A swi vulavuli leswi u nga swi tsala la!!! anele ndzi ku dyondyisa ku vulavula XiTsonga sister.
It simply means "What r u trying to say"? What you wrote has no meaning/does not make sense, one have a lot to teach you on how to speak Xi Tsonga my sister!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
But do you know that the reason why some women cheat is because they are pushed by men who cant let a skirt pass them by. Men cheat all the time. But do we hit you when you cheat on us? NO!! mara if we do,you assault us. Why is that.
and NOT ALL women are cheaters please.well im not sure about men though,I think they ALL cheat. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KGS000
KGS000
@Lenyora-Buckselona
I feel what you saying bra, I will never love or trust a woman like I did basadi when you treat them like Queens they treat you like a slave ba batla bona bo Euphonick and say were are soft mxxxm
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he he he these men.
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@Galfrend
Let me not generalize ma bad not all women Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
BINO - LOL was just pulling your leg my brother,I dont understand XI TSONGA, Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
KG - Good boy,lol. Coz both of you now were beginning to act like men are saints they dont cheat at all. Report Abuse
Frendo uthini lana? phela I'm reading your comments. ***smiling***
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hahahahaa frendo,I dont know what it means,I dont understand Venda,so i just typed what i thought was close to his language lol!!
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Kikikikikikikikiki tltltltltllltltltltltlltltltllt bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ke Xitsonga frendo hai mara wena kikikikikikikikikikikikiki iya neh IsiVenZu. LOL Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Lumzaa
penny akabheke izindaba zakhe and leave bonang alone Report Abuse
Yea!!! you are right SWEETYK, that is ISIVENZU!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
KG - Well,I choose not to believe it. No man can resist an opportunity to bang another lady. Men are visually stimulated,they only think after they have done the deed. And the sad part we have sisters who throw themselves at men,married or not. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Galfrend
You can speak tsonga wow a woman of many talents...could you please tell your friend Moffdat to back off. Report Abuse
Speaking Tsonga is not a talent he chief. I ku va munhu a tiva ku vulavula ririmi ro karhi!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
lol Sweety k was just playing hahahaaa
H6 I wish I could my dear
Bye...this place is a yawn without my Ekapa...
nxa someone just ruined my day uyaz!!!!! Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KGS000
KG - Well,I choose not to believe it. No man can resist an opportunity to bang another lady. Men are visually stimulated,they only think after they have done the deed. And the sad part we have sisters who throw themselves at men,married or not.
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@Galfrend
Dats were you're wrong I was never trusted because of that mind set you have, just because you were cheated on in your previous relationships it doesn't mean I'm gonna do that too especially if I know you were treated that way. Report Abuse
Hello my darling long time maan ke eng vele?
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Eish net matsatsi a kena le allergy ya dimpya tseding mo blokong! So ne ke tswile sebabo sese dangerous! Report Abuse
H6 - No boyfriend,you are not a yawn. I just miss eKAPA.
im getting paranoid,what if?what if...yoh what if he died? how will i know? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
P4T
Another Rhianna and and Chris Brown escapade perhaps?
Whaterever though, B is a smart girl who has likely calculated costs vs benefits of the law suit versus concentrating on the blooming career. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
cl!ck
ekapa
clivage
ladygaga
sweetcandy aka candyboy
tsek aka lovelace
nevus
mthondoongengqondo,lmao
mattz
cake
blumy
................................> i miss you guys where are you ? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Galfrend
You dont have to know...why do you worry 'bout someone who isn't concerned about you?
Bumboklaat
How are you Bra Japhta lol Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
H6 - ouch but i care,if you or one of my cyber friends had to go awol i would worry,im like that..so does it mean you are not concerned about me? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
Bumboklaat
@SWEETYK
@ Bumboklaat
Hello my darling long time maan ke eng vele?
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Eish net matsatsi a kena le allergy ya dimpya tseding mo blokong! So ne ke tswile sebabo sese dangerous!
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LOL!! nna ke di phomotse ga ke sa dibona ga ke tla kamo mpya enngwee etla kamo kere thanks ke shapiwa ke mowa. Ke eng iyo o fodile mare?
@ KGS000
I'm supermagodolocious love, thanks for asking. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Galfrend
If I don't tell you about my whereabouts it means I don't care 'bout you...eKapa doesn't have to be here all day long he has to tell you why he is scarce so you can stop worrying about him. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Galfrend
H6
you have a point, but i cant help worry still. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Bumboklaat
Bra Japhta don't you want gordons nip? Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
SWEETYK
@eKapa
Where are you skeem saka? things are getting rough here o wa senyegelwa. lol Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
Galfrend
It's ok to worry but don't over do it...it's fine really here's my shoulder babe you can lean on me don't be scared.
H6 - LOL and if i over worry? hey chancers...loling Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
clevergirl
Bonang needs support.I have been there I know,it`s just not easy,nevertheless, for her to drop charges against him, is wrong,because,he will do it again and again.I feel sorry for her,because ga go easy,on one side this is the man that she sort to love(she has soft spot for him),ka go je lengwe,he is hurting her,big time and Euphnik knows exactly that Bonang loves him,he knows her week points and is using that to his benefit.Bonang,I am so sorry,be strong,seek for professional help,u zo ba ryt sisi,ryt! Report Abuse
Galfrend
I'm no chancer...wena you can lean on my shoulder and let me do the worry for you. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Lenyora-Buckselona
@GF.Hello my dear sister.Im not saying all women ke dintja its just that my heart is bleeding for @Thankgodimblack cos i know what he is going through.basadi babang habana dankie,dankie yabona ke plate yamasepa.
@ KGS000.Es waar boss love them but dont trust them women cos nna i dont wanna end up kete hanger or kebodisa yena lenxosi yaka nd myself.Its just that its not in me to raise a hand to a woman i have way too much pride.I'd rather walk away nd leave her with that other guy,cos my future will be @ stake shud i do sumthing drastic. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
KGS000
@Lenyora-Buckselona
You have a good head on your shoulders bra much respect Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Lenyora-Buckselona
@Clevergirl.Chances are there is sumthing you did to get the treatment metted to you.Like @ Thankgodimblack said we men are visual and territorial when it comes to our women.So any sign of infedilty from a womans side can spark a whole lot of reaction from a man.Thats why Lenna i alwys tell my woman that instead of cheating on me rather she tell me she dont want me anymore and spare me the heartache of finding owt l8ter that she has been cheating all along.
@ SweetyK.Hello to u too my swerrie finaly i've been inducted in the hall of fame(halla list). Report Abuse
Bonang is such a forgive person, i like her Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
spekepeke1
Hosh6
H0la wat se? nna my heart is bleeding today, feel like i lost my other half Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MAILBOX
Kaylae what a sad story and sorry for what you went through in life , hope you find peace and that is what i always tell my man that when he is tired of me he must just tell me and go and do what he wants . Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
Hosh6
spekepeke1
Aaaggg come on dude did a woman break your heart?Do a Euphonic on her lol Report Abuse
You will never know what actually caused Bonang to drop the charges in order to "settle" out of court. I guess she misses the action between the sheets. Report Abuse
Sep 11, 2012
MsHollyHerb
kodwa where did they get this pic of Queen B, Ngathi isidudla nje esithile la, u would think she wears size 38 Report Abuse
I can imagine conversation between Fresh le DJ Euphonik
"E fresh ex ele ya gago ena le mase###, I can see why u dump her" Report Abuse
Sep 12, 2012
siantando
MS B you are mzantsi RIHHANA she drop the charges on CHRIS BROWN .... DJ EUPHONIk aka CHRIS BROWN Report Abuse
Sep 13, 2012
Tragedy
if the guy has done her wrong and apologised why not forgive him, why not drop charges. When two lovers fight there will be bad blood, exchanging of blows and swearing but they realize they are human and to forget everything and move is to forgive and forget. If she persued those charges against Euphonik i would say that she is not over him yet, but now it shows that she is independent and have proven herself and to her followers that you can actually get over someone.So people being disappointed by someone who never promised them anything is scarry. Report Abuse
Sep 14, 2012
booze1984
I was not going to drop them if I were her, but I am not!! Report Abuse
Sep 17, 2012
Britata
Go uephonic,next time u must scar her Report Abuse
Sep 18, 2012
malizho1
IGNORE FOOLS TO AVOID NOISE, YOU MADE A WONDERFUL CHOICE. YOU ARE THE BEST IN FACT I PREFER BESTES Report Abuse
Sep 19, 2012
melmak
@ Papage, “You sound like you enjoy hurting women” I hope u are still growing up boy because what you just said now shows exactly that you are not matured yet. A man talking like this…..mhhhh remember you will be having kids one day (maybe u already have) you are the one who have to take care of them and make sure that they don’t get hurt by other guys out there. So just think before u type stupid staff tu!!
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maneater
come now Penny. one of the rights that the woman has is a right to choose. who are you to question that right? fight your own battles sisi and leave Bonang alone.Report Abuse
Chichi7
How will society take this abuse of women seriously when the victims drop charges? How will the abusers stop what they are doing when they know that at the end of the day, the charges will be dropped?I am not only disappointed with Bonang but a million other women that do this on a daily basis. They wait until the man kills them and by then, it is too late.
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Vhamsanda
I applaud Bonang for dropping the charges against her Ex. Despite what happened between the two , it is very important to let go and move on with her life. She has a very bright future ahead and it is not worth it for her to keep grudges against nobodies.Big - Ups, Queen B , we love u.
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
The inquiry might have found out that Miss B was also at fault here, so I’m guessing there was an amount of money paid to her by the Ex to drop the charges....SHE SOLD HER SOULReport Abuse
MsBlackberry
Taba tsa batho ba babedi o ka se di kgone i hope this boy will never raise his hand to Bonang in future ........wena Penny kgona tsa gago i know you used to stalk DJ FreshReport Abuse
KGS000
Ditaba tsa batho baratani ga di kenwe now they've smoked the peace pipe di setse le rona nou mxmReport Abuse
Shredder
"She now has a huge responsibility to explain why she dropped the charges to those young girls who follow her and those who are going through what she went through."=========================================================================
Wa mo rata.
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MGEEZ
This is not a stru.ggle of us and them!!! This is a per.sonal matte.r and Bon.ang's pers.onal cho.ices must be res.pected and she must not be second g.uessed by anyone as that would be fur.ther viol.ation of her right to d.ignity as ens.hrined in the consti.tution.Report Abuse
Papage
That proves how powerful Men are and they will stay that way until the end of time, women must accept it, Men rule the Worls and evrything that is on it. We wer created that way and it will never be changed, even the Courts can do nothing about it. Hope you two will find a way to put the past behind and go on with your lives.Report Abuse
sekhebereshe
is this the same penny who chased her husband out of the house with help of her mother...please!Report Abuse
babyfats
amen to dat one Msbleckberry izindaba zabantu abawu2 zihlula imantjie strate.Report Abuse
MAILBOX
What was the point of her reporting the man , so dissapointed in her.Report Abuse
moemish
i'm very sure B knows why she dropped the charges, it definately cud have not been an easy decision maara we have to respect her decision. yes she is a public figure who is a role model to a lot of young galls and gals her age (myself) and making this decision doesnt seem fit but this has and still will be a very trying situation for sumone of her stature to be in.i'm behind you gal, every step of the way and may God be with you and continue to guide you in his righteous path!! Queen B fan for life!!
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Msiphos00
I like the pic (Penny Lebyane) screeeeaaaammmmmm uthanda izindaba zabantuReport Abuse
Stumtum
Anty Penny please fight yours, in case they reconcile what are you going to say then.Report Abuse
DIKENKENG
I agree with you MsBlackberry ditaba tsa baratani di thata ebile,di kenwe hobane otla sala le tsona. Even we (mphakhathi) can say Bonang has dissapointed us but love conquers all,Thumbs up Miss BReport Abuse
Dinnymashaba
I agree with POWA, it is her choice and Penny mustn't ask her to explain herself, she doesnt owe anyone an explanation. Young girls should learn to be true to themselves and stop following "so callled models". They are human afterall.Report Abuse
Diva7
Some times you need to do what is best for you, regardless of people's opinions. Let go and let it flow Queen B!Report Abuse
MsHollyHerb
*YAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWNNNNNNNNNNNN*Report Abuse
Kaylae
Problem is the freedom of speech that we have been granted that makes people like Penny dictators,Mama we she doesn't owe you ziltchReport Abuse
Danger1985
In as much as Bonang is a role model she has her life to live. As long as she is compens-mentis and aslong as she wasnt coerced into dropping the charges I dnt see the need for all the hullaballo...sheb can make any decision she sees fit, its her life and some people need to deal with it. The same type on nosie was made when Rihanna released video on man down and when she "got back together"with Chris...we love them they entertain us but look they have a life to live...bellie dat!!!!Report Abuse
Nkasegobotsesephirise
Euphonik works with DJ Fresh,who once dated n vomit Penny!1+1=2
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Pitso.MCCMA.SAFA
@Penny LebyaneYou are arrogant little freak woman. I am suprised that you undermine the decision of another woman over your personal agenda. You want to imply that Matheba is not a woman enough more than you. You oneday ask Khanyi Mbau how does she feel when people call her Jezzebell as if we do not also call you Jezzebell.The christian you know is our jezzabell. You are also jezzabell to other people. For your record to use emotions to impreson the person you love is like blacklisting yourself to live and suspending your progress. If Dj Euphonic would have found gilty and jailed.How would be christmass. You do not think for us. You are arrogant.
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ThirdEye
Who gave Penny a right to put her nose to other people's business?Report Abuse
DJ-Winner
You love your Mr. wrong even if he kicks you around like a soccer ball. ay ha ha ha...these things are interesting, very interesting.Report Abuse
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Galfrend
Akundaba yakho leyo wena Penny...*the photo killls me*Its Bonang's right to do whatever feels best for her. People should stop putting pressure on the girl,im sure she has good reasons why she chose to settle out of court. Courts can be exhausting,time consuming and take a toll on one's health not to mention the tarnishing of one's image through the media which likes to blow things out of proportion. Anyway isnt it a good thing that they have made peace? people love it when other people are fighting...mcxm
And this excuse that she is a role model nton nton,doesnt mean she is not a human being hawu, parents lets be role models to our kids and stop relying on celebrities to do the job for us. uBonang doesnt have a child!
All the best to you Queen B*,LOVE YOU LOTS!!! mwaaaaaaaaaah!
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Tabza325is
I don't know Bonang's personality, but judging from what I see from her on TV and listening to her on radio, I think this girl is a not a bitter person and doesn't waist her time in anger as many doo, she seems more of "the sooner you move on" kind of person, I know some women can stay bitter for years at all men because of one man, Penny looks like those women....Report Abuse
T'dpole
I thought Penny o na le tlhaloganyo........o batlang ditabeng tsa Bonang, she must comment abt her own life a tlogele ngwana o mongwe............she must eat a chill pill..........i mean she has kids with different dads but do other women comment..........no.because its her own business...Report Abuse
T.C.T
it might be her right not to continue with the charges or we can call it freedom of choice on her defence,however young ladies who admire her might not understand why there hero droped the charges,she is admired by lot of ppl especially young ladies and her descions do influence other ladies choices and Bonang promote the beating inside relationships hence organisation such as POWA advice women to report this incidents the qtion is what is she teaching young ppl?Penny is not qtioning her desicion but simply dissapointed on her choice.DJ need to be locked away for beating this fantastic chick perheps she is scared who knows.this issue is not only about Bonang but all women..if some lady here is raped by a gang of boys and tmr she decide to drop charges does that mean her decision wont dissapoint other women? ladies need to stand together cry together adiving together etc etc
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Snow-White
True, ditaba ke tsa batho babedi fela. It was her decisin to drop those assualt charges.They've moved on with their lives. & life goes on.
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swona
the second picture is not on homey! but what u said its true, even in the rural areas, I have never seen men moering their spouces, as a public figure, she should have never withdrew the case!Report Abuse
SHEMAN
Bonang yena o mo editseng...This typical modern women who watch soapies everyday think they can imitate the lives of actors who everyday think they perfect and can solve every problem without fights but only negotiation...That is highly impossible...Those boxes are fake and folklores...In this world there would always be problems,but that does'nt mean you should always be prepared to fight or always be prepared to defend yourself from everything that comes along...Sometimes we should just try and live a happy life in the midst of our troubles and possibilities...
LIFE IS A MYSTERY....
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Lenyora-Buckselona
@Penny. Waphapha wena thats why osena monna.What "if" Bonang cheated or did sumthing bad to Euphonza?Was he supposed to laugh about it and pretend as if nuthing happened?Im not condoning what Euphonik did but basadi bakago tena sumtyms.Especially these so called independent/career/educated women.Tjeeeer batlago ferola dibete maan.Report Abuse
Nincompoop
Mind your business sissy, we all know that we need not burge into affairs of a couple. Three is a crowd.Report Abuse
The_Only_1
Since when is Penny Lebyane qualified to make decisions on behalf of Bonang. As far as I'm informed, it was Common Assault. Also the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa after 1994 gave both men and women equal powers and rights to be treated equally and to be the same in all respect and in front of the Law. Gender Discrimination is ONLY allowed when you try to balance the injustices of the past through 'Affirmative Action and Gender Diversity'. I'm not promoting gender violence; however the only people who really know what happened is Bonang and DJ Euphonik. So lets stay away from their decision making and worry about our problems including Aunt Penny Lebyane. Bonang does not owe any one any Media Statement about withdrawing assault charges.Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Iyo Penny, you look so angry.......... as if you about to strangle Bonang for dropping the chargesReport Abuse
sabza007
Penny has a right to show her dissapointment, so do I. We understand that its Bonang's choice to forgive and forget BUT she should have not went to the media to show us her bruised face in the first place.Report Abuse
MophemeKoPitori
@Maneeater, i agree with you 100%.Queen B is a grown-a$$ woman and yes if she sees fit to drop the charges, so be it. No wonder Penny has three kids with different dads
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Lehido
Penny you want to be Oprah now?Report Abuse
The-Vince
THEmadame2B-BBEEThe inquiry might have found out that Miss B was also at fault here, so I’m guessing there was an amount of money paid to her by the Ex to drop the charges....SHE SOLD HER SOUL
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But i doubt that Bonang would do such, I mean she has her own money, she is the "IT" girl in Mzansi.
I do think though as you say she was at fault aswell.
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KeRataBasadi
People need to butt out, where were they when they where fncking, she made a choice to drop the charges and move on, I think thats a sensible move for someone as ambitious and busy as she is, she cant have all her gains throughout her career come down to this one incident, seems to be the only thing the media is interested in these days, hopefully though she has learnt from this and will never allow a madafaka to lay a hand on her.Report Abuse
cutedogg
I am also dissapointed she dropped the charges but ditaba tsa baratani ke tse thata.Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Papage...................., women must accept it, Men rule the Worls
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So true as women rule the real WORLD
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Kabelo10
Ma Nigeria bao lapisitshe wena Penny. Taba ke tsha batho ba babedi, wa boraro ke mpeyane (Maratha ditaba). Attention seeker with low class!!!!!Report Abuse
The-Vince
Wena Penny wazenza ncgono la....I don't think Bonang has the responsibility to explain to any one why she decided to drop the charges, It's her life, her decision so leave her be uyekele ukubheda la....if she will live to regret it or not she will find a way to deal with it. Uyaphapha maan wena Gogo Penny.Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
there is nothing wrong with pocketing an extra R50k from an Ex....by withdrawing she defeats the whole purpose of complaining or charging him of assault, damet if she was a white woman non of this could had happened, white b!tches vat nie K@k that's the reason y OJ had to permanently silence his’s, he knew divorce will leave him dry.......@Winner.......Really, stru, u, can, ka nnete, truly, lol, How!
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Kgaitsedi-ya-Genaro
A a mo donnore gape & this time a mo etse beyond repair then she will learn to stick to her word. Nxa ba a tena bo-Bonang man yerrReport Abuse
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@ ALLGOOD MORNING LOVIES.
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Halo miss nton nton lol
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MGEEZ
The_Only_1Since when is Penny Lebyane qualified to make decisions on behalf of Bonang. As far as I'm informed, it was Common Assault. Also the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa after 1994 gave both men and women equal powers and rights to be treated equally and to be the same in all respect and in front of the Law. Gender Discrimination is ONLY allowed when you try to balance the injustices of the past through 'Affirmative Action and Gender Diversity'. I'm not promoting gender violence; however the only people who really know what happened is Bonang and DJ Euphonik. So lets stay away from their decision making and worry about our problems including Aunt Penny Lebyane. Bonang does not owe any one any Media Statement about withdrawing assault charges.
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Good point!!!
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I'm also dissapointed by Bonang decision.Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
This issue of women dropping charges after an assault or abuse is one of the biggest problems that this country is facing right now. We cannot afford to be feeble and clumsy about it."****************************************************************************************************
This is sad reality
@Penny, Bonang is grown wo.man, she has reason why she dropped the charges.
The settle out of court scenario sounds dubious to me......... my assumption is Ms B had a lot to lose (reputation)
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
See, mense fail to understand that when u charge some for assaulting or any criminal activity that took place even murder, you place the judgment into the courts hands, the court has representatives from two parties, now the court here represents that law that is set out by the state, and the state is the people, so in other words your BUSINESS becomes our business because you report a case to the state to provide judgment by reading what the Law says concerning domestic VIOLENCE,………………..
Ok, now we (the state) must fEcken lay a charge against BONANG for withdrawing with OUT the court being given the opportunity to read the evidence from the assault claim….which is bridge of promise
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Papage
Taba ke tsa babedi, Wa boraro ke Mpheane. Tlogelang baratani bana, you dont know what he gave her in that room, just the two of them, so all of you shut upReport Abuse
DJ-Winner
@THEmadame2B-BBEE...Are you horny? ha ha ha...Nothing wrong with that. Women get horny too..Report Abuse
thinya
Because of Bonang's case we will be seeing lot of women abuses and more charges being dropped, this is an insult to our women.Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, boy, i'm forever horny, i'm intrigued to know ur technique of put it in without cumming inside the vivi!Ur method can save the world from unwanted pregnancies
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SWEETYK
@ ALLGuys I know gore our feelings are different about this issue. I know we blame Penny by interfering but guys there are stories out there, people will tell you gore he started by clapping me and them he'll ask for forgiveness and lenna I'll do that. The following day bruises and forgiveness and Mydo when he's busy doing that after mashapa he buys flowers. Guys next time this person will buy flowers ele gore o ko Lenasia/Avalon cemetery, nna I do understand Penny but again we have to respect Bonang's decision cause we don't know what exactly happened and again what ever happened he (Euphonik) had no right to do what he did. Let's respect one another go lwana a go thuse niks instead go ira dilo di be worse. No to women abuse.
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DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE@Winner, boy, i'm forever horny, i'm intrigued to know ur technique of put it in without cumming inside the vivi!
Ur method can save the world from unwanted pregnancies
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ha ha ha...It takes a lot of practices.
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Flemza
Whats wrong with this granny Penny Lebyane , who has never had a real love affair in her life , shouldn`t she be mainding her own busisness , if this young lady decided to drop the charges its her choice to make not this Penny Lebyane choice NXAReport Abuse
californiaqueen
THE POWER OF CASH, KE BRIBARY FEELA MO. O MO REKILE PERIOD, NO EVEN GOOD S@# CAN MAKE ME DROP THE CHARGES, they had an agreement PLAIN!!!Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner....but do u know its feken nice when the dude is about to cum, yoh, damn ur madam is missing out my chapReport Abuse
MGEEZ
SWEETYK@ ALL
Guys I know gore our feelings are different about this issue. I know we blame Penny by interfering but guys there are stories out there, people will tell you gore he started by clapping me and them he'll ask for forgiveness and lenna I'll do that. The following day bruises and forgiveness and Mydo when he's busy doing that after mashapa he buys flowers. Guys next time this person will buy flowers ele gore o ko Lenasia/Avalon cemetery, nna I do understand Penny but again we have to respect Bonang's decision cause we don't know what exactly happened and again what ever happened he (Euphonik) had no right to do what he did. Let's respect one another go lwana a go thuse niks instead go ira dilo di be worse. No to women abuse.
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I disagree with you completely. I say no to human abuse of any kind!!!
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T.C.T
SWEETYKmy sister it is not a valid and resonable justification suggesting that we do not know the whole story wat is given is BONANG was beaten and she opened a case we all act on those bases and ignoring the law to take its cours is so dissapointing especially to other women who are shy to expose there men. but if it was a scam bag like me o ne o tla bona go itlhaganetswe gore ke golegwe.di celebrity need to have there own police station wer they can do as they want and wast time de.
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Walaza
aaaah she pulles a Rihana stunt,yah neh celebrities.Report Abuse
DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE@Winner....but do u know its feken nice when the dude is about to cum, yoh, damn ur madam is missing out my chap
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Nothing wrong with that. I also like it when the woman squirts
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SWEETYK
@ T.C.TAs ke itse ga re itse gore go etsagetse eng and even if Bonang a le wrong Euphonik ga ana right ya go mo shapa, ke gana ya go shapa abuti setlhare sa mosi ke go katoga. If nna ke sa go thabisi go better re tlogele you will find someone o tlo go thabisa the way o batlang ka teng. I do understand your point.
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@ MGEEZIn this case who is the victim?
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T.C.T
SWEETYKok my sister i understand and see your point of view however as you say setlhare sa mosi ke go sekatoga, that is not how we should solve problems cause wen we do that we promote the culture of saying is better to avoide and undermine the correct measures that need to be taken avoiding the problem is a big no no.we should face and solve problems. wa itse gore bananyana le bagolo ba bangwe ba rata B.o tlhalosa yang ko ngwaneng wa 14yrs gore B o tsholotse kgetsi morago ga gore a ketekiwe ke lekau la gagwe? re ruta bana dilo tsa molao go diragetseng?
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CONDOMLarge
Who r u to judge her dicision.o sa mo rata ga Thambo la haye la Nados mos.leave her alone wena Pen***ty.Report Abuse
malemaforpresident
Ok Penny please advise Uyanda Mbuli to also open an assault case against her husbandReport Abuse
SWEETYK
@ T.C.TOk broer I understand, if u doesn't agree with your partner in most cases and fights alot, kamo ga a itsi go berekisa madi always out with friends, he/she disrespects you infront of your friends, ga a go tlhatswetse if le dula mmogo and again o bowa late wena o robetse and this thing etsagala for 2 years how do you solve this problem?
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thankgodiamblack
My good people, I still dont understand why women in this country are being abused phisically by their husbands or boyfriend and why is this happening so much.But what I undestand is this, I had a long relationship of about four years and I wasso attached to this woman, i would do everything for her when she needed me the most, money wise and emotionally wise aswell. Her parents knew me and mine knew her so it was like family affair. If we both heard something somewhere we couldnt wait to tell each other.I loved her so much.
Then one night I decided to go through her cell and I found out she was inlove with someone else at work, they were sending each other smses .I was in shock, then straight I starting thinking about all the good times we had, my heart starting pumping so fast, I couldnt breath, I could feel tears coming, my whole body was shaking, my hands and I was busy asking her about them having sex, after she denied for about two hours she said yes they had sex when she used to say she visited her parents in weekends.By this point I was thinking about another man having sex with her, after that the only thing went through my mind was the big knife which was in the kitchen and then slitting her through throat so I could make this thing quiet forever, however with so much anger I passed out before doing that. I woke up in hospital I called her to go take a her stuff from the house and go.
Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature. So when another male lion comes in another lions den it is war.
Since from that day when I hear a policeman shot his whole family because he was suspecting his wife was cheating on him ...I do understand
And for the recored the is no man in this world will just wake up one morning and beat,kill girlfriend or wife just for nothing.
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SWEETYK@ MGEEZ
In this case who is the victim?
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The point I am making here is very clear and that is: women rights are human rights!!! Bonang as a human being who's rights had been allegedly violated by another human being has decided to withdraw the charges!!!! But yet you find people like Penny and many others who feel that as part of their own going war with men, this must be turned into women's rights, instead of human rights. The problem with that approach is that it makes abusers out of good men in the society and perpetuate a stereo type that a certain gender should be protected more than the other and that all men are abusive!!!
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Galfrend
thankgodiamblackShame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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T.C.T
SWEETYKok to answer you in short i pack my bags and go!!!!!
again understand this before you reach that particular stage you described, wat is needed is proper understanding betwn two partners knowing there background,personalities,type of friends there real character of who they realy are to avoide the fake personality you mite receive from them or commit yourself with some1 inappropriate for you.after receiving that ,you can know how you suppose to treat your partner ,talk to him etc wat qtions you must ask etc.im having the impression that your above comment is pointing in one direction of disrespecting but lacks the courage to show or explain proper ways of communication inside the relationship..nothing is gauranteed my sister
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Galfrend
H6 - Hello there *smiling*Morning SweetyK
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spirro
Bonang i hope u wont regret your decision soon coz some woman act befor thinking some timesReport Abuse
SWEETYK
@ thankgodiamblackI'm very much sorry you didn't deserve that, tell me my brother is killing or beating a solution?
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Kaylae
thankgodiamblackMy good people, I still dont understand why women in this country are being abused phisically by their husbands or boyfriend and why is this happening so much.
But what I undestand is this, I had a long relationship of about four years and I wasso attached to this woman, i would do everything for her when she needed me the most, money wise and emotionally wise aswell. Her parents knew me and mine knew her so it was like family affair. If we both heard something somewhere we couldnt wait to tell each other.I loved her so much.
Then one night I decided to go through her cell and I found out she was inlove with someone else at work, they were sending each other smses .I was in shock, then straight I starting thinking about all the good times we had, my heart starting pumping so fast, I couldnt breath, I could feel tears coming, my whole body was shaking, my hands and I was busy asking her about them having sex, after she denied for about two hours she said yes they had sex when she used to say she visited her parents in weekends.By this point I was thinking about another man having sex with her, after that the only thing went through my mind was the big knife which was in the kitchen and then slitting her through throat so I could make this thing quiet forever, however with so much anger I passed out before doing that. I woke up in hospital I called her to go take a her stuff from the house and go.
Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature. So when another male lion comes in another lions den it is war.
Since from that day when I hear a policeman shot his whole family because he was suspecting his wife was cheating on him ...I do understand
And for the recored the is no man in this world will just wake up one morning and beat,kill girlfriend or wife just for nothing.
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So touched by your story broer,its sad what your ex did to you.I also tell my husband that its better for him to divorce me than cheat on me
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SWEETYK
@ GalfrendMorning my love how are you doing Lala?
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Galfrendthankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Amen frendo
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Skopokopo
Morning AllHala Sweetyk hala frend,
@Galfrend,
Hala frend, oh shame frend you know how to shayisa someone ngomoya neh?. Been halaling you on the other side and you quiet. how are you?
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SWEETYK@ T.C.T
Ok broer I understand, if u doesn't agree with your partner in most cases and fights alot, kamo ga a itsi go berekisa madi always out with friends, he/she disrespects you infront of your friends, ga a go tlhatswetse if le dula mmogo and again o bowa late wena o robetse and this thing etsagala for 2 years how do you solve this problem?
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SWEETYK
ok to answer you in short i pack my bags and go!!!!!
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Thank you very much, answered!!!!!
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SWEETYK
@ SkopokopoHala hala hala frendo hows you Lala?
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Hadebe
Did Dj Fresh use to abuse Penny back when they were still dating or does this have anything to do with Euphonic being friends with Dj Fresh hmmm, i wonder???Report Abuse
Hosh6
GalfrendDon't ever cheat on a man that's a dangerous game to play.
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Phuntjo
ahh im disapointed, i was waiting for bonang to set a great example to all abusers out there, but its fine, she decidedReport Abuse
Galfrend
Skopo my darling...did I shayisa you ngomoya. I dont know whats wrong with me uyaz these days,yesterday uSweety was also saying ngimshayisa nge snow shoulder..lol askies,unjani my fReport Abuse
Hosh6
PhuntjoYou think Euphonic was going to be the first man to be convicted for assault?
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Galfrend
H6 - no. You must say partners must never cheat on one another because its a dangerous game either way. Men physically abuse their cheating women, thina we have other ways of revenge. A woman scorned my brother...jesess!! lolReport Abuse
T.C.T
SWEETYKbear in mind my sister that each situation is answered or handled on different circumstances required fo that specific situation and one should not be selective or tend to accept or agree only to wat it suet there expectation hence i explained the process or stages before i pack my bag and go normal ppl dont just wake up and go before looking fo solutions.
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MGEEZ
@HadebeDid Dj Fresh use to abuse Penny back when they were still dating or does this have anything to do with Euphonic being friends with Dj Fresh hmmm, i wonder???
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Ahaaaa; I thought as much and now she wants Bonang to fight a battle that she did not fight with Fresh? Penny and all the feminist's who are dissappointed on this blog must realize that this is not a democratic revolution; it's a love affair; they must quit politicizing it.
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thankgodiamblackShame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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Moffdat
@SowetanWhat did i do mara heh. heh? heh *shouting* heh? You block me when there are plenty who are misbehaving. eish eish eish.
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Galfrend
malemaforpresidentthankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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thats excatly what im saying.
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KGS000
Women are very forgiving, Bonang thought that this punk stood to loose a lot if he was convicted and decided not to carry on with the case ke basadi for you they have love but one day le tla felaReport Abuse
thankgodiamblack
@SWEETYKI'm very much sorry you didn't deserve that, tell me my brother is killing or beating a solution?
Obviously killing is not the solution here, what I am saying is that I do understand, untill you are in that moment you cannot think properly, your whole world falls down. I was lucky that I passed out because I might have done something stupid but at that second, moment, hour hearing that your most important person in your life was cheating on you it was the right thing to do, beleive me. However after some few days I was still angry although i was not that angry to do anything.Its just that moment I cannot explain, you just become the darkest person in the world.Even people who go on suicide I dont blame them because I dont know what led them doing it, however they where also robbed by that only moment, I was just lucky I passed out.
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Hosh6
GalfrendWhat do you do run to the courts to force maintenance?
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Moffdat
Galfrendmalemaforpresident
thankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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thats excatly what im saying.
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Stop living in lalaland lenna. Cheating is sometimes so much more complicated than you may think. For instance most women know long before they find out that their person is cheating.
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BinoBanga
Penny must mind her own business. She must tell he spouse to blacksem her(Penny) so that she can be the one to press charges against him. She must buzz off from other people's affairs and mind her own model C affairs. Ja he blacksemmed her and that has nothing to do with Penny. Ahhh buss off you Pennnnny V@##$##$k!!!!Report Abuse
BinoBanga
She failed to remote control DJ Fresh and now u nghenisa-nghenisa nhompfu(nose) ya yena eka timhaka ta vanhu. U njhani mhani ya loyi?Report Abuse
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MoffdatGalfrend
malemaforpresident
thankgodiamblack
Shame you really loved her neh?
"Women please if you decide to cheat, ukufeba on your husbands or boyfriends please breakup with them before you do it, because we put so much energy in you, when we love you the is nothing matters in this world but you and we are so protective over you and that is nature".....................................>>>>and vice versa only difference is that as women we dont have the physical strenghth to assault you,but the same pain you feel when a woman cheats on you,is the very same pain we feel too!
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Ok then lets stop cheating
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thats excatly what im saying.
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Stop living in lalaland lenna. Cheating is sometimes so much more complicated than you may think. For instance most women know long before they find out that their person is cheating.
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okay...your point being?????? Im saying in reference to @ thankgodiamblack's comment,that we as women feel the same pain you feel when your partner has cheated on you.We react by crying or dumping you,or forgiving,or even cheating on you so we can be even. Men on the other hand,phyisically abuse us when we cheat...so whats your point?
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BinoBanga
Wena Bonang stop allowing ur popularity and this thing of you being a celebrity to get into your headand mess you up!!!! Hi nga hembelani and Im not saying that men have to raise their hands on women-no! We have to respect women in all ways, yet women should also return the courtesy. Wena wena wena Bonang wa kona, that affair is not between you, DJ Euphonik and Penny but between wena na DJ ntsena so vo Penny and Senny na vo Jackky na vo mani mani henny should buzzz offf man!
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Hosh6Galfrend
What do you do run to the courts to force maintenance?
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If you are not taking care of your responsibilities hell yah...but a real man wont be dragged to court just to support his child.
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Moffdat
GalfrendI was referring to the part where you both said 'stop cheating'! Like it was that easy.
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SWEETYK
@ thankgodiamblackYou must thank God that you are alive, no one deserve to be hurt. There is a reason why you passed out. Good Luck and thanks for telling us your story.
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MoffdatGalfrend
I was referring to the part where you both said 'stop cheating'! Like it was that easy.
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Oh I see. But I dont think it was necessary for you to say i must stop living in lalaland.
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BinoBanga
@Galfrend"real man cannot be dragged to court to support his child"
Senwina vavasati mi endla yini ku tshika ku famba mi tswala tswala swihlanginyani?
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Galfrend
Bino - sewsina himina mona kuhulu famba nesu *lol!Report Abuse
Hosh6
GalfrendThere are some women who use children to get even with their exes but that's a topic for another day...all I'm saying is cheat but be prepared to be panel beaten.
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Moffdat
GalfrendStill not a lesbian? lol
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Galfrend
H6 - LOL I get you but no one has a right to hit another human being shame. Why not leave me bathong,is panel beating me going to solve anything?Report Abuse
SWEETYK
GalfrendBino - sewsina himina mona kuhulu famba nesu *lol!
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Frendo uthini lana? phela I'm reading your comments. ***smiling***
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Bino - sewsina himina mona kuhulu famba nesu *lol!
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Frendo uthini lana? phela I'm reading your comments. ***smiling***
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hahahahaa frendo,I dont know what it means,I dont understand Venda,so i just typed what i thought was close to his language lol!!
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Lenyora-Buckselona
@Thankgodimblack.Wow man sorry about that skhokho saka basadi ke dintja mfana.One thing i know is that u ddint wake one morning and decide to check her phone.There is a reason why u decided to check her phone.Its better to be hurt than to live in a fantasy world thinking that your woman is honest kgante she is being chowed left right and center @ work by her colleagues.U are a real man my friend and the reason why im saying this is because u ddint harm her or yourself in any way and u decided to make her pack her bags.Nxa ungratefull woman.Also one thing i hate about nowadys technology is this Facebook and Whatsapp nonsense.I hate these social media with a passion cos thats where manyala happen.Women cheat on these social media mfowethu.Lenna i once checked my womans fone a while back and i found stuff i ddnt anticipate.She was acting dodgy evrytym her fone rang and wudnt answa and she wud reject calls.As hurt as i was i decided never to trust a woman ever ever again.Even if i do get married one day i'll never trust that woman i'd rather trust myself and god.The sooner social media is banned the sooner relationships and marriages will start going back to normal cos they lead to pre-mature divorces and broken families.
I just ask myself who came up with these Facebook,Whatsapp,Mxit and Twitter rubbish.These ppl neeed to be caught and arrested for causing heartache and misery due to these forms of social media nonsense.
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BinoBanga
@Galfrend.It is Tsonga not Venda!! Laughing myself to death!!!!
Jaaah ne!!!!This is interesting!!!!!
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Galfrend
moffdat - lol nah,will tell you oneday when i become one..lolLenyora-Buckselona
@Thankgodimblack.Wow man sorry about that skhokho saka basadi ke dintja mfana..................>Hello to you too BUCKSELONA...News flash,some men are dogs too!
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BinoBanga
@Galfrend.Xi Tsonga i Xi Changani(Shangaan)
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BinoBanga@Galfrend.
It is Tsonga not Venda!! Laughing myself to death!!!!
Jaaah ne!!!!This is interesting!!!!!
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Oh! mara kuyafana...XiTsonga swi swi and Venda ndaa ...okay
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KGS000
@Lenyora-BuckselonaI feel what you saying bra, I will never love or trust a woman like I did basadi when you treat them like Queens they treat you like a slave ba batla bona bo Euphonick and say were are soft mxxxm
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KGS000@Lenyora-Buckselona
I feel what you saying bra, I will never love or trust a woman like I did basadi when you treat them like Queens they treat you like a slave ba batla bona bo Euphonick and say were are soft mxxxm
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he he he these men.
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BinoBanga
@GalfrendBinoBanga
Hey hey hey hey!!!! galfrend!!! Se u vula yini sweswo na? A swi vulavuli leswi u nga swi tsala la!!! anele ndzi ku dyondyisa ku vulavula XiTsonga sister.
It simply means "What r u trying to say"? What you wrote has no meaning/does not make sense, one have a lot to teach you on how to speak Xi Tsonga my sister!!
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Galfrend
But do you know that the reason why some women cheat is because they are pushed by men who cant let a skirt pass them by. Men cheat all the time. But do we hit you when you cheat on us? NO!! mara if we do,you assault us. Why is that.and NOT ALL women are cheaters please.well im not sure about men though,I think they ALL cheat.
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KGS000
KGS000@Lenyora-Buckselona
I feel what you saying bra, I will never love or trust a woman like I did basadi when you treat them like Queens they treat you like a slave ba batla bona bo Euphonick and say were are soft mxxxm
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he he he these men.
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@Galfrend
Let me not generalize ma bad not all women
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Galfrend
BINO - LOL was just pulling your leg my brother,I dont understand XI TSONGA,Report Abuse
Galfrend
KG - Good boy,lol. Coz both of you now were beginning to act like men are saints they dont cheat at all.Report Abuse
BinoBanga
@Galfrend.OK!
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SWEETYK
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Galfrend
Bino - sewsina himina mona kuhulu famba nesu *lol!
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Frendo uthini lana? phela I'm reading your comments. ***smiling***
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hahahahaa frendo,I dont know what it means,I dont understand Venda,so i just typed what i thought was close to his language lol!!
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Kikikikikikikikiki tltltltltllltltltltltlltltltllt bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ke Xitsonga frendo hai mara wena kikikikikikikikikikikikiki iya neh IsiVenZu. LOL
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Lumzaa
penny akabheke izindaba zakhe and leave bonang aloneReport Abuse
KGS000
@GalfrendNot all men cheat believe it or not
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BinoBanga
@SWEETYK.Yea!!! you are right SWEETYK, that is ISIVENZU!!
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Galfrend
KG - Well,I choose not to believe it. No man can resist an opportunity to bang another lady. Men are visually stimulated,they only think after they have done the deed. And the sad part we have sisters who throw themselves at men,married or not.Report Abuse
Hosh6
GalfrendYou can speak tsonga wow a woman of many talents...could you please tell your friend Moffdat to back off.
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Bumboklaat
Eish! Ya ke mathata!Report Abuse
BinoBanga
@Hosh6.Speaking Tsonga is not a talent he chief. I ku va munhu a tiva ku vulavula ririmi ro karhi!!!
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Galfrend
lol Sweety k was just playing hahahaaaH6 I wish I could my dear
Bye...this place is a yawn without my Ekapa...
nxa someone just ruined my day uyaz!!!!!
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KGS000
KG - Well,I choose not to believe it. No man can resist an opportunity to bang another lady. Men are visually stimulated,they only think after they have done the deed. And the sad part we have sisters who throw themselves at men,married or not.........................................................................................
@Galfrend
Dats were you're wrong I was never trusted because of that mind set you have, just because you were cheated on in your previous relationships it doesn't mean I'm gonna do that too especially if I know you were treated that way.
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Bumboklaat
Hi Sweet!Report Abuse
SWEETYK
@ GalfrendSkopokopo
MissBhakajuju
MissKinkykamastru
Somaartakeit
Fergie
Dimpho4_U
Mpotje
DeOvi
Khunezwifey
Skepekepe
eKapa
Ratshufi
Bumboklaat
M'zaco'
LeparaMy President
Mokwepa
Les_Ma-Ada
Makhosini
Dzel
KGS000
Lenyora-Buckselona
Dj Winner
Maftown
And other Lovies
Hala hala hala lovies.
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SWEETYK
@ BumboklaatHello my darling long time maan ke eng vele?
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Bumboklaat
@thankgodiamblackEish sorry mfowethu that's sad!
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Hosh6
GalfrendAre you saying I'm a yawn?
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Bumboklaat
@SWEETYK@ Bumboklaat
Hello my darling long time maan ke eng vele?
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Eish net matsatsi a kena le allergy ya dimpya tseding mo blokong! So ne ke tswile sebabo sese dangerous!
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KGS000
@SWEETYKHow are you sweetness?
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Galfrend
H6 - No boyfriend,you are not a yawn. I just miss eKAPA.im getting paranoid,what if?what if...yoh what if he died? how will i know?
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P4T
Another Rhianna and and Chris Brown escapade perhaps?Whaterever though, B is a smart girl who has likely calculated costs vs benefits of the law suit versus concentrating on the blooming career.
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Galfrend
cl!ckekapa
clivage
ladygaga
sweetcandy aka candyboy
tsek aka lovelace
nevus
mthondoongengqondo,lmao
mattz
cake
blumy
................................> i miss you guys where are you ?
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Hosh6
GalfrendYou dont have to know...why do you worry 'bout someone who isn't concerned about you?
Bumboklaat
How are you Bra Japhta lol
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Galfrend
H6 - ouch but i care,if you or one of my cyber friends had to go awol i would worry,im like that..so does it mean you are not concerned about me?Report Abuse
SWEETYK
Bumboklaat@SWEETYK
@ Bumboklaat
Hello my darling long time maan ke eng vele?
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Eish net matsatsi a kena le allergy ya dimpya tseding mo blokong! So ne ke tswile sebabo sese dangerous!
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LOL!! nna ke di phomotse ga ke sa dibona ga ke tla kamo mpya enngwee etla kamo kere thanks ke shapiwa ke mowa. Ke eng iyo o fodile mare?
@ KGS000
I'm supermagodolocious love, thanks for asking.
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Hosh6
GalfrendIf I don't tell you about my whereabouts it means I don't care 'bout you...eKapa doesn't have to be here all day long he has to tell you why he is scarce so you can stop worrying about him.
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Galfrend
H6you have a point, but i cant help worry still.
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Hosh6
BumboklaatBra Japhta don't you want gordons nip?
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SWEETYK
@eKapaWhere are you skeem saka? things are getting rough here o wa senyegelwa. lol
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Hosh6
GalfrendIt's ok to worry but don't over do it...it's fine really here's my shoulder babe you can lean on me don't be scared.
SWEETYK
Why don't you shut up already!!!!!
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Galfrend
H6 - LOL and if i over worry? hey chancers...lolingReport Abuse
clevergirl
Bonang needs support.I have been there I know,it`s just not easy,nevertheless, for her to drop charges against him, is wrong,because,he will do it again and again.I feel sorry for her,because ga go easy,on one side this is the man that she sort to love(she has soft spot for him),ka go je lengwe,he is hurting her,big time and Euphnik knows exactly that Bonang loves him,he knows her week points and is using that to his benefit.Bonang,I am so sorry,be strong,seek for professional help,u zo ba ryt sisi,ryt!Report Abuse
KGS000
@SWEETYKHow is your day so far lovie??
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Hosh6
GalfrendI'm no chancer...wena you can lean on my shoulder and let me do the worry for you.
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Lenyora-Buckselona
@GF.Hello my dear sister.Im not saying all women ke dintja its just that my heart is bleeding for @Thankgodimblack cos i know what he is going through.basadi babang habana dankie,dankie yabona ke plate yamasepa.@ KGS000.Es waar boss love them but dont trust them women cos nna i dont wanna end up kete hanger or kebodisa yena lenxosi yaka nd myself.Its just that its not in me to raise a hand to a woman i have way too much pride.I'd rather walk away nd leave her with that other guy,cos my future will be @ stake shud i do sumthing drastic.
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KGS000
@Lenyora-BuckselonaYou have a good head on your shoulders bra much respect
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Lenyora-Buckselona
@Clevergirl.Chances are there is sumthing you did to get the treatment metted to you.Like @ Thankgodimblack said we men are visual and territorial when it comes to our women.So any sign of infedilty from a womans side can spark a whole lot of reaction from a man.Thats why Lenna i alwys tell my woman that instead of cheating on me rather she tell me she dont want me anymore and spare me the heartache of finding owt l8ter that she has been cheating all along.@ SweetyK.Hello to u too my swerrie finaly i've been inducted in the hall of fame(halla list).
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Lenyora-Buckselona
@KGS000.Thanx boss i appreciateReport Abuse
spekepeke1
Bonang is such a forgive person, i like herReport Abuse
spekepeke1
Hosh6H0la wat se? nna my heart is bleeding today, feel like i lost my other half
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MAILBOX
Kaylae what a sad story and sorry for what you went through in life , hope you find peace and that is what i always tell my man that when he is tired of me he must just tell me and go and do what he wants .Report Abuse
Hosh6
spekepeke1Aaaggg come on dude did a woman break your heart?Do a Euphonic on her lol
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Hosh6
I'm outta hereReport Abuse
spekepeke1
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Mhambuma1
You will never know what actually caused Bonang to drop the charges in order to "settle" out of court. I guess she misses the action between the sheets.Report Abuse
MsHollyHerb
kodwa where did they get this pic of Queen B, Ngathi isidudla nje esithile la, u would think she wears size 38Report Abuse
Galfrend
MsHolly,unjani ntombi :)Report Abuse
naughtynaughty
THANK YU BONANG ITS YO CHOICE YU DONT OWN ANYONE A CHOICE - NITHANDA GQITHA INDABA ZABANTU.Report Abuse
MsHollyHerb
GalfrendMsHolly,unjani ntombi :)
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ngiphiphe dade ntombi lokhu okungasho lutho, sibongu ukuwufaka siwukhiphe nje my darling
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SWEETYK
@ SowetanLa bona mare ge di kae dicomment tsaka.
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Galfrend
MsHolly - ungasho uphinde ntombi. wona ubalulekile umphefumulo. ngiyajabula ma uphilile kahle ntombi. Have a good evening :)Report Abuse
naughtynaughty
THANK YU BONANG ITS YO CHOICE YU DO NOT OWE ANYONE AN EXPLANATION - NITHANDA GQITHA INDABA ZABANTU.Report Abuse
Galfrend
Sweety - gal o sa le mo? nne ke le kgale o vaile.Report Abuse
Tsar-Rasputin
Hi GalfredComing to Penny, she angry that Fresh dumped her and is a friend to DJ Euphonik.
Get over Fresh!!! You are lucky he did not give u hot klap with those muscles.
Thinking of it I want DJ fresh to spank me!!!
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Tsar-Rasputin
I can imagine conversation between Fresh le DJ Euphonik"E fresh ex ele ya gago ena le mase###, I can see why u dump her"
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siantando
MS B you are mzantsi RIHHANA she drop the charges on CHRIS BROWN .... DJ EUPHONIk aka CHRIS BROWNReport Abuse
Tragedy
if the guy has done her wrong and apologised why not forgive him, why not drop charges. When two lovers fight there will be bad blood, exchanging of blows and swearing but they realize they are human and to forget everything and move is to forgive and forget. If she persued those charges against Euphonik i would say that she is not over him yet, but now it shows that she is independent and have proven herself and to her followers that you can actually get over someone.So people being disappointed by someone who never promised them anything is scarry.Report Abuse
booze1984
I was not going to drop them if I were her, but I am not!!Report Abuse
Britata
Go uephonic,next time u must scar herReport Abuse
malizho1
IGNORE FOOLS TO AVOID NOISE, YOU MADE A WONDERFUL CHOICE. YOU ARE THE BEST IN FACT I PREFER BESTESReport Abuse
melmak
@ Papage, “You sound like you enjoy hurting women” I hope u are still growing up boy because what you just said now shows exactly that you are not matured yet. A man talking like this…..mhhhh remember you will be having kids one day (maybe u already have) you are the one who have to take care of them and make sure that they don’t get hurt by other guys out there. So just think before u type stupid staff tu!!Report Abuse
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