Pitfalls of girls dating older men
MANY young girls think it is good to date older men. But what they are not aware of is that these men just want to sleep with them and vanish after fulfilling their lust - leaving them with not only broken hearts but sexually transmitted diseases.
Being poor does not imply that you must sleep with men old enough to be your father. Channel your energy towards something of value, your education. Life rewards people who work hard. Dating an older man for money is not the right thing to do. Older men know that young girls are vulnerable, easy to please, dependent and longing for material things.
These men are married and have children of your age, always remember that. Another thing to keep in mind is that you are not his only girlfriend.
He will lure you with his belongings, buy you expensive gifts and even take you to school in his expensive car - remember, he is someone else's daddy and he won't divorce his wife of many years because of you. You might think that you're in love, but guess what, you're not. Sex is what he needs from you. Wait until you are pregnant with his child - he will leave you and perhaps move on to your friends.
Take note of the brilliant future ahead of you. Work towards fulfilling your dreams, not destroying them.
I appeal to you all young girls to think about your future and forget about dating older men because it is indeed sad to witness broken futures because of quick pleasures of sex and alcohol.
Makroty Sokana, Ga-Ramokgopa
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CheeseBoy
Wise words but it goes both ways Makroty. sometimes these little whores throw themselves at men knowing fully well he is married and has other girls. I once dated three girls at the same time from TUT and they both knew it, only thing is I was till single then.Report Abuse
RobinH
And not all older men are married predators with multiple girlfriends. Madam, you insult the decent men of the world. Older men may be divorced, or widowed. Older men do have libidos too, and if a younger woman is attracted to an older man (and this DOES HAPPEN, and NOT always for financial gain) then what is the problem. An older man is possibly even more aware of the needs of women, having had more experience. Is often very capable of plain old simple affection (which is NOT a sexual thing), and very often treat their younger partners with utmost respect and care. I would really suggest that you do a bit more research before writing such prejudicial nonsense you simply suck out of thin air.Report Abuse
dre10
This thing is caused either by money or a lack of father figure in the girls upbringing.Report Abuse
Tabza325is
Makroty I have to agree with CheeseBoy on this one, I've seen it happen many time were young girls target older men and go after them knowing that some can't resist, look at Bheki Cele ugly loaded with cash and heavely connected he is married to a beautifull young woman older enough to be his daughter. Woman should stop playing victim whenever other woman decide to become gold diggers, Makryoty you should stop defending gold digging as young innocent girls being taken advantage off, no one is taking advantage of this horny young girls, they are after money, they are hutlers using golding digging to make money and I say more power to them, if this old bustards old enough to be your father gives you money, buys you cars and all you need then take it, clean the old foughts for all they have, Kanyi Mbau did it to Mandla and other old foughts, and I say big-ups to her.Report Abuse
Ann
if only young gals could read this article and listenReport Abuse
XiGaza
come on sowetan, if you did proper research you wuld hav found that they are so aware that the relaxinxip is sexual only.Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
So trueMost "democracy kids' dnt think of the furture and the consequences of their actions. It might be trill seeking........ money, clothes, "status" the works............. and they always brag to each about how hot they are and how they have the oldies wrapped around their pinkies. How I wish that the same energy and tenacity they have for "wordly things" they would have it for their studies
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Majooooro!!
I am a married man who use to have many younger girlfriend this article open my wounds because i feel like i was using this kids, it is true they want money from older people is a shame what i was doing! i wish they can find a space in their heart to forgive me!Report Abuse
Switlipz
@majoooorolol-bro.
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Mellow
the thought of kissing some old fool makes me wanna puke let alone seducing or riding him eeuuuuwww some girls are brave or are they just desperate? how the hell do you allow yourself to be caressed by some old grandpa? women needs to value themselves and shouldnt settle for crap no amount of money should let them be used like that, nothing in life comes free and its sad cause they will never know how it feels how to be loved as they are only used for sex, no emotions no love feelings, no care just sex plain sex with some old cow? NO THANK YOU I WILL PASSReport Abuse
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